HELP! i need advice with this girl(i'm a lesbian btw)?

ok i am a teenage lesbian and i'm not out of my closet. I have had a crush on this girl from my school for quite a while now. I have had a strong suspicion that she has had a crush on me too specially after my best friend who i told about this told me she was often looking at me:) Well i decided that i should talk to her the next time i had a good chance (i had had a few good chances before but i was just too shy to say anything). Well a few days ago she actually asked me something. i answered her and smiled and she smiled back:D well i kinda wanna take the next step now. i wanna talk to her but i don't know how. How should i approach her without making it obvious???


ps. i just wanna start off with a friendship just to make shure u knowHELP! i need advice with this girl(i'm a lesbian btw)?
Well you started off good with ';just friends'; before making a move, thats good because you wont confuse her if she happens to be straight








But did u ever thought she looks at you cuz, you look at her alot? so she probably is just staring at you cuz shes like ';why is that girl looking at me'; or maybe you are in the certain direction that she usually stare atHELP! i need advice with this girl(i'm a lesbian btw)?
if you know her name walk up and ask her a question about school or whatever. just get her talking. its easy. then suggest u get together as friends. take it from there. skip the fear. take the first step. the other steps will take care of themselves. have a great time!
Friends first....date next...love last...tell her how u feel because there is nothing like becoming friends and then finding out they like u....say ur not sure of what to do so lets start off slow...most people respect that..best of luck :D
why dont you start by inviting her out with you and your mates then it wont seem to obvious, and you'll feel a bit more at ease knowing your mates are there too.





go to the pictures or bowling say a few of you are going and thought she might want to come, you never know what she'll say. Then take it from there.





but becareful not to get hurt though x
well first make srue she is also gay so that it wont be akward if you ask her out adn she is like...umm yea...bout that





but if she is, then i'd say go for it, meaning be friends wiht her, and if you really like her, then ask her out. good luck =]]
Well, you guys are of the same sex. So, just find a common interest whether it be a TV show, movie, etc. Just start off as friends and maybe it'll grow into a relationship.
weeellll here is what i would do.... get a group together... go to the movies. get her number in the group. later text her and keep texting her until you think you are better friends. keep talking to her in person. the more nervous you are the more obvious it will be. eventually ask her to come over to hang out or something. then have her spend the night one day and i know its corny but play truth or dare...or do what i did when i came out to my best friend... play the ';tell me something i dont know';...about you yet. she actually came out to me at the same time. it was wicked sweet. something i was not expecting. good times good times. sorry about the';....'; im to lazy to do proper punctuation. anyway. please let me know what happens. myspace.com/nemofob








im interested in what you will do as i am almost sure i am going to go through the same thing here soon. thanks -sarah.
Ask her if she wants to do something sometime, go shopping, go to the beach, etc but maybe put little hints that your interested, holding her hand, hugging, head on her shoulder.
Well you could try to sit next to her in class, if you have team works to do try to make a team with her. If you sit near her talk to her about anything... I think you could also like ask for her notes, or some help to understand something you didn't understand (even if you did understand lol)





Good luck !
Just go talk to her. Everyone can use more friends. Make that happen and see where it goes from there.

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