Sunday, December 27, 2009

Any advice about this girl?

I am a junior in high school and she is a freshmen. We hung out once at my friends house and she told her friend after that she thought i was cute and stuff. I kinda liked her so we hung out like 3 days later but, I was so shy I barely talked to her we were watching a movie and she sat next to me she left the room and came back and sat really close to me but i was too shy to do or say anything, i didnt even get her number from her. I asked her friend if i should txt her and she said yeah so i texted her. I HAVE TEXTED HER 3 TIMES NOW A DAY IN BETWEEN SHOULD I WAIT FOR HER TO TEXT ME NOW? I asked her if she wanted to hang out again she said yea but, she asked me if i had anything in mind and i said no and that was like the end of that. Should I text her first again, WHERE SHOULD WE HANG OUT, do i ask her again, in a group or alone ,any tips on how to start conversation with her and i want to ask her out soon how can i progress stuff or does she even still like me?Any advice about this girl?
Well, keep hanging out with her dude. Look for signs. If she keeps sitting real close to you, maybe nudge up against her and see what happens. Maybe she's just playing hard to get or something. That, or she doesn't like you and just see's you as a friend. I guess it's just sort of too soon to tell. As for conversation, just be yourself. Anything, really. School, parents, stuff like that. If she sees you really care she might come onto you. The last thing you want to do is be fake, though. So if you don't really care about anything she's saying, then you don't really like her.Any advice about this girl?
If she dosen't reply to your text, she isn't worth your time.
honestly, i wouldnt ask her again, i would find a common place like a cafe or like an outdoor mall, or a park where you can just be there and not be pressured......that way you dont sound like a nagg.
im sure shes thinking about the same things you are and hoping you will ask her out soon. ask her to mini golf (kinda lame) but it will get you guys talking and laughing so you wot be as shy. go for it!
get a backbone! haha jk. yeah i would say she's definitely into u, but that could be due to the fact that ur a junior and she's a freshman, so i would be careful. now trust me on this, because i am a girl, u need to make a move. don't be shy girls hate making all the moves because its a risk and we don't like that. but don't worry, from what u've told me, she would like it if u made a move like moving closer or putting ur arm around her. don't ask over a text, that's cowardly. talk to her about school, her family, her interests, her favorite things (ie color, animal). those should probably lead u to another conversation and as u guys get to know each other more and more, u'll be more comfortable and be able to think of things to talk about more easily. if u have reached a dead end in a conversation try thinking of a random question that is somewhat stupid but interesting such as ';if u had a pet rhino, what would u name it?'; or which would u rather questions r good too. as for hang outs, i don't know ur area very well but where i live there's an outdoor mall with a movie theater which is very popular, there is a rec center with ice skating that is also favored, and lastly in the warmer months there is park that a lot of couple go to. just try places that u hang out with ur other buddies.
Wait for her to text back or you will sound very desperate though :)

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