I Need Some Advice About A Girl Please !?

there's a girl in my college who is my good friend at the moment.. i've been mates with her since September (the start of college)... more recently, she has asked me to be her BF... i do like her but the only problem is she smokes, drinks, goes clubbing every weekend and even possibly smokes weed... i just think we have nothing in common. i dont know whether to go out with this girl or not.. when i told her what i thought.. she said 'you should like me for who i am'





what should i do?I Need Some Advice About A Girl Please !?
what she sais is true, you shuld like her for who she is and not dislike her jus bcos she does sum things that you dont like. everyone has good points and bad points but you learn 2 love them for who they are and take the good wiv the bad. if you do rele like this girl and decide to be her boyfriend then maybe your dislike for smoking and drinkin may rub off on her and she may not do it as much because it will upset you. jus go with the flow and just see how it goesI Need Some Advice About A Girl Please !?
Honestly, I wouldnt go out with that kind of girl


First she asked u to be her BF which is kinda demeaning


She smokes,drinks, weed possibly u said


U have nothng in common


Besides she cant force u to like her by saying ';u should lke me for who i am';. it's kinda like she's tryna blackmail u wth guilt in a way so dont fall for dat. Afterall u dont love her for who she is, just be honest and dont deceive her. She cant force u, go out with her if u like her or just let her know u just wanna be friends
that is true you should like her for who she is .. i totaly agree with that.. but relly ya can not trust a girl who does all those things.. in my opinion i wud tell her that she needs to stop the weed....and try cut down on the drinking and stuf if she really wants to be with you she will do it ...








hope this helps :D
if she's not prepared to make sacrifices in life them she isn't the one... she has many years ahead of still doing those things and won't give them up til she has had her fun. it will be a long while till she grows up im afraid so i wouldn't count on it. find someone genuine and be happy =)
well..she should be a bit more understanding.. but shes right..


shes young, and living life how she wants to.. take her how she is and hope she grows out of it.. or just leave her be.


good luck..x