Need a little advice with a girl I have been seeing.?

never thought I'd be the one asking a question on this site, but I guess I was wrong :P. So this is the deal. I have been seeing a girl for 2 months, and have never fell this hard and fast for anyone before. We have a lot of chemistry, etc. She recently went on a trip to visit a friend in a different state for a week and recently has told me she signed up to go to school there in about 3 months. What should I do? Anyway to stop her? Possibly get her so hung up with me that she cant leave?Need a little advice with a girl I have been seeing.?
Ummm... dude... i think she is a nice girl, but may not be in luv with u... coz if she did, her decision would have never been so easy to go and attend a school away from u... for her, u r a friend, nd i mean also from ur point of view... u wudnt wanna hurt some1 u luv ryt.. so y create an ambience where it bcoms difficult for both of ya afta da 3 months????Need a little advice with a girl I have been seeing.?
Ok, well first, I never though I would Reply to questions, but I know exactly what you should do!





So, I think you should just tell her how you feel. Let her know what you feel, just like you have done in the detailed paragraph. Tell your girl that you have never fallen for anybody this hard and fast before. If she feels the same way, then she might even stay, she might try a long distance relationship or she might break it off. But to be honest, communication is key, just talk about it. Don't play immature games to get her to stay. Play Cute ones, like taking her out for a romantic dinner or her favourite show or performance. Those will make her realize she's going to miss you and being with you is what she wants.





I hope that you two find a way to be together!
Leave her to go.. she's going for educational purposes, I'm sure you would hate to get in the way of that, that is if you really love/like her. Its her future, her choices, your talking about.





Also just because she is going to move, it doesn't mean you can't be together, unless you don't approve of long distance relationships (I personally don't, but its your love life, not mine)





Good luck!
Tell her how you feel and say is there anything i can do to keep you here? i'm so afraid of loosing you that its killing me inside and just express yourself and then if she says she has to go tell her do you want me to wait for you and if she says yes then do so!
if you really care about her, you would let her go have fun and experience life. how long will she be there for? if its longer than like 6 months or so than you guys should probably take a break. if not, than try to keep the relationship going and let her know how much you'll miss her. call her while she's there
dude that sucks try to get there too! if not then ya just gotta take that hit and hope it doesnt knock you down too hard! thats alls you can do cause if you try to get her hung up on you your gonna do it ina creepy way and you might not see it but everyone will
Don't stop her. She'll hold it against you in the future. Best advice is that if its meant to be it will be. Consider doing long distance and see how it goes. If your really that crazy about eachother a little distance won't change that.
TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! TRUST ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IF YOU DONT YOU WILL KICK YOURSELF FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!





I just let the greatest thing in my life go to Santa Monica without me even telling her how i felt (I LOVED HER). Now im stuck in boston and she'll never know how I felt. Dont make the same mistake as me bro....it sucks waking up everyday knowing i had a chance
Its nice to hear that you like her so much but its her decision. You can't stop her from doing something like that because it could affect her future. You could still keep contact but if you don't let her go, then you are being too selfish. xx
If you really care about her you should let her go. If it is something she really wants it will show her how much you care. It will also strengthen your relationship being so far away. Trying to stop her will only tear you apart.
you don't make her make a choice.





If you really cared about her you would let her do what she wants. hopefully what she wants involves you.





maybe you could go to school there.
no no no, you have to let her do what she needs to or you will push her away. just tell her you will miss her and that you don't want her to go but you HAVE to let her
I feel the same way.


Unfortunately, you cannot make her stay.


You can always keep in touch with her.
sorry buddy, its a done deal, you could try to hold a long distance relationship?. but sometimes the best way to love someone is to let them go.
you have to respect her decisions and you cant be selfish with her... if the friend she visited was a guy then its a different story
That's pretty manipulative. That's not love. Let her go.
tell her how you feel


make the time she has left, the best time


so when she leaves, she will no u love her


but long distant relationships dont work


good luck x
most girls like taking things slow but other's don't if she takes it slow give time to each other
Is she wants to go, let her. But try to keep in contanct with her.
tell her how you fell and that u dont want her to go. give her time to think and a little space. if she loves u she'll stay. ;]
Ask her out on a date and see where it goes from there.Be nice and romantic.
sit her down and tell her exactly how you feel. communication is the key. if she feels the same then she will be open to your opinion on what she should do.
it's her choice...good luck
just tell her how you feel
There is a saying that if you love someone you must set them free and if they are yours, they will come back.


This lady going to school is an investment in her future, and I think you should let her go with your blessing. There is absolutely no reason why you can't have a long distance relationship, and technology has evolved to a point where you can constantly communicate via text, calls, email, web-cam etc.


You can see ech other during her school breaks. Many successful couples have encountered such challenges in their relationships, and have endured.


You need to have a frank chat with her, express your feelings, make sure that the feelings are mutual, and determine whether the love you share is strong enough to deal with the separation.


Yes, you will miss each other, but you must allow her to educate herself, as if you don't she may resent you in the future.


I wish you good luck.