Need some expert advice with this girl from church! 10 points?

Well, I have been going to this church for about 3 months. On my first day there in sunday school class, a girl came over and sat by me. She could have sat anywhere. She asked if this was my first time there and we exchanged names (first names, I still don't know her last name). Since then there has not been much conversation between us. She doesn't really talk to much of anyone, and seems shy. She never really looks at you face to face, just out of the corner of her eye, and she is brief when someone asks her something... never carries a conversation. When we are in the service though she sits by her parents and seems very comfortable around them, looks them in the face, chats and laughs with them, etc.





She has a 3 yr niece, that she gets just before the service ends. I asked her once (in sunday school) ';what is your daughter's name,'; and she looked a little suprised and said ';I don't have any kids, do you mean that little girl... that's my niece.'; Well I inquired a little bit more, but it was hard to keep the conversation going!





Well here are my questions:


1) She wears a ring on each of her ring fingers, do they mean anything? If she has a BF would he sit near her? She is in a singles sunday school class.





2) I'm 33. I don't know how old she is. She looks like she is maybe 22 max... but she looks like one of those people who will always look young. ( I have been told that I look about 6-8 years younger than I am). So maybe she is 25, 28 .. maybe 21? My question is: Is it alright to ask her out? Is it inapporopiate since I only see her at church? And at 33 how young is too young?





I don't know how to go about asking her out... how to get her alone? I guess I feel like why would she want too.





Any help will be very much apprieciated. Best answer 10 points!


Additional facts!


She has been going here for years.


She is going to college for teaching (in her 3rd or 4th term)


It is a conservative baptist church.


I don't want to come across as a creep or a bother!


She is VERY pretty, I might be aiming too high!Need some expert advice with this girl from church! 10 points?
I can help you. First never have the mind set that your aiming too high. Most women perceive you the way that you perceive yourself... so if you start thinking shes out of your league most likely she will too. Theres nothing wrong with asking her out, however you might want to try and build a little more report with her first. TALK to her. Tons of girls are shy and quiet. Its your job to be the man and go start a conversation with her. Be social buddy! Pay attention to her interests and find something that you both have in common. Then let that be your conversation starter. After talking to her for a bit tell her you have to run but you really like talking to her and you think you two should get together sometime. Ask for her number or ask her to go on a date. First dates i recommend something public and relaxing like coffee or tea. This works every time. Just be confidence, and humorous. Women are programed to be attracted to certain things in guys. Also i don't think there is anything wrong with that age gap. Your both adults. I have dated women 10 years older than me. And it worked out great. So have fun buddy.Need some expert advice with this girl from church! 10 points?
this question is worthless without pics!!!!





go after her dude. as long as both of you share interests and common goals, the situation can't be better
Start by steps.





1)Ask her if her trip to the church


was fine.Try to make the conversation


as long as possible.





2)Try to contact her out of church.


Give her your phone number or something.





3)Get to know her and her family better.


When you get to know her and her family


better,there might be a chance that you will


spend more time with her.





4)If she already has a boyfriend,offer to be


her friend or move on to the next girl you


think is fit for you.





*Best Luck for You* -Your Answerer