Need some advice on this girl please! 10 pts!?

I know its long but I write pretty well!





When I asked out this girl over a month ago she explained she is in the middle of something weird with her friend who wanted to a break so she didn't want to get close to me to hurt me, so ';not right now';. After a month of being friendly %26amp; talking everyday %26amp; getting lunch over spring break I asked her again and basically she is still really attached to the guy %26amp; can't move on. She said that when we first met me she liked me %26amp; was attracted to me but can't get into anything cause she still hangs out with him a lot and they are still like best friends.





I said the only way for me to move on is to cut her off and we shouldn't talk anymore; I might have hurt her because she stormed out the moment our class ended.





I apologized saying I still want to be friends. When I asked if she had no feelings for me she agreed and said that she never got the feeling that I liked her %26amp; that I always seemed distant. I asked what she wanted going forward and she said she just wanted to return to where thing were.





We kind of just went back to before and kept talking although a bit more awkward. %26amp; I almost completely gave up on her until she found out that I passed out yesterday and called concerned and made sure I was okay. And tonight we spent a couple hours ';studying'; but really was just hanging out and talking.





I'm not getting my hopes up (and probably will never ask her out again) but is this something someone do when they have no feelings for you?





Btw. We are in college and shes the innocent and emotional type.Need some advice on this girl please! 10 pts!?
Ok here is the deal. She only sees you as a friend, and she wants you around, but not in the way you want to be around. She has an attachment to this other guy because he is probably familiar chaos. What I mean by that is we as women normally gravitate towards what's normal even if it causes us stress when we are younger because we are still trying to figure ourselves out.





This guy is probably emotionally unavailable or just not ready to be what she wants him to be right now, and if you were to ever dig deep enough you will find that somewhere else in her life which is why she remains connected to that, and make you scratch your head and ask why would she choose something like that over a good guy like you. She is not there yet, but she wants to be that why she wants you around because she wants the other guy to be a combination of who he is and who you are.





I do think you need to cut communication for a while so you can take yourself out of it (meaning your feelings), and pick it back up at that time. Last, you don't always know what you got until it's gone, but in order to grasp that concept, you have to be gone first.





Good Luck!Need some advice on this girl please! 10 pts!?
honestly I kinda get the feeling shes playing games...but at the same time im thinking she likes but is afraid to admit it........maybe the first time she rejected you was because she didnt want your frienship to change..lol GOOD LUCK





and GOD Bless
It looks like she was concerned. Maybe she values you as a friend, I don't think you should let anything get in the way. Friendships likes these have a spark, but don't rush anything, she still likes the other guy so just give her some time. Be friendly with her so she knows you're much better (:





For now, friends.
It sounds like she has feelings for you but it still hung up on some other guy. Either wait until the other guy is out, and hope she doesn't get back with him, or stop being her friend. Unless you can stay friends with her while you wait, i think it could be hard on you. It's weird that she didn't know you liked her when you had asked her out twice, that's a pretty good indication that someone likes you. If you can handle waiting give her some time and see if she ever gets over the other guy, but maybe tell her how you feel. Sorry that isn't a whole lot of help.