I need advice, about a girl and a friend please?

I know that most people here would probably tell me to just go for it with this girl, but its not that easy. Any real advice is appreciated. Ok so here is the story.





My two best friends are this girl Jen who I've been friends with for almost a year, and Mike and we've been friends for about 10 years. Well around October of last year Jen broke up with her boyfriend of two years and she was completely heartbroken. Naturally me and Mike were there to comfort her and that is mainly how we became really close. She confides in both of us and we care about each other so much.





Mike started devloping feelings for her over these past few months, and I thought he had a crush on her. So Mike and Jen talked about their feelings and they both decided that they wouldn't want to risk ruining their friendship. Jen handled this pretty badly and became very upset by this. Since then me and Mike both thought his feelings for Jen would go away but he is in love with her now and its killing him.





Sorry for the long backstory. Anyway about a month ago the three of us where at Mikes house and we were all drunk. We were all laying on his couch and Jen was laying across my lap, and before I knew it me and Jen were hooking up. After about 2 minutes of hookin up we both stopped because we realized Mike was there and he was upset. Luckily me and Mike worked things out and nothing changed between us. But since then I've started to have feelings for Jen. Jen and I agreed that it was just a drunk hook up. Last week she called me and told me about this party thats in a week or two and wants me to go with her to the party. These parties are famous for everybody hooking up when they go there. I know that Jen only invited me to go with her, but do you think she wants to hook up again?





And then on Friday I went to the movies with 6 of my friends and I ended up sitting next to Jen. About ten minutes into the movie Jen grabbed my hand and we just started holding hands for the rest of the movie. Jen told me that she loved holding hands with me because she misses doing that with her old boyfriend.





I'm just confused because I love this girl, and she is giving me all these signals that she might want to start something up. But what if I'm completely off and she finds out that both me and Mike like her? She didn't handle finding out that Mike liked her well, so I don't want to ruin anything with her.





What do you guys think?I need advice, about a girl and a friend please?
im guna put it plain


i basically love my best m8 who is a girl


but bros b4 hoes


if she comes in between u nd mike


then dont botherI need advice, about a girl and a friend please?
Deep inside you if you want this gal go with it.





Let your heart guide you.





Good luck