Hello, I am a 10th grader, at highschool.. There is this girl that I really like, who is in 9th grade.. We have have 1 class togther, and we have been in same class 3 times so far this year. I am an aid for the class.. This girls face always gets red when I see her in the hallway, and she has a little smile. She has been my neighbor (2 blocks away) for 3 years. I am pretty shy at school, and she is also.
What should I do, i really want to start talking with her, but not sure how..? Should I talk to her in the Class, leave it alone? or what??
THANK YOU FOR YOUR HELP :)I like this one girl,please give me advice.?
start talking with her by maybe asking her what she thought of a certain test or homework , and then just let it progress slowly
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Friday, April 30, 2010
HELP ME PLEASE~ young girl needs car buying advice?
so i'm a young girl (18) and i found a jeep grand cherokee online that i want to buy, so i'm going to the dealership tomorrow to test it out and everything, but i'm scared that if i decide to buy it im going to get ripped off since i'm just a dumb little blonde girl who knows literally nothing about cars. how do i avoid this? please help me!! :/HELP ME PLEASE~ young girl needs car buying advice?
Is the car new or used? Depending on whether it's new or used, the approach would be different. With new cars, you would have to do some research upfront to find out about rebates and what most people buy the car for. With used cars, its not as clean cut, so you would need to find out what the going price for that particular car is. A good place to start is by getting all the details of the car and using kbb.com or Edmunds.com to see what the sale price range is. You should also find a mechanic that would be willing to go and inspect the car for you to make sure its free of serious problems. Also, remember that the sale price doesn't include taxes and fees, so you would need to take those into account during your negotiations. The best thing to do is to be prepared and watch out for the finance guy, they get creative with the math sometimes and like to sell you a lot of useless stuff. Oh lastly, if you bring a friend, make sure your friend knows what he/she is doing and have one person negotiate.HELP ME PLEASE~ young girl needs car buying advice?
I hate to say it, but the only thing to do would be to take your father or some other older male with you. Not only could you get ripped, you might not get taken seriously either. I know that sucks, but look at it from a salesmans position; here is a young girl, barely of an age to buy a car by herself. The current economy dictates that unless for some reason you have cash, there is no way you are going to be able to buy this car on credit alone. So, he talks to the pretty little blonde, just to pass some time. I seriously doubt he is going to think he is getting a sale out of it. Sorry, just the way it works I guess. Good luck.
I would ask someone more knowleadgeable in cars to go with you to the dealership. Dealers love uneducated consumers and will definitely try to up the price.
Lesson #1: Never accept dealer price, it is always negotiable
Lesson #2: Do not buy all those extras Finance manager tries to sell you (additional coverage, tire care, etc...)
Is the car new or used? Depending on whether it's new or used, the approach would be different. With new cars, you would have to do some research upfront to find out about rebates and what most people buy the car for. With used cars, its not as clean cut, so you would need to find out what the going price for that particular car is. A good place to start is by getting all the details of the car and using kbb.com or Edmunds.com to see what the sale price range is. You should also find a mechanic that would be willing to go and inspect the car for you to make sure its free of serious problems. Also, remember that the sale price doesn't include taxes and fees, so you would need to take those into account during your negotiations. The best thing to do is to be prepared and watch out for the finance guy, they get creative with the math sometimes and like to sell you a lot of useless stuff. Oh lastly, if you bring a friend, make sure your friend knows what he/she is doing and have one person negotiate.HELP ME PLEASE~ young girl needs car buying advice?
I hate to say it, but the only thing to do would be to take your father or some other older male with you. Not only could you get ripped, you might not get taken seriously either. I know that sucks, but look at it from a salesmans position; here is a young girl, barely of an age to buy a car by herself. The current economy dictates that unless for some reason you have cash, there is no way you are going to be able to buy this car on credit alone. So, he talks to the pretty little blonde, just to pass some time. I seriously doubt he is going to think he is getting a sale out of it. Sorry, just the way it works I guess. Good luck.
I would ask someone more knowleadgeable in cars to go with you to the dealership. Dealers love uneducated consumers and will definitely try to up the price.
Lesson #1: Never accept dealer price, it is always negotiable
Lesson #2: Do not buy all those extras Finance manager tries to sell you (additional coverage, tire care, etc...)
I need some serious advice on a girl?
There's this girl i like in my latin class, who was in my class last year and i liked her, and now shes in it again this year. i never had friends in this class, cuz theres only one latin class, and theres older kids and what not. the point is im really awkward in this class. I was last year too. So her perception of me could be that im a creeper . I've never talked to her before either.
Believe it or not, im really not that awkward of a kid, and i have some pretty popular friends some of whom i sit with at lunch, which she is also in. Whenever i see her outside of latin, i always try to make up for my awkwardness by making a scene with my popular friends and what not, compensating. Well, i think im just about in her league, and i think appearence wise she'd go for me. But i feel like such a loser when ever im around her, and i just freeze up. i have friends who are girls who i talk to, i guess it's a history i have with her for which i've always been shy and i can't seem to step out of that shadow. Any advice?I need some serious advice on a girl?
Just be yourself. Don't make a scene when you are with your popular friends. As a girl, I find that to be a bit ridiculous and it only makes you seem like you are starving for some attention. I need some serious advice on a girl?
have a mutual friend talk to her for you
Believe it or not, im really not that awkward of a kid, and i have some pretty popular friends some of whom i sit with at lunch, which she is also in. Whenever i see her outside of latin, i always try to make up for my awkwardness by making a scene with my popular friends and what not, compensating. Well, i think im just about in her league, and i think appearence wise she'd go for me. But i feel like such a loser when ever im around her, and i just freeze up. i have friends who are girls who i talk to, i guess it's a history i have with her for which i've always been shy and i can't seem to step out of that shadow. Any advice?I need some serious advice on a girl?
Just be yourself. Don't make a scene when you are with your popular friends. As a girl, I find that to be a bit ridiculous and it only makes you seem like you are starving for some attention. I need some serious advice on a girl?
have a mutual friend talk to her for you
Women, I need some advice on this girl I like?
I lift weights at a fitness center and the other day I talked to this girl who was working out too. I was smiling with her and she was smiling back while we were talking and stuff. she's very pretty and cute too. Then this morning I was working out and she came in so I said hey how are you doing . she said fine how are you ? I dont remember what i said but anyways ..... 15 min later I was done with lifting and I saw her doing her abs on the exercise ball so I went over to talk to her. I introduced myself and she said her name. then i said so you're doing your abs huh she said yeah. Then I said do you wanna hang out sometime or do you have a boyfriend? she said i have a boyfriend. then I was like ok well we can talk here at the gym right and she said YEAH . then I said ok my name is Jeremy and i shook her hand and she said her name again. it was kinda odd that i said my name again . I said take care then... I need women to tell me if she will still talk to me and I am wondering if she really has a boyfriend or not ? I feel better that I asked her at least and not been saying what if and not asking her out.. I hope I didnt scare her and hopefully she still talks to me still what do you women think?Women, I need some advice on this girl I like?
if you see her again just be like hey, or how are you. she probably does have a boyfriend, but dont come on too strong, dont be all creepy and bother her you know. just keep your distance but still be friendly. goodluck :)Women, I need some advice on this girl I like?
She could or could not have a bf. I think you will find out soon if she does or not. Just be yourself and if nothing else you may have made a new friend. Enjoy it for what it is today and see where it goes from here.
If she pused and made a weird sound. She is perably making it up. But if she dint than gust hang out say can we be friends or somthin like that.
if you see her again just be like hey, or how are you. she probably does have a boyfriend, but dont come on too strong, dont be all creepy and bother her you know. just keep your distance but still be friendly. goodluck :)Women, I need some advice on this girl I like?
She could or could not have a bf. I think you will find out soon if she does or not. Just be yourself and if nothing else you may have made a new friend. Enjoy it for what it is today and see where it goes from here.
If she pused and made a weird sound. She is perably making it up. But if she dint than gust hang out say can we be friends or somthin like that.
I could use some advice about a girl?
Well there is a girl that seems pretty uptight we were introduced by friends and chat mostly online. She is very insecure but seems to be opening up a bit to me, I make a few flirty comments and she gets flustered. She is a hard one to get talking so I guess umm yeah what is up? I think she likes me but why not get a second opinion? LOL 11 +points to best answerI could use some advice about a girl?
she probably does like you but is to shy so is taking it slowI could use some advice about a girl?
You don't explain how uptight or why you think this, but if she is just opening up she might be shy. She is not sure how to answer your flirty comments, so she fells embarrassed and flustered. If she is still talking to you, that's a good sign that she is not offending by your comments. She may need a little more coaxing by you to really feel like she can open up to you. When she feels that you are not a threat or will emotionally hurt her, she will open up more.
Don't worry kid she defiantly likes you! Ha but she's probably too scared to talk to you because she's not used to guys going for her and doesn't fully believe in herself. You should try going up to her next time you see her or hang out and just try talking more than small talk. It'll make her feel more comfortable around you. Maybe even give her a real compliment next time you see her... not something you just made up but something you really like about her! It'll boost herself esteem and make her like you even more!
Good Luck With the Ladies!
she probably does like you but is to shy so is taking it slowI could use some advice about a girl?
You don't explain how uptight or why you think this, but if she is just opening up she might be shy. She is not sure how to answer your flirty comments, so she fells embarrassed and flustered. If she is still talking to you, that's a good sign that she is not offending by your comments. She may need a little more coaxing by you to really feel like she can open up to you. When she feels that you are not a threat or will emotionally hurt her, she will open up more.
Don't worry kid she defiantly likes you! Ha but she's probably too scared to talk to you because she's not used to guys going for her and doesn't fully believe in herself. You should try going up to her next time you see her or hang out and just try talking more than small talk. It'll make her feel more comfortable around you. Maybe even give her a real compliment next time you see her... not something you just made up but something you really like about her! It'll boost herself esteem and make her like you even more!
Good Luck With the Ladies!
Made a mistake need advice with a girl i love?
she tried on a dress and asked me if i liked it...she wore tights with it and im like take them off she said fine and and told me to come back in changing room when she finished basically i got in and was checking her out then i saw her hair on her legs... which is almost as much as mine =X and i tld her that she turned me off and left the booth.. i made up with her but before this happened she wanted to offically go out with me last night thru texting im like no i want to make it romantic.. now she still feels uncomfortable around me what can i do? to make it up to her?
1.i myself trim my hair on upper body cuz i'm very athletic
2. i know i'm an idiot iv'e been messing around with so many sluts ain't used to being in a relationship
3.she really means a lot to meMade a mistake need advice with a girl i love?
my advice on ';how to date with a girl';:
1. PLAN YOUR DATE, if you don't want to screw things up, so you better plan it. if you plan your date, you will know where to go in a place that is romantic, comfortable and also a type for her and where to go next and etc and etc.
2. YOU ARE THE MAN FOR HER, always take the lead, be dominant, and ';in charge'; and don't be the dependent one.
3. BE CHIVALROUS, i think women love this, because they are treated as they are as a WOMAN... like opening doors for her and you move her chair and she sits down on it and you sit down like that...
4. BE YOURSELF, i think you already know this
5. COMMUNICATE WITH HER, know her interests, get communicative to eachother, have eye contact, and be funny ( I sometimes do this just to get everyone's attention in class and also the ladies ;) and it works wonderfully!...) and also communication is another form shoving off bad moods, meaning, she will not feel ';uncomfortable'; around you.
i think this is all my advices i could give to you and you are now on your own...
Note: if she wants to be part of paying the bill, accept her money, because she will notice that she is special. Sweet...acne scars
1.i myself trim my hair on upper body cuz i'm very athletic
2. i know i'm an idiot iv'e been messing around with so many sluts ain't used to being in a relationship
3.she really means a lot to meMade a mistake need advice with a girl i love?
my advice on ';how to date with a girl';:
1. PLAN YOUR DATE, if you don't want to screw things up, so you better plan it. if you plan your date, you will know where to go in a place that is romantic, comfortable and also a type for her and where to go next and etc and etc.
2. YOU ARE THE MAN FOR HER, always take the lead, be dominant, and ';in charge'; and don't be the dependent one.
3. BE CHIVALROUS, i think women love this, because they are treated as they are as a WOMAN... like opening doors for her and you move her chair and she sits down on it and you sit down like that...
4. BE YOURSELF, i think you already know this
5. COMMUNICATE WITH HER, know her interests, get communicative to eachother, have eye contact, and be funny ( I sometimes do this just to get everyone's attention in class and also the ladies ;) and it works wonderfully!...) and also communication is another form shoving off bad moods, meaning, she will not feel ';uncomfortable'; around you.
i think this is all my advices i could give to you and you are now on your own...
Note: if she wants to be part of paying the bill, accept her money, because she will notice that she is special. Sweet...
Best friend turned girl friend... I need advice on this?
One of my best friends is now my girl friend... I love her and I couldn't be happier. I am afraid though that if we ever break up... that we will not be friends and if we are still friends, we will never be the same as we were before... I don't want to loose her as my girl friend, but I'd rather loose her as my gf than to loose her friendship. She means the world to me...so what do I do about this situation?Best friend turned girl friend... I need advice on this?
Well, if nothing is wrong with your boyfriend/girlfriend relationship right now, I wouldn't worry about it. This is something you can talk to your girlfriend about though. Explain to her how you feel and that if it should ever come to you breaking up that you would like to remain the same good friends as before.Best friend turned girl friend... I need advice on this?
I actually am in your prediciment rite now (She never became my girlfriend but we got too close). Neways if I were you I would set some ground rules so you both understand. I told her that if anything were to ever happen that she would have to let me explain what I did wrong and talk to me in person atleast once. But if you both love each other that much then I would suggest going out. It will make things less complicated and will keep conversations you don't want to be having out.
i say if she is ur bestfriend to gf she knows what u like and hatge and u do too so u can avoid doing those things and then u might not break up
be open to her and talk to her about your thoughts about your situation to see what can she say about it too. COMMUNICATION is the key......
YIKES! break up!
If and when you break-up, it has to be a nice break-up. Because if it's not then your friendship doesn't have a chance. As long as nothing bad happens during your relationship, and you have a friendly break-up, ya'll can probably still be friends.
See how it goes....even if you break up with her now she might be hurt and say you didn't give her a chance and make sure to give her the chance dont be afriad...and if she really means alot to you she deserves that chance dont take that away from her
Well, if nothing is wrong with your boyfriend/girlfriend relationship right now, I wouldn't worry about it. This is something you can talk to your girlfriend about though. Explain to her how you feel and that if it should ever come to you breaking up that you would like to remain the same good friends as before.Best friend turned girl friend... I need advice on this?
I actually am in your prediciment rite now (She never became my girlfriend but we got too close). Neways if I were you I would set some ground rules so you both understand. I told her that if anything were to ever happen that she would have to let me explain what I did wrong and talk to me in person atleast once. But if you both love each other that much then I would suggest going out. It will make things less complicated and will keep conversations you don't want to be having out.
i say if she is ur bestfriend to gf she knows what u like and hatge and u do too so u can avoid doing those things and then u might not break up
be open to her and talk to her about your thoughts about your situation to see what can she say about it too. COMMUNICATION is the key......
YIKES! break up!
If and when you break-up, it has to be a nice break-up. Because if it's not then your friendship doesn't have a chance. As long as nothing bad happens during your relationship, and you have a friendly break-up, ya'll can probably still be friends.
See how it goes....even if you break up with her now she might be hurt and say you didn't give her a chance and make sure to give her the chance dont be afriad...and if she really means alot to you she deserves that chance dont take that away from her
When a guy seeks advice from a girl, what does it mean?
My crush (who is known for having a big crush on me) asked me to give him some advice about some friend problems and school decisions he had to make.. The fact that he seemed concerned and really seeked my advice made me feel great that he feels comfortable with sharing his issues with me.. However, my friends keep telling me that when a guy seeks advice form a girl, it means he sees her as a friend and nothing more...
This kinda worries me a little.. is this true guys? what do you think?When a guy seeks advice from a girl, what does it mean?
he just needs advice %26gt;.%26gt;When a guy seeks advice from a girl, what does it mean?
he respects you and likes you.
Maybe he thinks this is the way to show he has a crush on you and is comfortable with you. (And likes u)
i would have to agree with your friends...though that's not always the case
maybe he just wants advice, and sense hes crushing on you, your probably his favorite person to talk to, so he asks you.
:)
Psshhhhh, not true.
In my experience it means he likes you, and is trying to impress you.
that doesnt mean he only likes u as a friend, i ask for advice from my girl friends and my gf all the time = )
uhmmm that maybe he wants an advice from a girl? And that maybe that he trusts you! I say it is true that it's a friend thing . . but you can always turn it around. I mean, you got to be friends before you can be anything more right?
Well, there are three reasons why a guy may seek advice from another girl.
1. We want to spend more time with the person.
2. We want to show you we have a deeper side than what we show when we're with a group of people.
3. We want to see if you can be serious and real with us.
The only thing you should be worried about, is if the guy comes talking to you about relationship issues. Around 90% of the time, if a guy is asking you about girl troubles or things like that, he's just using you to get closer to that person, or simply looks to you as a relationship consultant.
Hope that helps :)
it's not really true, i ask a girl (who i like) for her opinion on things in my life quite often actually.
This kinda worries me a little.. is this true guys? what do you think?When a guy seeks advice from a girl, what does it mean?
he just needs advice %26gt;.%26gt;When a guy seeks advice from a girl, what does it mean?
he respects you and likes you.
Maybe he thinks this is the way to show he has a crush on you and is comfortable with you. (And likes u)
i would have to agree with your friends...though that's not always the case
maybe he just wants advice, and sense hes crushing on you, your probably his favorite person to talk to, so he asks you.
:)
Psshhhhh, not true.
In my experience it means he likes you, and is trying to impress you.
that doesnt mean he only likes u as a friend, i ask for advice from my girl friends and my gf all the time = )
uhmmm that maybe he wants an advice from a girl? And that maybe that he trusts you! I say it is true that it's a friend thing . . but you can always turn it around. I mean, you got to be friends before you can be anything more right?
Well, there are three reasons why a guy may seek advice from another girl.
1. We want to spend more time with the person.
2. We want to show you we have a deeper side than what we show when we're with a group of people.
3. We want to see if you can be serious and real with us.
The only thing you should be worried about, is if the guy comes talking to you about relationship issues. Around 90% of the time, if a guy is asking you about girl troubles or things like that, he's just using you to get closer to that person, or simply looks to you as a relationship consultant.
Hope that helps :)
it's not really true, i ask a girl (who i like) for her opinion on things in my life quite often actually.
I need advice about a girl?
I've known this girl for 2 weeks, we've talk on the phone every night for the past 3 or 4 days, she's hat preppy girl who usually never talks to the skater guy like myself, and i'm not too sure how to tell her I like her, because she's already telling me how we're gonna be hanging out over winter break and doing stupid stuff like we teenager do ;), but I'm not sure i want to hang out with her as a friend, because then we may never amount to anything, she's got a boyfriend, but he doesn't go to our school, and lately we have kind of been flirting, but I don't know if she likes me or what, i really need some advice, anyone help?I need advice about a girl?
we'll your in luck because preppy girls love the skater guys. they ad adventure to their protected and pampered life. if shes flirting with you then maybe her boyfriend and her are haveing relationship problems... i give her a lot of credit when it comes to trusting him. Just have a fun time and bring her flowers or bake her cookies to have on your outing. just have fun and i'm sure it could amount to something more than friends. thats how the best relationships start....as friends. and if anythign happenes to her and her boyfriend, whom do you think she will go to...you, the supportive, sweet, fun loving guy who has been there for her.
**** luck!
we'll your in luck because preppy girls love the skater guys. they ad adventure to their protected and pampered life. if shes flirting with you then maybe her boyfriend and her are haveing relationship problems... i give her a lot of credit when it comes to trusting him. Just have a fun time and bring her flowers or bake her cookies to have on your outing. just have fun and i'm sure it could amount to something more than friends. thats how the best relationships start....as friends. and if anythign happenes to her and her boyfriend, whom do you think she will go to...you, the supportive, sweet, fun loving guy who has been there for her.
**** luck!
Please help!!! I need advice NOW!!!!!!! ??? a girl!!! / crush D:?
ok I got to dance with this girl for my first time the little slow kind of dance were you hold her hips and she puts her arms around your neck. We bolth did that cause I got my friend to ask her for me!!! What should I do? Im,excited and happy as hell yet nervous and I may have blew it!!! Why blew it? because when we bolth did that dance I didnt talk to her D: I just stood there and only was there for like one round of a song. D: I laughed with her a little bit and when two friends walked up that were teaseing us saying:aaaaww thats so cute! . Any ways yea we bolth laughed a bit over that and then she told me they were juss jealous about the ';talent'; I have. (which is magic). She always asks me to do a card trick and stuff...I had a whole crowd around me... My friends walked up to her for me and asked '; If (my name) wanted to would you go out with him? And she said sure he just has to ask me. But I wanna get to know her as a friend for a couple months until that... I have fear of approaching girls.. help!Please help!!! I need advice NOW!!!!!!! ??? a girl!!! / crush D:?
Get to know here well enough till u can talk to her with ease and just have fun being around herPlease help!!! I need advice NOW!!!!!!! ??? a girl!!! / crush D:?
aw, stop being so scared! she will date you if you ask her! there's nothing to be nervous about if she likes you back. just talk to her more often. maybe try texting or IMing for a start?
ask her outttttttt
What are we supposed to say? you think we are genies? she likes you for you, you can tell that easily, so ask her out naturally, if you seem nervous she'll know you like her a lot, instead of you just wanting to make her another one of your hoes (which you obviously don't have, good for you)
You should Join me without any hesit.
Go up with your friends. Just talk to her but have a wing man. They will save you if something goes wrong. Its what they are there for.
Just keep things light and fun. Maybe you'll hit on something he is interested in and you guys will click and talk more about it
text her: will you go out with me? it is much easier than asking it in person and do it fast because a girl changes her mind fast... promise
ask he rout...you can get to know her when you two are going out. you didnt mess up you were just nervous
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You already did the hard part, now you should walk up to her make small talk you can start off with the dance how much you enjoyed yourself. Everyday speak even if it's for a few minutes, then take your time hang out with a group of friends and when your comfortable move on to taking her on a date but you are smart and its good that you want to take your time but don't wait to long she's going to think your not interested.
If you;re afraid of telling her to his face, tell her in a cute note. Send her a not telling her that you have a crush on her but you want to get to know her if she's willing.
If you hang out with her and talk to her you'll get to know her very soon. But so that she doesn't lose interest and think your friends we're kidding just tell her that you are interested in dating her, you just want to get to know her first. By the things you said happened, you sound a bit young. Just take it slow, talk to her, spend time with just her. She obviously likes you so you have nothing to be nervous of.
u were just nervous. ask her out. no problem asking her out. my friends pushed me to go out with my new boyfriend. then my bf asked me out.. so there's really no problem asking her out. GO FOR IT!!!
you should learn more about her but i think months is too long. if you wait to long she'll lose interest in you and she already likes you its up to you what to do.Hope i helped
well if you want to go out with her and she said sure, then theres nothing to be scared of. theres pleanty of things in this world to be afraid of and girls arent one of them, believe me :) just go up to her when shes alone and say hey i was wondering if you wanted to go out with me and your've got yourself a girlfriend :)
but if you want her as a friend for a couple of months, it might be a bit late to do that since she already knows you like her. :)
xx
NO !!!!
get to know her first dont rush your self what if shes a complete wierdo ????
dont rush it!!!
Get to know here well enough till u can talk to her with ease and just have fun being around herPlease help!!! I need advice NOW!!!!!!! ??? a girl!!! / crush D:?
aw, stop being so scared! she will date you if you ask her! there's nothing to be nervous about if she likes you back. just talk to her more often. maybe try texting or IMing for a start?
ask her outttttttt
What are we supposed to say? you think we are genies? she likes you for you, you can tell that easily, so ask her out naturally, if you seem nervous she'll know you like her a lot, instead of you just wanting to make her another one of your hoes (which you obviously don't have, good for you)
You should Join me without any hesit.
Go up with your friends. Just talk to her but have a wing man. They will save you if something goes wrong. Its what they are there for.
Just keep things light and fun. Maybe you'll hit on something he is interested in and you guys will click and talk more about it
text her: will you go out with me? it is much easier than asking it in person and do it fast because a girl changes her mind fast... promise
ask he rout...you can get to know her when you two are going out. you didnt mess up you were just nervous
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You already did the hard part, now you should walk up to her make small talk you can start off with the dance how much you enjoyed yourself. Everyday speak even if it's for a few minutes, then take your time hang out with a group of friends and when your comfortable move on to taking her on a date but you are smart and its good that you want to take your time but don't wait to long she's going to think your not interested.
If you;re afraid of telling her to his face, tell her in a cute note. Send her a not telling her that you have a crush on her but you want to get to know her if she's willing.
If you hang out with her and talk to her you'll get to know her very soon. But so that she doesn't lose interest and think your friends we're kidding just tell her that you are interested in dating her, you just want to get to know her first. By the things you said happened, you sound a bit young. Just take it slow, talk to her, spend time with just her. She obviously likes you so you have nothing to be nervous of.
u were just nervous. ask her out. no problem asking her out. my friends pushed me to go out with my new boyfriend. then my bf asked me out.. so there's really no problem asking her out. GO FOR IT!!!
you should learn more about her but i think months is too long. if you wait to long she'll lose interest in you and she already likes you its up to you what to do.Hope i helped
well if you want to go out with her and she said sure, then theres nothing to be scared of. theres pleanty of things in this world to be afraid of and girls arent one of them, believe me :) just go up to her when shes alone and say hey i was wondering if you wanted to go out with me and your've got yourself a girlfriend :)
but if you want her as a friend for a couple of months, it might be a bit late to do that since she already knows you like her. :)
xx
NO !!!!
get to know her first dont rush your self what if shes a complete wierdo ????
dont rush it!!!
Please give me some advice on this girl?
Alright this girl broke up with me and we are friends now. She hangs out with me and my friends everyday cause my friends girlfriend and her are best friends. Its been killing me because i still have feelings for her and ive been keeping them inside. i cant take it anymore, i have to tell her, i have to let her know. Im planning on saying '; Ever since we started hanging out again ive realized i still have feelings for you. Our relationship meant so much to me, im hoping in the future we can be more than just friends again';. Is that too much? Should i change anything around or add anything?Please give me some advice on this girl?
It's perfect. It sounds serious but not creepy, I'm sure she'll take it into consideration.
Good Luck
It's perfect. It sounds serious but not creepy, I'm sure she'll take it into consideration.
Good Luck
I need help or advice with this girl?
I'm a guy, 21 year old college student. and i've meet this girl in my spanish class. we were talking about studying aboard in different countries and stuff. and then one day she asks me if i want to go to Mexico with her next semester. shes really cute. One day i was sick and i asked her if she could drive me to the doctors office, and she did, she would've drove me home, but she had class to go to. and i was sick friday night, and she stopped by, and say hi and stuff. while i was sick in my bed. does she like me? is there a hint that she could like me here? i really don't know what to think. should i possible ask her out? what should i do?I need help or advice with this girl?
Seems like she definitely cares about you. Ask her to hang out, grab a coffee or dinner or something like that. Go to Mexico with her! Mexico is great, you'd have a lot of fun.
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she definitly likes you, ak her out.
but bear in mind that in the first place she wants to be your friend and only second your girlfriend. so for things to workout, you need to have more common activities then sex.
You must spend more time with her. See how she reacts around you. See if she get jealous if you talk to other girls or you can just simply ask her if she likes you in that way.
it's too obvious she's into you, and better than that - she cares about you. Sounds like she's a keeper.
Yeah, it sounds like she really likes you--alot. If she's spending that much time around you and gives you rides to the doctors and comes over and sees you when you're sick AND asks you to go to Mexico with her---dude, she likes you.
Unless she considers you a really close guy friend. However if this was the case she would have made many mentions of how ';close friends'; y'all are, which you haven't mentioned so I'm assuming she just plain likes you.
Ask her out! Take the initiative. Don't sit around waiting for her to make the first move because it sounds like she's trying to let you know that she likes you by hanging out with you so much. Good luck!
acne scars
Seems like she definitely cares about you. Ask her to hang out, grab a coffee or dinner or something like that. Go to Mexico with her! Mexico is great, you'd have a lot of fun.
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she definitly likes you, ak her out.
but bear in mind that in the first place she wants to be your friend and only second your girlfriend. so for things to workout, you need to have more common activities then sex.
You must spend more time with her. See how she reacts around you. See if she get jealous if you talk to other girls or you can just simply ask her if she likes you in that way.
it's too obvious she's into you, and better than that - she cares about you. Sounds like she's a keeper.
Yeah, it sounds like she really likes you--alot. If she's spending that much time around you and gives you rides to the doctors and comes over and sees you when you're sick AND asks you to go to Mexico with her---dude, she likes you.
Unless she considers you a really close guy friend. However if this was the case she would have made many mentions of how ';close friends'; y'all are, which you haven't mentioned so I'm assuming she just plain likes you.
Ask her out! Take the initiative. Don't sit around waiting for her to make the first move because it sounds like she's trying to let you know that she likes you by hanging out with you so much. Good luck!
I really need your advice on this girl. Can you help me?
ive liked her for 3 months and i have talked to her since the beginging of class.she is pretty. i have a feeling she knows i like her but i dont know what to do. I run into her occassionally in other places but I cant talk to her around her friends because they look gossipy. I dont know if she has another BF,..but i know she makes plans to have fun. Hell..... i hardly have any friends that are helpful and my life is boring,....I want to party with her. But the thing is what to tell her.................
CMON GUYS....something besides ';hello'; and ';hows your day';, that doesnt strike a fast as intresting exciting or emotionally stimulating converstion. I would be cool if someone could write out a dialouge of how we could talk between each other if you have the timeI really need your advice on this girl. Can you help me?
funny thing is, the ';hello, how's your day'; line that ';doesn't strike as interesting';, is probably the best thing. simply because it will allow YOU to get over your nervousness about talking to her and allow you to get aquainted with her. THERE IS NO magic line or approach for gettin chicks. i've banged over a hundred and dated twice that many. if a chick digs u it doesn't matter very much WHAT u say. if she doesn't dig u, your ';emotionally stimulating conversation'; (lmfao at that thought) WILL NOT change that. get in good on a friendly casual level. say ';hey, Wassup how are u today, etc.'; try to get a smile out of her maybe with a compliment and go step by step from there. if she's not into u she's not into u. it happens. at that point u gotta say NEXT, and go for another chick.I really need your advice on this girl. Can you help me?
A dialogue always feels forced and uncomfortable, and she may not follow it. I'll tell you what I do though. I talk to a girl, and when there is nothing more to say, I leave. Simple and effective.
Try to make her laugh and ask her what she is going to do for the rest of the day. You never now that could be a good punch line to just ask her out if she isn't doing anything. Trust me you will see the hint coming from her whether she wants to be with you.
Relax and be confident. When you talk to her, keep the conversation flowing, don't talk about guy stuff too much, thats boring. We can't write the lines out for you! Thats one of your job to impress her. If she wears a ring on her ring finger, she's either married or that's just a purity ring (research on this). Don't worry. When you are relaxed, everything will go smoothly.
women love humor. If you can make her laugh shes yours..........
neither...just ask her out..wat is with you guys today...if you guys dont have he courage to ask a girl out then why do u even like her....its like useless to liker her
the ring is prolly just a ring that any girl would wear...and for asking her out...
you-heyy. are you busy this weekend? maybe wanna see a movie?
her-oh my godd. ive been waiting for you to ask me out! yeah!! lets see a movie =]=]=]
hehe.
well um the ring on her finger could be a wedding ring but it could also be a purity ring witch mean shes saving her self but i realy depends do u see her flirtying with other guys if so then shes not married
CMON GUYS....something besides ';hello'; and ';hows your day';, that doesnt strike a fast as intresting exciting or emotionally stimulating converstion. I would be cool if someone could write out a dialouge of how we could talk between each other if you have the timeI really need your advice on this girl. Can you help me?
funny thing is, the ';hello, how's your day'; line that ';doesn't strike as interesting';, is probably the best thing. simply because it will allow YOU to get over your nervousness about talking to her and allow you to get aquainted with her. THERE IS NO magic line or approach for gettin chicks. i've banged over a hundred and dated twice that many. if a chick digs u it doesn't matter very much WHAT u say. if she doesn't dig u, your ';emotionally stimulating conversation'; (lmfao at that thought) WILL NOT change that. get in good on a friendly casual level. say ';hey, Wassup how are u today, etc.'; try to get a smile out of her maybe with a compliment and go step by step from there. if she's not into u she's not into u. it happens. at that point u gotta say NEXT, and go for another chick.I really need your advice on this girl. Can you help me?
A dialogue always feels forced and uncomfortable, and she may not follow it. I'll tell you what I do though. I talk to a girl, and when there is nothing more to say, I leave. Simple and effective.
Try to make her laugh and ask her what she is going to do for the rest of the day. You never now that could be a good punch line to just ask her out if she isn't doing anything. Trust me you will see the hint coming from her whether she wants to be with you.
Relax and be confident. When you talk to her, keep the conversation flowing, don't talk about guy stuff too much, thats boring. We can't write the lines out for you! Thats one of your job to impress her. If she wears a ring on her ring finger, she's either married or that's just a purity ring (research on this). Don't worry. When you are relaxed, everything will go smoothly.
women love humor. If you can make her laugh shes yours..........
neither...just ask her out..wat is with you guys today...if you guys dont have he courage to ask a girl out then why do u even like her....its like useless to liker her
the ring is prolly just a ring that any girl would wear...and for asking her out...
you-heyy. are you busy this weekend? maybe wanna see a movie?
her-oh my godd. ive been waiting for you to ask me out! yeah!! lets see a movie =]=]=]
hehe.
well um the ring on her finger could be a wedding ring but it could also be a purity ring witch mean shes saving her self but i realy depends do u see her flirtying with other guys if so then shes not married
So i need some advice on this girl...?
so i got a gay friend of mine who is close to her to explore the ';does she like me'; question, he said no and that she seemed kindve annoyed i liked her, im not sure why she would be annoyed because i havent pressed the matter or anything, and i give her alot of space, she did get turned down by one of my friends awhile ago mainly because hes trying to get back with his ex, but she also said';why do all the weird guys like me?';
she also was referring to the guy that rejected her and ive never been called weird before, and my gay friend was also quick to say i wasnt weird but is she just stressed right now b/c of prom and the end of senior year and stuff? she also says she doesnt like anyone right now.she said to him that i was sweet but she didnt like me as more than a friend.i also couldve sworn she liked me because of her body language and stuff in class but i guess not, is this something that can be waited it out and in the meantime i just go';play the field';?or is it stuck this way?So i need some advice on this girl...?
she probably just liked the idea that someone she knew liked her, sos he took advantage of that. just go to the prom with someone else. shes not worth ur timeSo i need some advice on this girl...?
too long
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mabe she just doesnt like you
if she's giving u signals u need to talk to her yourself. or have another friend do it...not ones that gay!! maybe he's just jealous
she also was referring to the guy that rejected her and ive never been called weird before, and my gay friend was also quick to say i wasnt weird but is she just stressed right now b/c of prom and the end of senior year and stuff? she also says she doesnt like anyone right now.she said to him that i was sweet but she didnt like me as more than a friend.i also couldve sworn she liked me because of her body language and stuff in class but i guess not, is this something that can be waited it out and in the meantime i just go';play the field';?or is it stuck this way?So i need some advice on this girl...?
she probably just liked the idea that someone she knew liked her, sos he took advantage of that. just go to the prom with someone else. shes not worth ur timeSo i need some advice on this girl...?
too long
+2
mabe she just doesnt like you
if she's giving u signals u need to talk to her yourself. or have another friend do it...not ones that gay!! maybe he's just jealous
Well i need some advice on this girl, as i really dont know.please?
his girl is almost 18 years old, grade 12 and beautiful she has never had a boyfriend and i really think she does like me. since i started to go to school there whenever i talk she will laugh at what i say, she is quiet and wont approach me but will try and talk to me but she is shy around everyone. i wrote her a note as i sat beside her and said she is beautiful and walked out. i got to know her well talking to her in person and on facebook. things got really good i think she is interested in conversation now and trys to bring stuff up. i was prevoked into asking her to grad as her escort seh said yes but cried becuase she said she felt she was leading me on, and it was too complicated and now all she could be is friends, but she said once i am out of school she would love to go out with me its weird right now cuase i'm 3 years younger, she asked me to message her a long message so she can read it tomoorw and said that she always finds me wonderful and intersting, does she like me?Well i need some advice on this girl, as i really dont know.please?
Girlish .Well i need some advice on this girl, as i really dont know.please?
Polariss, bear with her. Atleast she gave a reason for her behavior, her leading u on maybe, complicated, stuff.
I think this girl does like you. Maybe she is just a little scared because she really cares about you. She wants to make sure her feeling are true for you and not just infatuation. Wouldn't you rather have someone be honest with you with their feelings?
I think she is interested in dating you. Just take things slow and things will work out. Good luck.
GET IT! GET IT! GET IT!!!
she wants you definitely. Ask her to a movie or your house to watch a movie and it'll be game over.
if this girl appreciates you enough to wait until you get older then there has to be something going on. she is just embarassed about dating a younger guy. believe me if you were a senior u wouldnt be asking this question.. you would know
TAKE THE OPPURTUNITY MAN!
It doesnt matter if you are 3 yrs younger, she defitenly likes ya!
Girlish .Well i need some advice on this girl, as i really dont know.please?
Polariss, bear with her. Atleast she gave a reason for her behavior, her leading u on maybe, complicated, stuff.
I think this girl does like you. Maybe she is just a little scared because she really cares about you. She wants to make sure her feeling are true for you and not just infatuation. Wouldn't you rather have someone be honest with you with their feelings?
I think she is interested in dating you. Just take things slow and things will work out. Good luck.
GET IT! GET IT! GET IT!!!
she wants you definitely. Ask her to a movie or your house to watch a movie and it'll be game over.
if this girl appreciates you enough to wait until you get older then there has to be something going on. she is just embarassed about dating a younger guy. believe me if you were a senior u wouldnt be asking this question.. you would know
TAKE THE OPPURTUNITY MAN!
It doesnt matter if you are 3 yrs younger, she defitenly likes ya!
PLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About a Girl?
ok. So there is this girl i really really really like.
She is 15 and can't go out with anyone til she is 16. We have been good friends for years. She is not a girly-girl.
She always claims she doesn't like anyone at all. Do you really think that is possible?
She's one of my best friends. so if you have ever had an experience Dating a good friend, will you tell me how it ultimatly turned out?
I know it can be a risk do date a good friend, but i think it would be worth it...i just need a second (or a lot) opinion.
And i don't want too wonder about what could have happened the rest of my life...i can't go a day without thinking about her
Thanks
-hoot-PLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About a Girl?
Just ask her. She probably knows that you like her. If not, act like you were joking.PLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About a Girl?
dude, its so possible she is a late bloomer/tomboy, and doesnt desire a boyfriend. OR, shes scared, and wants to keep guys an arm length away. Stay close, let her trust you, and relax.
My cuzin asked out his best freind. They r loving it. Go for it. Maybe she feels the same way
Well, there was this really good friend of mine that I barely liked until he asked me out, and now I constantly think about him. It's turned out great so far, I can trust him so much because I knew him first. From what I've heard, the best relationships come from either luck or best friends. Oh, and before me and my boyfriend went out, he used to ask me a lot if I liked anyone, I would either say no, or someone other than him. She wouldn't outright tell you if she liked you anyways, so I say try to figure out a lil more what chance you have, then subtly go for it! Good Luck, it sounds like it will work out!!!!
She is 15 and can't go out with anyone til she is 16. We have been good friends for years. She is not a girly-girl.
She always claims she doesn't like anyone at all. Do you really think that is possible?
She's one of my best friends. so if you have ever had an experience Dating a good friend, will you tell me how it ultimatly turned out?
I know it can be a risk do date a good friend, but i think it would be worth it...i just need a second (or a lot) opinion.
And i don't want too wonder about what could have happened the rest of my life...i can't go a day without thinking about her
Thanks
-hoot-PLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About a Girl?
Just ask her. She probably knows that you like her. If not, act like you were joking.PLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About a Girl?
dude, its so possible she is a late bloomer/tomboy, and doesnt desire a boyfriend. OR, shes scared, and wants to keep guys an arm length away. Stay close, let her trust you, and relax.
My cuzin asked out his best freind. They r loving it. Go for it. Maybe she feels the same way
Well, there was this really good friend of mine that I barely liked until he asked me out, and now I constantly think about him. It's turned out great so far, I can trust him so much because I knew him first. From what I've heard, the best relationships come from either luck or best friends. Oh, and before me and my boyfriend went out, he used to ask me a lot if I liked anyone, I would either say no, or someone other than him. She wouldn't outright tell you if she liked you anyways, so I say try to figure out a lil more what chance you have, then subtly go for it! Good Luck, it sounds like it will work out!!!!
Weird Breakup. Need some advice. Is this girl just unsure or what? Help?
Me and this girl are dating for 3 months. All of a sudden she says that she feels its not going anywhere. BUT she calls me and texts me like we are still dating. Today she texts me twice and calls me and I didn’t respond until an hour later and she thinks I am ignoring her. Is this a game???? I really like her and i felt we really never got to know eachother well enough. We clicked very very well. Had sex 2 times and enjoyed each other company. Anyone have any life experiences to share etc.. I am 30 she 26. Any advice or anything .. PLEASE. Could she just be thinking of still being with me as a boyfriend? Read latest detail below.Weird Breakup. Need some advice. Is this girl just unsure or what? Help?
It's hard to say what's going on with her because I don't know either of you. Right off the top of my head, my first guess would be that she could have started seeing someone else and is not sure how that relationship will work out, so she wants to keep you around (sorry, I don't mean to sound so blunt) in case the new relationship doesn't work out, she will have someone (you) to come back to. That would explain the ';it's not going anywhere'; statement but yet she still texts and calls you. My second guess would be that she really does want a relationship with you, but felt things were moving too fast, and wanted to slow things down a bit. However, she may be somewhat insecure, which would explain the continued text messages and phone calls - she wants to know that you are still there. Or, my third guess would be that she is just playing games with you. To sum everything up, my gut instinct tells me that my first guess is right. Best of luck to youWeird Breakup. Need some advice. Is this girl just unsure or what? Help?
maybe she just wants everything out of a relationship but the commitment...which honestly isnt fair to you, cuz u r waitin around for her, when u could be moving on to something serious, u could be missing out on the ';one'; cuz she is getting what she wants out of u!
I consider myself to be well traveled in the land of the female. It's a hell of a trip that never ends! Anyway you need to find out about the relationship with her father. It sounds like she has commitment issues. Afraid to be alone, afraid to be tied down. She obviously feels comfortable with you, and thats hard thing for ladies to give up. The only thing I can recommend would be a nice heart to heart. Tell her how you feel, let her know about the mixed signals. She knows whats getting in the way but can't find a way to confront it with you. She is waiting for you to make the move!
It's hard to say what's going on with her because I don't know either of you. Right off the top of my head, my first guess would be that she could have started seeing someone else and is not sure how that relationship will work out, so she wants to keep you around (sorry, I don't mean to sound so blunt) in case the new relationship doesn't work out, she will have someone (you) to come back to. That would explain the ';it's not going anywhere'; statement but yet she still texts and calls you. My second guess would be that she really does want a relationship with you, but felt things were moving too fast, and wanted to slow things down a bit. However, she may be somewhat insecure, which would explain the continued text messages and phone calls - she wants to know that you are still there. Or, my third guess would be that she is just playing games with you. To sum everything up, my gut instinct tells me that my first guess is right. Best of luck to youWeird Breakup. Need some advice. Is this girl just unsure or what? Help?
maybe she just wants everything out of a relationship but the commitment...which honestly isnt fair to you, cuz u r waitin around for her, when u could be moving on to something serious, u could be missing out on the ';one'; cuz she is getting what she wants out of u!
I consider myself to be well traveled in the land of the female. It's a hell of a trip that never ends! Anyway you need to find out about the relationship with her father. It sounds like she has commitment issues. Afraid to be alone, afraid to be tied down. She obviously feels comfortable with you, and thats hard thing for ladies to give up. The only thing I can recommend would be a nice heart to heart. Tell her how you feel, let her know about the mixed signals. She knows whats getting in the way but can't find a way to confront it with you. She is waiting for you to make the move!
I really need some advice with this girl i really like?
so im talking to this girl on line we are both bwtn 21-25 and things are going great. we have been talking everyday for the past week and half and things are going great! we even talked for 2hours on the phone sunday. we say good morning/good night everyday. so obviously, we like each other a lot....so i offered to take her to dinner (over the phone)and she was like cool. so i said when do u wanna go? she never responded and i asked today and yesterday. so what seems to be the problem here...she always mentions that eventually i should come over and spend time with her, so i know she wants to meet up.. however, she says that she doesnt want sex yet and neither do iI really need some advice with this girl i really like?
maybe she's just nervous to meet for the first time. it sounds like you guys have a good thing going already and maybe she is afraid of losing that. take it slow, but i'm sure after the initial meeting things will get easier :-) good luck sweetie!I really need some advice with this girl i really like?
she wants to meet up but i think she might be a little scared cuz you've only been talking for a week and a half and yea everything is going great but she still doesnt really kno you yet. you shouldnt meet up so soon. wait a good couple of months before you do that. i think you should learn more about her first and if things are still the same in a couple of months i dont think she'll be as scared to meet you in person.
How ';out'; is she? If she's not completely comfortable publicly being part of a couple, then that could explain why she's happy to talk to you but reluctant to go to dinner.
By the way, on line hookups can be very, very dangerous, especially for a young woman. Be careful and always let someone know where you'll be and when you'll be back -- even better if you can meet this person in a group setting.
She may like you but not the way you think. There are girlfriends and girlfriends. She may be really comfortable with you but on a straight girlfriend level. She may have been slightly unnerved by being asked out to dinner. Give it a little time and see where she is coming from.
good luck HUGS!
Well, first you should form a relation ship with her first. As time passes by, your relationships with each other will grow, and maybe...you'll be able to make a GOODmove on her. Hope this helped!! :-D And good luck!
Maybe it has nothing to do with being gay, maybe it has to do with going out with someone she meet online.
sounds nervousacne scars
maybe she's just nervous to meet for the first time. it sounds like you guys have a good thing going already and maybe she is afraid of losing that. take it slow, but i'm sure after the initial meeting things will get easier :-) good luck sweetie!I really need some advice with this girl i really like?
she wants to meet up but i think she might be a little scared cuz you've only been talking for a week and a half and yea everything is going great but she still doesnt really kno you yet. you shouldnt meet up so soon. wait a good couple of months before you do that. i think you should learn more about her first and if things are still the same in a couple of months i dont think she'll be as scared to meet you in person.
How ';out'; is she? If she's not completely comfortable publicly being part of a couple, then that could explain why she's happy to talk to you but reluctant to go to dinner.
By the way, on line hookups can be very, very dangerous, especially for a young woman. Be careful and always let someone know where you'll be and when you'll be back -- even better if you can meet this person in a group setting.
She may like you but not the way you think. There are girlfriends and girlfriends. She may be really comfortable with you but on a straight girlfriend level. She may have been slightly unnerved by being asked out to dinner. Give it a little time and see where she is coming from.
good luck HUGS!
Well, first you should form a relation ship with her first. As time passes by, your relationships with each other will grow, and maybe...you'll be able to make a GOODmove on her. Hope this helped!! :-D And good luck!
Maybe it has nothing to do with being gay, maybe it has to do with going out with someone she meet online.
sounds nervous
Help i need quick advice about a girl :P !?
so we liked eachother for a while until she said i like you as a ';bestfriend'; out of no where lol . so about a week later one of my status says ';the sad thing is i meant every word i ever said to you'; she sends me a text at 4:30 am and wants to know if its about her. should i tell her or just ignore her.
i kinda want to tell her but idk if shes going to be like oh ok .
let me know what you think! , i probably should just forget about her i think lol
thanks for the help!Help i need quick advice about a girl :P !?
If you can handle getting knocked back then tell her the truth.
It will make your friendship stronger if you can be open with her, or potentially could be the first step toward a relationship.
It all really depends on whether it will make you sadder to get an instant rejection, and get over it, or have all the time having not told her, of never knowing, and wondering about it.
Of course it wont make your friendship stronger if you tell her how you feel and say that you can't hang out anymore, but even so, at least it gets it out of your system.Help i need quick advice about a girl :P !?
If you feel that its possible for you to just ';ignore her'; or ';forget about her';, what's so hard about just putting your feelings out there? If she blows your off, move to your Plan B of forgetting her, no harm done. If she confesses that she really DOES like you, too, DEFINITELY no harm done!
Dude, fight to get what u want.....Tell her what u feel, then see how her reaction would be, no matter what is it, what it is matter is I FEEL RELIEF
I would tell her.
She may not know what she really feels for you.
Give it a shot, hey, the worst thing she can do is say ';oh, okay';.
eh , tell her.
she kinda sorta i guess knows already
since she straight up asked you. im guessing she just
wants confirmation. lol just telll her.
if you dont wanna. then why bother putting that as your status?
I think you should.
She should know, and maybe she thinks thats what you want to hear.
and if its not, then thats okay!
you have nothing to lose right?
hope i helped :)
TELL HER!!!!!
tell her
ok, i guess you already text her back; but this was what i was gonna tell you:
she obviously likes you too, i mean...she might say ';oh ok'; but sometimes those simple words mean something else. like '; i like you'; or ';im scared to say i like you'; i mean, girls talk between the words, you just gotta be honest with her. tell her how you feel,...you know...its a girls dream to hear a guy tell them how they really feel? i mean, what guy does that!...you'll end up giving them butterflies and all thsoe types of feelings because they've never seen that before.
do you know what i mean? just tell her; im pretty sure she's been thinking alot about you and that quote you put as your status.
she likes you, trust me. just dont be afriad to let it out,...just tell her!, dont wait for it to be too late.
ps. ah!, times running out! lol : )
i kinda want to tell her but idk if shes going to be like oh ok .
let me know what you think! , i probably should just forget about her i think lol
thanks for the help!Help i need quick advice about a girl :P !?
If you can handle getting knocked back then tell her the truth.
It will make your friendship stronger if you can be open with her, or potentially could be the first step toward a relationship.
It all really depends on whether it will make you sadder to get an instant rejection, and get over it, or have all the time having not told her, of never knowing, and wondering about it.
Of course it wont make your friendship stronger if you tell her how you feel and say that you can't hang out anymore, but even so, at least it gets it out of your system.Help i need quick advice about a girl :P !?
If you feel that its possible for you to just ';ignore her'; or ';forget about her';, what's so hard about just putting your feelings out there? If she blows your off, move to your Plan B of forgetting her, no harm done. If she confesses that she really DOES like you, too, DEFINITELY no harm done!
Dude, fight to get what u want.....Tell her what u feel, then see how her reaction would be, no matter what is it, what it is matter is I FEEL RELIEF
I would tell her.
She may not know what she really feels for you.
Give it a shot, hey, the worst thing she can do is say ';oh, okay';.
eh , tell her.
she kinda sorta i guess knows already
since she straight up asked you. im guessing she just
wants confirmation. lol just telll her.
if you dont wanna. then why bother putting that as your status?
I think you should.
She should know, and maybe she thinks thats what you want to hear.
and if its not, then thats okay!
you have nothing to lose right?
hope i helped :)
TELL HER!!!!!
tell her
ok, i guess you already text her back; but this was what i was gonna tell you:
she obviously likes you too, i mean...she might say ';oh ok'; but sometimes those simple words mean something else. like '; i like you'; or ';im scared to say i like you'; i mean, girls talk between the words, you just gotta be honest with her. tell her how you feel,...you know...its a girls dream to hear a guy tell them how they really feel? i mean, what guy does that!...you'll end up giving them butterflies and all thsoe types of feelings because they've never seen that before.
do you know what i mean? just tell her; im pretty sure she's been thinking alot about you and that quote you put as your status.
she likes you, trust me. just dont be afriad to let it out,...just tell her!, dont wait for it to be too late.
ps. ah!, times running out! lol : )
PLEASE HELP!!! I need Advice about a girl.?
ok. So there is this girl i really really really like.
She is 15 and can't go out with anyone til she is 16. We have been good friends for years. She is not a girly-girl.
She always claims she doesn't like anyone at all. Do you really think that is possible?
She's one of my best friends. so if you have ever had an experience Dating a good friend, will you tell me how it ultimatly turned out?
I know it can be a risk do date a good friend, but i think it would be worth it...i just need a second (or a lot) opinion.
Thanks
-hoot-PLEASE HELP!!! I need Advice about a girl.?
I dated my best friend last year. It was fun, but kind of awkward. It was never super intimite. More friendly, espcially if she is a not girly girl. YOu may risk awkwardness atferwards. But my best friend and I are best friends again. Maybe closer than ever. But it took a couple months to get over the akwardness after we broke up.PLEASE HELP!!! I need Advice about a girl.?
well my best friend has been like that shes never liked anyone her whole life but she recently has found someone she really likes. her and i are 16. but it is just like one in a handful of people that are like that because me and everyone else i know have liked tons of people lol
well if it doesnt work out between you two it will make your friendship very awkward and weird. but then again u guys could just figure out that you are closer than dating because u know each other so well ur like family. thats what happened when i went out with a good family friend i kinda liked and it was just weird cuz we were like bro and sis but ya best of luck with you and her :)
I have this good friend who fairly recently said he liked me. And since then I have sort of started liking him too...he's grown on me. Now we like eachother but dont know what to do about it. It's not awkward but its kind of weird.
it's possible that she doesnt like anyone...of course it is! but maybe the same thing will happen to you as it did with my...friend whos more than a friend.
just tell her you like her. you're not going to get anywhere if she doesn't know. dont just drop hints. tell her directly.
if you really like her tell her how you feel if you think dating her would be worth the risk go for it whats holding you back the answer will always be no untill you ask it really all depends on you feel dont worry about and take the risk if thats how you feel
I hear that many good friends that go out with each other mostly end up as good friends again. I guess it's awkward to date someone that you've always hung out with. But like you said, it's always worth it and you never know how things will turn out. Good luck.
I'm going out with my bestest guy friend:)
the only difference is, I'm 13 lol
but I know after we break up (cause I know we won't like grow old and get married or w/e) we will still be friends =]
go for it!!
but yah have to wait till she turns 16 -_______-
well my bf is dating her best guy friend right now and its been going good so far. except in the beginning she said it was weird but i think you'll be fine.
i still am dating my bff and he is awsome, we havent even fought yet, which can be the upside to dating a friend u get along with.
my last two serious ex's were ex friends...dont go down this road buddy
She is 15 and can't go out with anyone til she is 16. We have been good friends for years. She is not a girly-girl.
She always claims she doesn't like anyone at all. Do you really think that is possible?
She's one of my best friends. so if you have ever had an experience Dating a good friend, will you tell me how it ultimatly turned out?
I know it can be a risk do date a good friend, but i think it would be worth it...i just need a second (or a lot) opinion.
Thanks
-hoot-PLEASE HELP!!! I need Advice about a girl.?
I dated my best friend last year. It was fun, but kind of awkward. It was never super intimite. More friendly, espcially if she is a not girly girl. YOu may risk awkwardness atferwards. But my best friend and I are best friends again. Maybe closer than ever. But it took a couple months to get over the akwardness after we broke up.PLEASE HELP!!! I need Advice about a girl.?
well my best friend has been like that shes never liked anyone her whole life but she recently has found someone she really likes. her and i are 16. but it is just like one in a handful of people that are like that because me and everyone else i know have liked tons of people lol
well if it doesnt work out between you two it will make your friendship very awkward and weird. but then again u guys could just figure out that you are closer than dating because u know each other so well ur like family. thats what happened when i went out with a good family friend i kinda liked and it was just weird cuz we were like bro and sis but ya best of luck with you and her :)
I have this good friend who fairly recently said he liked me. And since then I have sort of started liking him too...he's grown on me. Now we like eachother but dont know what to do about it. It's not awkward but its kind of weird.
it's possible that she doesnt like anyone...of course it is! but maybe the same thing will happen to you as it did with my...friend whos more than a friend.
just tell her you like her. you're not going to get anywhere if she doesn't know. dont just drop hints. tell her directly.
if you really like her tell her how you feel if you think dating her would be worth the risk go for it whats holding you back the answer will always be no untill you ask it really all depends on you feel dont worry about and take the risk if thats how you feel
I hear that many good friends that go out with each other mostly end up as good friends again. I guess it's awkward to date someone that you've always hung out with. But like you said, it's always worth it and you never know how things will turn out. Good luck.
I'm going out with my bestest guy friend:)
the only difference is, I'm 13 lol
but I know after we break up (cause I know we won't like grow old and get married or w/e) we will still be friends =]
go for it!!
but yah have to wait till she turns 16 -_______-
well my bf is dating her best guy friend right now and its been going good so far. except in the beginning she said it was weird but i think you'll be fine.
i still am dating my bff and he is awsome, we havent even fought yet, which can be the upside to dating a friend u get along with.
my last two serious ex's were ex friends...dont go down this road buddy
In need of some advice about this girl?
This girl I know who I am friends with her bf talks to me all the time.Her bf kinda ignores her alot like hes in his own world so I think she gets lonly and talks to me.Preety much she IMs me calls me everyday the thing is im falling for her the more I talk to her.She says things like oh your sexy blah blah and thinks im funny and caring all that jazz.I told her that I liked her more then a friend but she said if I was single I would go out with you for sure .I felt so bad becouse her bf is kinda my friend and I thought man I shouldnt do that but I got so caught up in the moment I wasnt thinking.So after that we didnt really talk for a couple weeks then we started talking again she still says the same stuff that she likes me but she wont leave her bf.So my question is do you think this girl is just playing head games?Should I just stop talking to her?If I stop talking to her how should I tell her?Should I tell her bf what his gf is doing?In need of some advice about this girl?
Wow that is a lot to answer.
First of all, this girl is totally leading you on!
But it is hard to say, because if she likes you as much as she says she does, then she should have no trouble leaving her boyfriend for you. To me, it sounds like she is playing the both of you.
I have actually been in this situation, except I was the girl. Instead of saying ';oh, if i was single, I'd date you!'; I left my boyfriend to be with the guy in your position. The relationship ended up working out great.
If she does like you enough, she will leave your boyfriend for you.
I wouldn't lose your friendship with the girl over something like this. Even if you do not date, why not still remain friends?
And for now, I wouldn't say anything to the boyfriend. Let the girl work the problems out with him for herself. It is much better in the long run.
Wow that is a lot to answer.
First of all, this girl is totally leading you on!
But it is hard to say, because if she likes you as much as she says she does, then she should have no trouble leaving her boyfriend for you. To me, it sounds like she is playing the both of you.
I have actually been in this situation, except I was the girl. Instead of saying ';oh, if i was single, I'd date you!'; I left my boyfriend to be with the guy in your position. The relationship ended up working out great.
If she does like you enough, she will leave your boyfriend for you.
I wouldn't lose your friendship with the girl over something like this. Even if you do not date, why not still remain friends?
And for now, I wouldn't say anything to the boyfriend. Let the girl work the problems out with him for herself. It is much better in the long run.
Can i get some advice on this girl?
i was recently reunited with this girl i met that worked at a coffee place i use to frequent. i was closing in on asking her out back in august, but she quit. in january i found out a co worker of mine knows her and she put back in touch with her, got her number without even asking for it. we went out once, 2 weeks ago, it went well, she said to me, ';i had a lot of fun today, we should do this again!'; we txt more than we call, anyways, last week i called her up asked her out for a 2nd. i said what about next week sometime, she said, ';Sure'; and she went on to mention that she usually gets off at 5:30. in addition, she answered her phone for me while she was working out at wherever shes works out at. good right? so i called her on monday night, first time, it took a few seconds to connect and when it did, i got a busy signal, so i wated 5 min or so, called again. it rang once and i got her voicemail. i left her a voicemail and havent heard anything from her yet. im pretty nervous about all of tihs and was wondering if anybody had some insight on something like this, any advice, when to try and contact her again? could tihsCan i get some advice on this girl?
stay cool homey, LOL. ahh no but really dude, you gota play your hand cool. I know you sound like you really like her but don't panic when the phone don't answer. Wait a couple of days, this way she knows that your not hanging on the sh!t rope. Because the tighter you grip it, the more you slip. Gota show her that your not her puppet. Wait till friday noon and call her up and be like you want to go out sat. Just don't become her puppet. Don't let her in your head, got ya nutz bro.Can i get some advice on this girl?
Wait a few days before texting or calling unless she calls/texts you back. She could of just been busy. Don't jump to conclusions just yet (: Just relax, and wait it out. I'm sure she was just talking to someone like her mom, haha.
Hey, give her some time to get back to you also, don't keep calling her waiting for her to answer that is just gonna make you look desperate. GL dude.
give her a few days, no need to come off as a stalker bro..you'll be fine don't get yerself lookin all needy
ask her out!!1
contact her, call her or if you know her friends try to ask them for her contact. then youj can call her and tell her you want to emet up with eher again
personally ive had that freak out problem like that before the best thing to do is wait. If you dont hear from her text her tomorrow when you get off work/school around 4. If no reply dont seem obsessive and blow her phone up. Out of experience ill straight up tell you it will just embarrass you. You never know though it could have been an emergency. Dont stress about it bro if its meant to be it will be
stay cool homey, LOL. ahh no but really dude, you gota play your hand cool. I know you sound like you really like her but don't panic when the phone don't answer. Wait a couple of days, this way she knows that your not hanging on the sh!t rope. Because the tighter you grip it, the more you slip. Gota show her that your not her puppet. Wait till friday noon and call her up and be like you want to go out sat. Just don't become her puppet. Don't let her in your head, got ya nutz bro.Can i get some advice on this girl?
Wait a few days before texting or calling unless she calls/texts you back. She could of just been busy. Don't jump to conclusions just yet (: Just relax, and wait it out. I'm sure she was just talking to someone like her mom, haha.
Hey, give her some time to get back to you also, don't keep calling her waiting for her to answer that is just gonna make you look desperate. GL dude.
give her a few days, no need to come off as a stalker bro..you'll be fine don't get yerself lookin all needy
ask her out!!1
contact her, call her or if you know her friends try to ask them for her contact. then youj can call her and tell her you want to emet up with eher again
personally ive had that freak out problem like that before the best thing to do is wait. If you dont hear from her text her tomorrow when you get off work/school around 4. If no reply dont seem obsessive and blow her phone up. Out of experience ill straight up tell you it will just embarrass you. You never know though it could have been an emergency. Dont stress about it bro if its meant to be it will be
I need help or advice about a girl..?
I met this girl and have been talking to her since the beginning of 9th grade (almost finished with 10th now). I've been involved with one of her good friends, dated her, we broke up, then dated again (broke up two months ago about). I'm not sure why or how, but I stopped by her house one night and we sat in the driveway and just talked, and were totally comfortable and trusting with each other. She liked me while i liked both her and her friend, but unfortunately i chose her friend (this was the first time i dated her friend, only lasted two weeks). Right after we dated then broke up for the second time (after taking a month off of talking then another 2 from liking each other) me and this girl, who considered me her best friend, got involved with each other (she was still dating one of my friends). I made the mistake of going to her house, where we had sex and the day after, she realized that she wanted to shape up for her boyfriend. I was extremely happy for her that she decided to do this, because I want to see her as happy as possible. Both of us have made our share of mistakes, and I'm glad she decided to shape up. While being happy for her, I've been feeling very strange lately, and it's unrecognizable to anything else I've felt so far....Could I get advice on what I'm feeling or what to do? Thanks in advance to anyone who can help =)I need help or advice about a girl..?
unfortunately you made a mistake of picking her friend over her. you probably would have had a great relationship. well she could still be your friend and maybe you should try to enjoy your choice you made and just try to shape up your relationship with your ex or forget them both and think of them only as friends and take a break from dating. you'll find someone else. tough situation the involvement with the one girl is a little messing up the situation but its too late now. learn from your mistakes right?I need help or advice about a girl..?
your as worried as hell and regret it YOU SHOULD HAVE LISTEN TO THOSE SEX TALKS =p
i'm guessing u still like her
unfortunately you made a mistake of picking her friend over her. you probably would have had a great relationship. well she could still be your friend and maybe you should try to enjoy your choice you made and just try to shape up your relationship with your ex or forget them both and think of them only as friends and take a break from dating. you'll find someone else. tough situation the involvement with the one girl is a little messing up the situation but its too late now. learn from your mistakes right?I need help or advice about a girl..?
your as worried as hell and regret it YOU SHOULD HAVE LISTEN TO THOSE SEX TALKS =p
i'm guessing u still like her
Hey, i need some advice on the girl i like ?
Hey everyone. Something happened today wich shouldnt have.
The girl i adore found out i adore her, from someone else.
Im not mad about this, im kind of glad, but...
When i asked the girl about what she thought of this she said
( I apologized for finding out like that ) - '' no its ok, its sweet anyway''
When i asked her if we have chance she said maybe in the future, she doesnt want boyfriends right now. My heart feels very heavy but i understand and agree, its too soon.
( I sit next to this girl in art so i can talk to her then, but...)
What should i do or say to become better with her in the relationship sense ? my hair is kinda short so im gonna grow it anyway, not just for her, i get kind of crazy around her, so anytips on how i can show my nicer side to her? she is VERY shy... please help!Hey, i need some advice on the girl i like ?
I must say that it's kind of hard to answer these questions, when you actually don't know the persons, you know? :P It's like... even though we're girls, we're all different ;)
Hmm.. maybe you can tell me a wee bit about her? What kind of girl is she? Oh, and how old is she? and how old are you?
But anyways, if she said ';maybe in the future'; and she's not interested in a boyfriend right now, well... there's not much more to do, than just to show her who you are! Just be yourself... that's who you are in the end, right? You can show her the nice side of you. Be her friend - talk to her alot, compliment her. you can even ask her out as a friend. You know... hang out with her, and stuff. Maybe she'll see what nice guy you are, and she'll eventually change her mind :)acne scars
The girl i adore found out i adore her, from someone else.
Im not mad about this, im kind of glad, but...
When i asked the girl about what she thought of this she said
( I apologized for finding out like that ) - '' no its ok, its sweet anyway''
When i asked her if we have chance she said maybe in the future, she doesnt want boyfriends right now. My heart feels very heavy but i understand and agree, its too soon.
( I sit next to this girl in art so i can talk to her then, but...)
What should i do or say to become better with her in the relationship sense ? my hair is kinda short so im gonna grow it anyway, not just for her, i get kind of crazy around her, so anytips on how i can show my nicer side to her? she is VERY shy... please help!Hey, i need some advice on the girl i like ?
I must say that it's kind of hard to answer these questions, when you actually don't know the persons, you know? :P It's like... even though we're girls, we're all different ;)
Hmm.. maybe you can tell me a wee bit about her? What kind of girl is she? Oh, and how old is she? and how old are you?
But anyways, if she said ';maybe in the future'; and she's not interested in a boyfriend right now, well... there's not much more to do, than just to show her who you are! Just be yourself... that's who you are in the end, right? You can show her the nice side of you. Be her friend - talk to her alot, compliment her. you can even ask her out as a friend. You know... hang out with her, and stuff. Maybe she'll see what nice guy you are, and she'll eventually change her mind :)
So I need some advice on this girl I like?
So i'm 15 and i really like this girl, and her and i are friends now. And its complicated because i really want to ask her out, but i dont know if she'll say yes. And last year her and one of my best friends who is kinda like a mentor to me liked eachother a lot but my friend didn't ask her out because he backed off because he thought his cousin was going to ask her out. And i hink she doesn't really trust guys anymore because she really liked my friend but he walked away from it, because I know his cousin did ask her out and he got rejected because she said she didn't like relationships and she mentioned my friend (I did talk to my friend last night and he told me that his cousin got really got rejected because she didn't know him very well). also, this my make her sound like she's really popular and stuff, but she's not really, she's just normal (If that makes any sense...) any ways, what should I do??! I really like her! Also, how do I get into long texting conversation with her... Because I know she still texts my friend a lot. And how can I flirt with her and stuff, PLEASE HELP!
PS: I'm sorry if there is some grammar mstakes in there, I'm on my iPhoneSo I need some advice on this girl I like?
You should just text her and give her compiments but not so many compliments to make you seem too ';desperate';. You should also just talk about regular things such as ';How was school'; ';how was your thanksgiving'; ';whats your favorite show'; something simple to get into a conversation. When you feel like she is opening up to you and texting and talking to you more start becoming flirty with her. I hope this helps :-) oh and dont keep sending her messages over and over if she doesnt reply first thing. She will text you soon enough and it will make you seem like more confident :)
--%26gt;KaylaSo I need some advice on this girl I like?
if u dont want to wreck ur friendship ask ur frien if he still likes her or if it would be cool if you try to talk to her...when u do talk to her talk about her...ask questions about her...girls like talking about themselves...and when u find something u have in common with her talk about that...and compliment her, but not too much
PS: I'm sorry if there is some grammar mstakes in there, I'm on my iPhoneSo I need some advice on this girl I like?
You should just text her and give her compiments but not so many compliments to make you seem too ';desperate';. You should also just talk about regular things such as ';How was school'; ';how was your thanksgiving'; ';whats your favorite show'; something simple to get into a conversation. When you feel like she is opening up to you and texting and talking to you more start becoming flirty with her. I hope this helps :-) oh and dont keep sending her messages over and over if she doesnt reply first thing. She will text you soon enough and it will make you seem like more confident :)
--%26gt;KaylaSo I need some advice on this girl I like?
if u dont want to wreck ur friendship ask ur frien if he still likes her or if it would be cool if you try to talk to her...when u do talk to her talk about her...ask questions about her...girls like talking about themselves...and when u find something u have in common with her talk about that...and compliment her, but not too much
I need help or advice about a girl..?
I met this girl and have been talking to her since the beginning of 9th grade (almost finished with 10th now). I've been involved with one of her good friends, dated her, we broke up, then dated again (broke up two months ago about). I'm not sure why or how, but I stopped by her house one night and we sat in the driveway and just talked, and were totally comfortable and trusting with each other. She liked me while i liked both her and her friend, but unfortunately i chose her friend (this was the first time i dated her friend, only lasted two weeks). Right after we dated then broke up for the second time (after taking a month off of talking then another 2 from liking each other) me and this girl, who considered me her best friend, got involved with each other (she was still dating one of my friends). I made the mistake of going to her house, where we had sex and the day after, she realized that she wanted to shape up for her boyfriend. I was extremely happy for her that she decided to do this, because I want to see her as happy as possible. Both of us have made our share of mistakes, and I'm glad she decided to shape up. While being happy for her, I've been feeling very strange lately, and it's unrecognizable to anything else I've felt so far....Could I get advice on what I'm feeling or what to do? Thanks in advance to anyone who can help =)I need help or advice about a girl..?
unfortunately you made a mistake of picking her friend over her. you probably would have had a great relationship. well she could still be your friend and maybe you should try to enjoy your choice you made and just try to shape up your relationship with your ex or forget them both and think of them only as friends and take a break from dating. you'll find someone else. tough situation the involvement with the one girl is a little messing up the situation but its too late now. learn from your mistakes right?I need help or advice about a girl..?
your as worried as hell and regret it YOU SHOULD HAVE LISTEN TO THOSE SEX TALKS =p
i'm guessing u still like her
unfortunately you made a mistake of picking her friend over her. you probably would have had a great relationship. well she could still be your friend and maybe you should try to enjoy your choice you made and just try to shape up your relationship with your ex or forget them both and think of them only as friends and take a break from dating. you'll find someone else. tough situation the involvement with the one girl is a little messing up the situation but its too late now. learn from your mistakes right?I need help or advice about a girl..?
your as worried as hell and regret it YOU SHOULD HAVE LISTEN TO THOSE SEX TALKS =p
i'm guessing u still like her
Hey, i need some advice on the girl i like ?
Hey everyone. Something happened today wich shouldnt have.
The girl i adore found out i adore her, from someone else.
Im not mad about this, im kind of glad, but...
When i asked the girl about what she thought of this she said
( I apologized for finding out like that ) - '' no its ok, its sweet anyway''
When i asked her if we have chance she said maybe in the future, she doesnt want boyfriends right now. My heart feels very heavy but i understand and agree, its too soon.
( I sit next to this girl in art so i can talk to her then, but...)
What should i do or say to become better with her in the relationship sense ? my hair is kinda short so im gonna grow it anyway, not just for her, i get kind of crazy around her, so anytips on how i can show my nicer side to her? she is VERY shy... please help!Hey, i need some advice on the girl i like ?
I must say that it's kind of hard to answer these questions, when you actually don't know the persons, you know? :P It's like... even though we're girls, we're all different ;)
Hmm.. maybe you can tell me a wee bit about her? What kind of girl is she? Oh, and how old is she? and how old are you?
But anyways, if she said ';maybe in the future'; and she's not interested in a boyfriend right now, well... there's not much more to do, than just to show her who you are! Just be yourself... that's who you are in the end, right? You can show her the nice side of you. Be her friend - talk to her alot, compliment her. you can even ask her out as a friend. You know... hang out with her, and stuff. Maybe she'll see what nice guy you are, and she'll eventually change her mind :)
The girl i adore found out i adore her, from someone else.
Im not mad about this, im kind of glad, but...
When i asked the girl about what she thought of this she said
( I apologized for finding out like that ) - '' no its ok, its sweet anyway''
When i asked her if we have chance she said maybe in the future, she doesnt want boyfriends right now. My heart feels very heavy but i understand and agree, its too soon.
( I sit next to this girl in art so i can talk to her then, but...)
What should i do or say to become better with her in the relationship sense ? my hair is kinda short so im gonna grow it anyway, not just for her, i get kind of crazy around her, so anytips on how i can show my nicer side to her? she is VERY shy... please help!Hey, i need some advice on the girl i like ?
I must say that it's kind of hard to answer these questions, when you actually don't know the persons, you know? :P It's like... even though we're girls, we're all different ;)
Hmm.. maybe you can tell me a wee bit about her? What kind of girl is she? Oh, and how old is she? and how old are you?
But anyways, if she said ';maybe in the future'; and she's not interested in a boyfriend right now, well... there's not much more to do, than just to show her who you are! Just be yourself... that's who you are in the end, right? You can show her the nice side of you. Be her friend - talk to her alot, compliment her. you can even ask her out as a friend. You know... hang out with her, and stuff. Maybe she'll see what nice guy you are, and she'll eventually change her mind :)
So I need some advice on this girl I like?
So i'm 15 and i really like this girl, and her and i are friends now. And its complicated because i really want to ask her out, but i dont know if she'll say yes. And last year her and one of my best friends who is kinda like a mentor to me liked eachother a lot but my friend didn't ask her out because he backed off because he thought his cousin was going to ask her out. And i hink she doesn't really trust guys anymore because she really liked my friend but he walked away from it, because I know his cousin did ask her out and he got rejected because she said she didn't like relationships and she mentioned my friend (I did talk to my friend last night and he told me that his cousin got really got rejected because she didn't know him very well). also, this my make her sound like she's really popular and stuff, but she's not really, she's just normal (If that makes any sense...) any ways, what should I do??! I really like her! Also, how do I get into long texting conversation with her... Because I know she still texts my friend a lot. And how can I flirt with her and stuff, PLEASE HELP!
PS: I'm sorry if there is some grammar mstakes in there, I'm on my iPhoneSo I need some advice on this girl I like?
You should just text her and give her compiments but not so many compliments to make you seem too ';desperate';. You should also just talk about regular things such as ';How was school'; ';how was your thanksgiving'; ';whats your favorite show'; something simple to get into a conversation. When you feel like she is opening up to you and texting and talking to you more start becoming flirty with her. I hope this helps :-) oh and dont keep sending her messages over and over if she doesnt reply first thing. She will text you soon enough and it will make you seem like more confident :)
--%26gt;KaylaSo I need some advice on this girl I like?
if u dont want to wreck ur friendship ask ur frien if he still likes her or if it would be cool if you try to talk to her...when u do talk to her talk about her...ask questions about her...girls like talking about themselves...and when u find something u have in common with her talk about that...and compliment her, but not too much
PS: I'm sorry if there is some grammar mstakes in there, I'm on my iPhoneSo I need some advice on this girl I like?
You should just text her and give her compiments but not so many compliments to make you seem too ';desperate';. You should also just talk about regular things such as ';How was school'; ';how was your thanksgiving'; ';whats your favorite show'; something simple to get into a conversation. When you feel like she is opening up to you and texting and talking to you more start becoming flirty with her. I hope this helps :-) oh and dont keep sending her messages over and over if she doesnt reply first thing. She will text you soon enough and it will make you seem like more confident :)
--%26gt;KaylaSo I need some advice on this girl I like?
if u dont want to wreck ur friendship ask ur frien if he still likes her or if it would be cool if you try to talk to her...when u do talk to her talk about her...ask questions about her...girls like talking about themselves...and when u find something u have in common with her talk about that...and compliment her, but not too much
I need advice about this girl, fast?
I think I'm in love with this one girl, and she says all her past boyfriends are assholes and always hurt her in the end. The same goes with me, except girls always **** me over in the end. We're becoming really close friends, spending hours talking to each other through text messages and A.I.M. I'm loving every second of it, honestly. How can I show her that I'm different from the other guys, that I would never hurt her truly? I truly, honestly care about her deeply. Am I rushing things? To be completely honest, I want to be ';more than just friends,'; obviously... I don't want to ask her out because then it might make things awkward, and our friendship might not ever be able to repaired... That's definitely my worst fear. What should I do?I need advice about this girl, fast?
make her feel special.. don'tt give out wats in ur heart till u r not able to make way to her heart.. u'll have to work on it.. like don't talk to her for a day by givin reasons that u had to go somewhere n then ask the other day whether she missed u.. till she doesn't start feelin for u expressin urself will be a risk..I need advice about this girl, fast?
slow down......... ask her out as friends %26amp; pay attention to her body language, if she's interested you'll know
buy her flowers and do romantic things for her
if you want to show that youre different from other guys and your not going to screw her over, just tell her exactly what youve said in your question. that you really do like her more than a friend and that truely arent like other guys and you wont screw her over.. if you care about her that much, tell her that you cant find the right words to tell her how much you care...
girls think courage in a guy is sexy ; )
Umm.. you Should definitely spend a lot of time with her and get to know her well enough and eventually you should ask her out and try making every moment memorable for her..
Then maybe you can propose to her with fresh flowers and a box of chocolates..:)
Good Luck!
make her feel special.. don'tt give out wats in ur heart till u r not able to make way to her heart.. u'll have to work on it.. like don't talk to her for a day by givin reasons that u had to go somewhere n then ask the other day whether she missed u.. till she doesn't start feelin for u expressin urself will be a risk..I need advice about this girl, fast?
slow down......... ask her out as friends %26amp; pay attention to her body language, if she's interested you'll know
buy her flowers and do romantic things for her
if you want to show that youre different from other guys and your not going to screw her over, just tell her exactly what youve said in your question. that you really do like her more than a friend and that truely arent like other guys and you wont screw her over.. if you care about her that much, tell her that you cant find the right words to tell her how much you care...
girls think courage in a guy is sexy ; )
Umm.. you Should definitely spend a lot of time with her and get to know her well enough and eventually you should ask her out and try making every moment memorable for her..
Then maybe you can propose to her with fresh flowers and a box of chocolates..:)
Good Luck!
This girl i like is confusing me *ADVICE*?
really like this one girl that im just starting to get to know...she's really cool and her personality like mirrors mine. The only problem is i don't really get to see her that often so i can get to know her. Plus when i do see her, her actions somewhat confuse me. Like the other day she was messing with my phone and i think she picked it up like 6 times in a span of 10 minutes, i went home later and i found her number in it. I was kind of assuming that kinda meant that she liked me...cause as far as i know she doesn't really give her number out like that normally. But when i talk to her on myspace she doesn't seem really all that talkative...What should i do in this situation?
This girl i like is confusing me *ADVICE*?
Call and make sure its the right phone number first. Next tell her to straight up QUIT THE STUPID GIRL HEAD GAMES. If she keeps acting uninterested and withdrawn then forget about her. Dont call her for about 4 days. They'll return your call or text you something if they're slightly interested but only once or twice then they EXPECT you to take charge.This girl i like is confusing me *ADVICE*?
she is being typical really.on myspace is just different.she probly likes you but just doesn't know how to tell you.that phone thing is a big sign i think you should tell her you like her you never know fate and your dreams may coiled =)
It sounds like she likes you, but call her. Text messaging is a bad way of potraying emtoion.
I mean i can put a :) and you think i am happy but.....
Maybe she's not a huge online talker. Because she put her # in your phone, I would say that she wants you to call her. You could try calling and if she seems as uninterested on the phone as she does on Myspace, you can stop worrying about her.acne scars
This girl i like is confusing me *ADVICE*?
Call and make sure its the right phone number first. Next tell her to straight up QUIT THE STUPID GIRL HEAD GAMES. If she keeps acting uninterested and withdrawn then forget about her. Dont call her for about 4 days. They'll return your call or text you something if they're slightly interested but only once or twice then they EXPECT you to take charge.This girl i like is confusing me *ADVICE*?
she is being typical really.on myspace is just different.she probly likes you but just doesn't know how to tell you.that phone thing is a big sign i think you should tell her you like her you never know fate and your dreams may coiled =)
It sounds like she likes you, but call her. Text messaging is a bad way of potraying emtoion.
I mean i can put a :) and you think i am happy but.....
Maybe she's not a huge online talker. Because she put her # in your phone, I would say that she wants you to call her. You could try calling and if she seems as uninterested on the phone as she does on Myspace, you can stop worrying about her.
PLEASE HELP!!! I need Advice about a girl.?
ok. So there is this girl i really really really like.
She is 15 and can't go out with anyone til she is 16. We have been good friends for years. She is not a girly-girl.
She always claims she doesn't like anyone at all. Do you really think that is possible?
She's one of my best friends. so if you have ever had an experience Dating a good friend, will you tell me how it ultimatly turned out?
I know it can be a risk do date a good friend, but i think it would be worth it...i just need a second (or a lot) opinion.
Thanks
-hoot-PLEASE HELP!!! I need Advice about a girl.?
well you should wait a year until she's sixteen and then decide. she's your best friend and if she says she doesn't like anyone, that means she's either telling the truth or she's not telling you because you're the one she likes...so until she's 16, warm her up and get her to like you. if you really like her and you think you're comfortable enough with her, then try it out. if you guys are really good friends, i'm sure it will stay that way even if things don't work out...PLEASE HELP!!! I need Advice about a girl.?
As a girl, I always like someone. Well, not always ';like'; entirely, but there is always someone I have a slight crush on. Perhaps, she has a crush on you and doesn't know how to approach the subject. Or maybe she feels the same way about you but is attempting to forget her feelings because she knows she can't go out with you for another year. Give her hints about your feelings, you don't have to start going out right away...but you don't want to hide your affection from her. She will either feel the same way or in the worst situation she will be extremely flattered. Take a chance! Best of luck!
Alright man, I am in the same situation as your are as in dating a best friend. Me and her have been friends for awhile and last night we spent 3 hours talking to each other about how each one felt. Turns out she liked me more than a friend too. Only problem is we don't know what to do because of a 12 hour drive distance =|
I would go for it. It is definitely worth it.
Well, you do have the chance of jeopardizing your friendship and of dating her will ultimately be worth it then try to get her to like you back. Flirt with her in a way that shows you want to be more than friends. If you see she doesn't like it than I guess you guys should just be friends. Also, it is possible for a girl to not like anyone AT THE MOMENT. But at least once in her life she must have had a crush. Don't push her into crushing and liking and what not if it seems that's not her.
Take care!
Yes, I do think it is possible not to like anyone at all!
Okay so I went out with my best friend [[dude]] and It was great!
Do to the fact we knew everything about each other, and had bazillions in common, and knew how to keep each other amused!
But we broke up because it became a hassle!
Usually relations ships like this don't work out!
Because of how close you are, and yet to come!
Personally I think you shouldn't date her, because
friends like this are much more meaning full!
We are no longer friends at all because he became really rude!
Good luck to you just do what you think is right! and hope for the best!!
ya that is a risk and i guess you gotta think about if its worth losing a friendship if it doesn't work out. sometimes if it doesn't work out its ok though and you can still be friends. i would just be strait up with her though. just tell her how you feel.
this happened to my brother. he had this girl he was friends with for a long time and he was getting feelings for her. so after a while it was torturing him so he just was strait up with her and told her how he was feeling. to be honest with ya it was kinda a shock for her though, and for a while she just needed some space. but i think eventually they might get together. you just never know. but if its torturing ya like it tortured him, its best to just tell her.
just go with what feels right to you :) it will work out
for me, dating good friends is not a good thing.
i've tried dating my friends twice before, and each turned out bad.
it's hard, because you try to make your relationship as good as your friendship was and it just doesn't happen.
and if or once y'all break up, it'll be way too awkward between yall, and the friendship won't be the same.
that's how it was for me.
i mean, everyone's different, but i've always reggretted dating my friends because i've ruined my best friendships over that.
i'm not saying that it'll turn out like that for you, just giving my opnion.
hope this helps.
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most often friends fall for eachother because they know eachother and trust eachother the most. if you feel comfortable around one another is when you see who that person really is. i dated one of my best friends and it was the longest relationship that ive ever had. bc we knew eachother and got along real well and wed still be together but he moved. try to get one of her friends to dig and try to see who she really likes bc i used to tell my ex that i didnt like neone when i really was in love with him.
I once dated my best guy friend and now we're still best friends. If it doesn't end well, just pretend it never happened and don't talk about it after wards.
It is completely possible that she might not like anyone.
And I advise just waiting until she's old enough to date, then make a move. It can't hurt.
Good luck :)
uhm. well, the outcome can go three ways.
you guys can either break up and have a horrible one and never speak to each other again in which you've lost a galfriend AND a best friend.
you guys can decide youre better off friends and become friends like before, with the risk of it being a wee bit awkward
or you guys will have a wonderful relationship and endup married!
:D
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months now. We were Best Friends before he asked me out.
We would always deny that we liked each other when asked, so that could explain why she says she likes no one. I don't think it's possible for a 15 year old girl not to like anybody.
I hope this all works out for you, I've just given you my input on things.
First and foremost, don't ask her out until she's sixteen. Secondly, go for it and just see. The worst thing she can say is that she's not interested, and I'm sure that if she's been a good friend for that long, that she'll forgive and forget and go back to being your bud again.
Good luck.
1st of all, whats with the limitations of 16????
well if she says she doesnt like anyone at all, shes saying that to you and that means she likes you .... go for it!!! I did it years ago and it led to a 3 some. it was great for a minute, then she got jealous and broke up with me to date women. good luck yo.
ok just tell her r u sure u dont like anyone because i noe someone who kinda likes u and u noe he wants to go out wit u. then she says who u say me but in a soft voice. then she says yes or no. and i dated 1 of my frends and he cheated on me so becarful on watcha do if u do go out wit her good luck!!!
many times good friends end up being as your future wife/husband. it all depends on fate. but sometimes most good friends have concluded that they're better off as friends. it all depends on the situation. good luck!
Talk to her. Tell her how you feel and that your willing to wait until she can date. Girls love when guys are up-front and when they show that they care about them.
i dated my really good guy friend
now i completely hate him
and he's an asshole to me
it really happened because my friend was feeling up his friend
She just doesnt want you to know she's a closet lesbo~
;-)
be careful
act cool and yoursealf
if she has spiked hair or wears goth t shirts she might like girls
This girl seems to obey!
Anyways the whole datin thing.
Obviously you don't want to ruin an awesome friendship with this girl. First, find out if she's REALLY into you. If not, when she turns 16, she could have been playin you all those years and THAT would not be gudd. If she's serious, stun her on her 16th. A birthday ask out. Damn, that would be sweeeet. Girls like guys with ';the moves';(:
Okay, check it out... I haven't ever really dated my best friend yet, safe to say I'm a little young, but I'm the same age as your friend so I might understand her a bit.
First off, I've been around my best friends, who have in turn, had relationships with their best guy friends. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
So she's saying she doesn't like anybody else? I'm sure it's possible. I mean, us girls are hormonal, so we do get spontaneous with mini crushes every other day. But another thing is that every girl is DiFfErEnT :D So it's hard to tell. You just have to trust her.
On the case of dating her... give it a shot! Many people don't understand that sometimes, your best friend- the person you know best and the person who knows you best- is sometimes the best match for you! If it doesn't work out, well, you'll still be friends right!
Who knows, I have my best friend I've known since birth! Maybe I'll get lucky like you :)
She is 15 and can't go out with anyone til she is 16. We have been good friends for years. She is not a girly-girl.
She always claims she doesn't like anyone at all. Do you really think that is possible?
She's one of my best friends. so if you have ever had an experience Dating a good friend, will you tell me how it ultimatly turned out?
I know it can be a risk do date a good friend, but i think it would be worth it...i just need a second (or a lot) opinion.
Thanks
-hoot-PLEASE HELP!!! I need Advice about a girl.?
well you should wait a year until she's sixteen and then decide. she's your best friend and if she says she doesn't like anyone, that means she's either telling the truth or she's not telling you because you're the one she likes...so until she's 16, warm her up and get her to like you. if you really like her and you think you're comfortable enough with her, then try it out. if you guys are really good friends, i'm sure it will stay that way even if things don't work out...PLEASE HELP!!! I need Advice about a girl.?
As a girl, I always like someone. Well, not always ';like'; entirely, but there is always someone I have a slight crush on. Perhaps, she has a crush on you and doesn't know how to approach the subject. Or maybe she feels the same way about you but is attempting to forget her feelings because she knows she can't go out with you for another year. Give her hints about your feelings, you don't have to start going out right away...but you don't want to hide your affection from her. She will either feel the same way or in the worst situation she will be extremely flattered. Take a chance! Best of luck!
Alright man, I am in the same situation as your are as in dating a best friend. Me and her have been friends for awhile and last night we spent 3 hours talking to each other about how each one felt. Turns out she liked me more than a friend too. Only problem is we don't know what to do because of a 12 hour drive distance =|
I would go for it. It is definitely worth it.
Well, you do have the chance of jeopardizing your friendship and of dating her will ultimately be worth it then try to get her to like you back. Flirt with her in a way that shows you want to be more than friends. If you see she doesn't like it than I guess you guys should just be friends. Also, it is possible for a girl to not like anyone AT THE MOMENT. But at least once in her life she must have had a crush. Don't push her into crushing and liking and what not if it seems that's not her.
Take care!
Yes, I do think it is possible not to like anyone at all!
Okay so I went out with my best friend [[dude]] and It was great!
Do to the fact we knew everything about each other, and had bazillions in common, and knew how to keep each other amused!
But we broke up because it became a hassle!
Usually relations ships like this don't work out!
Because of how close you are, and yet to come!
Personally I think you shouldn't date her, because
friends like this are much more meaning full!
We are no longer friends at all because he became really rude!
Good luck to you just do what you think is right! and hope for the best!!
ya that is a risk and i guess you gotta think about if its worth losing a friendship if it doesn't work out. sometimes if it doesn't work out its ok though and you can still be friends. i would just be strait up with her though. just tell her how you feel.
this happened to my brother. he had this girl he was friends with for a long time and he was getting feelings for her. so after a while it was torturing him so he just was strait up with her and told her how he was feeling. to be honest with ya it was kinda a shock for her though, and for a while she just needed some space. but i think eventually they might get together. you just never know. but if its torturing ya like it tortured him, its best to just tell her.
just go with what feels right to you :) it will work out
for me, dating good friends is not a good thing.
i've tried dating my friends twice before, and each turned out bad.
it's hard, because you try to make your relationship as good as your friendship was and it just doesn't happen.
and if or once y'all break up, it'll be way too awkward between yall, and the friendship won't be the same.
that's how it was for me.
i mean, everyone's different, but i've always reggretted dating my friends because i've ruined my best friendships over that.
i'm not saying that it'll turn out like that for you, just giving my opnion.
hope this helps.
:]
most often friends fall for eachother because they know eachother and trust eachother the most. if you feel comfortable around one another is when you see who that person really is. i dated one of my best friends and it was the longest relationship that ive ever had. bc we knew eachother and got along real well and wed still be together but he moved. try to get one of her friends to dig and try to see who she really likes bc i used to tell my ex that i didnt like neone when i really was in love with him.
I once dated my best guy friend and now we're still best friends. If it doesn't end well, just pretend it never happened and don't talk about it after wards.
It is completely possible that she might not like anyone.
And I advise just waiting until she's old enough to date, then make a move. It can't hurt.
Good luck :)
uhm. well, the outcome can go three ways.
you guys can either break up and have a horrible one and never speak to each other again in which you've lost a galfriend AND a best friend.
you guys can decide youre better off friends and become friends like before, with the risk of it being a wee bit awkward
or you guys will have a wonderful relationship and endup married!
:D
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months now. We were Best Friends before he asked me out.
We would always deny that we liked each other when asked, so that could explain why she says she likes no one. I don't think it's possible for a 15 year old girl not to like anybody.
I hope this all works out for you, I've just given you my input on things.
First and foremost, don't ask her out until she's sixteen. Secondly, go for it and just see. The worst thing she can say is that she's not interested, and I'm sure that if she's been a good friend for that long, that she'll forgive and forget and go back to being your bud again.
Good luck.
1st of all, whats with the limitations of 16????
well if she says she doesnt like anyone at all, shes saying that to you and that means she likes you .... go for it!!! I did it years ago and it led to a 3 some. it was great for a minute, then she got jealous and broke up with me to date women. good luck yo.
ok just tell her r u sure u dont like anyone because i noe someone who kinda likes u and u noe he wants to go out wit u. then she says who u say me but in a soft voice. then she says yes or no. and i dated 1 of my frends and he cheated on me so becarful on watcha do if u do go out wit her good luck!!!
many times good friends end up being as your future wife/husband. it all depends on fate. but sometimes most good friends have concluded that they're better off as friends. it all depends on the situation. good luck!
Talk to her. Tell her how you feel and that your willing to wait until she can date. Girls love when guys are up-front and when they show that they care about them.
i dated my really good guy friend
now i completely hate him
and he's an asshole to me
it really happened because my friend was feeling up his friend
She just doesnt want you to know she's a closet lesbo~
;-)
be careful
act cool and yoursealf
if she has spiked hair or wears goth t shirts she might like girls
This girl seems to obey!
Anyways the whole datin thing.
Obviously you don't want to ruin an awesome friendship with this girl. First, find out if she's REALLY into you. If not, when she turns 16, she could have been playin you all those years and THAT would not be gudd. If she's serious, stun her on her 16th. A birthday ask out. Damn, that would be sweeeet. Girls like guys with ';the moves';(:
Okay, check it out... I haven't ever really dated my best friend yet, safe to say I'm a little young, but I'm the same age as your friend so I might understand her a bit.
First off, I've been around my best friends, who have in turn, had relationships with their best guy friends. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.
So she's saying she doesn't like anybody else? I'm sure it's possible. I mean, us girls are hormonal, so we do get spontaneous with mini crushes every other day. But another thing is that every girl is DiFfErEnT :D So it's hard to tell. You just have to trust her.
On the case of dating her... give it a shot! Many people don't understand that sometimes, your best friend- the person you know best and the person who knows you best- is sometimes the best match for you! If it doesn't work out, well, you'll still be friends right!
Who knows, I have my best friend I've known since birth! Maybe I'll get lucky like you :)
Can I have some advice on this girl please
I met this girl on the internet a few months back. We've been chatting alot and she is really gorgeous. I thought she was a little shallow, but her hearts in the right place. I finally plucked up the courage to meet her last week. I picked her up (in my sports car which she liked) and gave her flowers and took her for a meal, and provided most of the entertainment since she was quite quiet. I got the feeling she wasnt really into me that much but I made her laugh anyway. I dropped her off and she said she would text me. I sent her a text the next day, asking her if she'd like to go on a day trip, which she kinda agreed for before we met last week. She text back saying that I was a really sweet guy but not what she was looking for and suggested that we can be good friends. What shall I do? I really liked her. Shall I text her back, shall I move on, or shall I be her friend. Do you think she was just saying the friends part to make me feel better? The fact that she said we could be ';good'; friends got me wondering. Maybe she just didnt fancy me. What should I text her back and say?Can I have some advice on this girl please
Move on. She's not interested. Sorry.Can I have some advice on this girl please
i would move on because you dun no this girl that well since you met her on the internet and you cant do anything about it even though you like her a lot . But you could still be friends a just chat once in a while.
you can take me out :P cant see how she let you down after doing all that.
Poppet, she obviously is not as attracted to you as you are to her.
Move on and forget her.
Move on... it doesn't sound like she's into you.
Move on. She's not interested. Sorry.Can I have some advice on this girl please
i would move on because you dun no this girl that well since you met her on the internet and you cant do anything about it even though you like her a lot . But you could still be friends a just chat once in a while.
you can take me out :P cant see how she let you down after doing all that.
Poppet, she obviously is not as attracted to you as you are to her.
Move on and forget her.
Move on... it doesn't sound like she's into you.
Hey i need some advice about a girl?
ok well im in college and i saw this very pretty girl ( in my opinion) and well i dont have the courage to talk to her, she works at the library and i constantly go there. i have never had a gf, and well im not very confident in myself its not that im fat or ugly its jsut well personal problems. so any tips please. i learned not to miss your opportunitiesHey i need some advice about a girl?
Well if she's as pretty as you say she is, then im sure other guys have probably tried to hit on her already. So, the it would be best to get to know her.... ';Hi'; could start things off.Hey i need some advice about a girl?
What do you have to lose? Honestly, if she rejects you in any way shape or form she is either not worth it, or she has some issues of her own.
I would recommend just trying to pick a situation when it would be appropriate to say something to her. You'll know when that time is. Such as when she drops a book, or asks a question aloud, or really anything. Just be sweet and gentle, don't act like your really after anything except showing this kindness in your heart.
Hopefully, you'll know where to go from there.
I suggest you go up and ask her to help you find a book, then start up a little conversation. If she seems interested, she is interested, and you are free to talk further, hopefully leading somewhere better. If she seems bored, just jump right in and ask her out! Nothing wrong with a last resort, now is there?
tell her jokes wen you go to the library.. make small conversations wit her and if are true to yourself and a total gentleman then you will totally win her over.. don be scared to ask her out once you get to know her.. you gotta have confidence in your self before anyone else can.. remember wat don kill you only makes you stronger..
Just talk to her , ask her if she'd like to be friends , and if she says yes then get to know her and for all you know she might like you back too. give it a shot, the worst that can happen is she wouldnt want to be friends, but that would be her loss.
Ask her to help you to find a book and go from there. Us guys HAVE to take the initiative or you will end up with nothing. Don't seem desperate or needy because that is a turn off.
Well, first off, she works there, right? So ask her for help finding a book, or for help using the computer library thingy.
Just remember to smile, make eye contact and be confident!
At least speak to her. Especially if you are obvious in your eyeballing her. You are on the fast track to a creeper if you keep visiting just to look at her.
talk to her joke around come in everyday but not in a stalkerish way just for 15 minutes to get a book and say hi AND SHELL NOTICE U
Yes talk to her.
Baby steps my friend, baby steps.
ask her to find u some book...n thats how u can start talkin
Pretend it is just you and her, and no one is watching to judge? If you stutter, just laugh at yourself out loud and start over. Don't take yourself so seriously that you worry about how others perceive you. Eat something that will dull your senses so you are not so aware and so self-conscious (not alcohol). Say ';hi'; and smile a genuine smile...if you like her she may be able to tell when you smile (google ';different smiles';). Get yourself so ';fed up'; with yourself that you ';just do it'; but don't go in there angry. Re-think whether or not you really like her for her looks or everything. I THINK it is sometimes harder for a guy when he is so amazed by physical appearance, than personality, etc.
Maybe that is why it is easier for older guys - who's testosterone is lower - but this may make you feel guilty that you just like her for her physical appearance....So, get to know her personality by talking. Be grateful that you talk with a really good-looking woman, that you have eyes to see and ears to her her voice. Think about the people who lose their senses..they would like to be in your shoes...don't waste your gifts! (sight and hearing). Put them to use!
Or give yourself a good boot in the rear to get started.
How about this point of view?
';What would a woman be in awe of?
A strong sequoia tree that could stop a mac truck
or
A yard full of pretty pussy-willows that a mac truck can drive right through and knock down?';
Get my drift? Which one would she have more respect for if it were about to topple down onto the ground? sequoia vs. pussy-willows.
Well if she's as pretty as you say she is, then im sure other guys have probably tried to hit on her already. So, the it would be best to get to know her.... ';Hi'; could start things off.Hey i need some advice about a girl?
What do you have to lose? Honestly, if she rejects you in any way shape or form she is either not worth it, or she has some issues of her own.
I would recommend just trying to pick a situation when it would be appropriate to say something to her. You'll know when that time is. Such as when she drops a book, or asks a question aloud, or really anything. Just be sweet and gentle, don't act like your really after anything except showing this kindness in your heart.
Hopefully, you'll know where to go from there.
I suggest you go up and ask her to help you find a book, then start up a little conversation. If she seems interested, she is interested, and you are free to talk further, hopefully leading somewhere better. If she seems bored, just jump right in and ask her out! Nothing wrong with a last resort, now is there?
tell her jokes wen you go to the library.. make small conversations wit her and if are true to yourself and a total gentleman then you will totally win her over.. don be scared to ask her out once you get to know her.. you gotta have confidence in your self before anyone else can.. remember wat don kill you only makes you stronger..
Just talk to her , ask her if she'd like to be friends , and if she says yes then get to know her and for all you know she might like you back too. give it a shot, the worst that can happen is she wouldnt want to be friends, but that would be her loss.
Ask her to help you to find a book and go from there. Us guys HAVE to take the initiative or you will end up with nothing. Don't seem desperate or needy because that is a turn off.
Well, first off, she works there, right? So ask her for help finding a book, or for help using the computer library thingy.
Just remember to smile, make eye contact and be confident!
At least speak to her. Especially if you are obvious in your eyeballing her. You are on the fast track to a creeper if you keep visiting just to look at her.
talk to her joke around come in everyday but not in a stalkerish way just for 15 minutes to get a book and say hi AND SHELL NOTICE U
Yes talk to her.
Baby steps my friend, baby steps.
ask her to find u some book...n thats how u can start talkin
Pretend it is just you and her, and no one is watching to judge? If you stutter, just laugh at yourself out loud and start over. Don't take yourself so seriously that you worry about how others perceive you. Eat something that will dull your senses so you are not so aware and so self-conscious (not alcohol). Say ';hi'; and smile a genuine smile...if you like her she may be able to tell when you smile (google ';different smiles';). Get yourself so ';fed up'; with yourself that you ';just do it'; but don't go in there angry. Re-think whether or not you really like her for her looks or everything. I THINK it is sometimes harder for a guy when he is so amazed by physical appearance, than personality, etc.
Maybe that is why it is easier for older guys - who's testosterone is lower - but this may make you feel guilty that you just like her for her physical appearance....So, get to know her personality by talking. Be grateful that you talk with a really good-looking woman, that you have eyes to see and ears to her her voice. Think about the people who lose their senses..they would like to be in your shoes...don't waste your gifts! (sight and hearing). Put them to use!
Or give yourself a good boot in the rear to get started.
How about this point of view?
';What would a woman be in awe of?
A strong sequoia tree that could stop a mac truck
or
A yard full of pretty pussy-willows that a mac truck can drive right through and knock down?';
Get my drift? Which one would she have more respect for if it were about to topple down onto the ground? sequoia vs. pussy-willows.
A couple questions about advice on a girl... long?
Okay first of all thanks for your time :D. I'll number the questions to simplify things, so you can number your answers.
Now a little background, I'm in grade 11 and there's this girl that means the world to me, I've told her how I feel, and we talk on msn a lot. This has been going on for around three months now, I wanted to take things slow because I wanted some time to get to know each other. Now, she's like the most perfect girl in the world, and there's nothing I'd love more than to be with her, but I need some help:
1) I'm not too sure if she's into me, I think she likes me, but I don't know if it's enough, and I'm not sure what is. How do I find out just how she feels?
2) I asked her out but she says she has strict parents who don't let her always go out, so then I tried seeing if I could meet them because I'm sure they'd like me, but she didn't think it would work, help?
3) I want to know how I might be able to speed things up a bit, some tips on how I might get her to start liking me more?
4) Also I'm never too sure how she might view things, girls, how would you feel if a guy was sending you poems? Or saying he loved you if you just liked him?
Once again thanks for helping me, oh and please, don't anybody be negative because that doesn't help me lol! Also I don't want any answers like getting her to lie to her parents, because really in the long run that's not going to help me.
Thanks!A couple questions about advice on a girl... long?
sounds awfully familiar. ouch. anyways, not your problem. i think the sweetest thing in the entire world is to send poems you wrote to a girl. especially if they're about her. if you did that, i'm pretty sure she'd be putty in your hands haha. if she's worth it. but personally i would wait on the I love you part. they're pretty big words, so use them with care. and even if you think you love her ... wait unil you're sure she loves you back. i haveta sympathize with the girl though. because strict parents suck. i have them. i've had boyfriends before, but they didn't know. and it didn't work out. so please don't try that. i think that if you really like her then you'll find a way to work it out. talk to her about just meeting her parents as a friend. like if you guys go out with a bunch of people, stop by to pick her up with one or two friends (make sure a few are girls) and greet them. take it slow. if you're as cool of a guy as you sound, then i'm sure they'll like you. just make sure to NOT act like you're into their daughter. cuz they might get freaked out before it's time to be haha. and then if they like you, i'm sure you would be able to go on a date with her. and then date for real. there's no real way to rush it though. sorry :/ good luck and hope i helped! 鈾?
Now a little background, I'm in grade 11 and there's this girl that means the world to me, I've told her how I feel, and we talk on msn a lot. This has been going on for around three months now, I wanted to take things slow because I wanted some time to get to know each other. Now, she's like the most perfect girl in the world, and there's nothing I'd love more than to be with her, but I need some help:
1) I'm not too sure if she's into me, I think she likes me, but I don't know if it's enough, and I'm not sure what is. How do I find out just how she feels?
2) I asked her out but she says she has strict parents who don't let her always go out, so then I tried seeing if I could meet them because I'm sure they'd like me, but she didn't think it would work, help?
3) I want to know how I might be able to speed things up a bit, some tips on how I might get her to start liking me more?
4) Also I'm never too sure how she might view things, girls, how would you feel if a guy was sending you poems? Or saying he loved you if you just liked him?
Once again thanks for helping me, oh and please, don't anybody be negative because that doesn't help me lol! Also I don't want any answers like getting her to lie to her parents, because really in the long run that's not going to help me.
Thanks!A couple questions about advice on a girl... long?
sounds awfully familiar. ouch. anyways, not your problem. i think the sweetest thing in the entire world is to send poems you wrote to a girl. especially if they're about her. if you did that, i'm pretty sure she'd be putty in your hands haha. if she's worth it. but personally i would wait on the I love you part. they're pretty big words, so use them with care. and even if you think you love her ... wait unil you're sure she loves you back. i haveta sympathize with the girl though. because strict parents suck. i have them. i've had boyfriends before, but they didn't know. and it didn't work out. so please don't try that. i think that if you really like her then you'll find a way to work it out. talk to her about just meeting her parents as a friend. like if you guys go out with a bunch of people, stop by to pick her up with one or two friends (make sure a few are girls) and greet them. take it slow. if you're as cool of a guy as you sound, then i'm sure they'll like you. just make sure to NOT act like you're into their daughter. cuz they might get freaked out before it's time to be haha. and then if they like you, i'm sure you would be able to go on a date with her. and then date for real. there's no real way to rush it though. sorry :/ good luck and hope i helped! 鈾?
PLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About a girl!!!?
ok. So there is this girl i really really really like.
She is 15 and can't go out with anyone til she is 16(may 4). We have been good friends for years. She is not a girly-girl.
She always claims she doesn't like anyone at all. Do you really think that is possible?
She's one of my best friends. so if you have ever had an experience Dating a good friend, will you tell me how it ultimatly turned out?
I know it can be a risk do date a good friend, but i think it would be worth it...i just need a second (or a lot) opinion.
And i don't want too wonder about what could have happened the rest of my life...i can't go a day without thinking about her
Thanks
-hoot-PLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About a girl!!!?
You make darn sure that you will be her first date. Then take it from there.PLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About a girl!!!?
ya..ask her to date u...u know her well..so dat just give u a advantage..just be ur self...adios n gud luck dude..
since you are already best friends this could either work out well or not
I dated my best friend for a while once and we just agreed to be Friends but that doesn't mean you shouldn't go for her though. she may secretly like you after all
That's really sweet, drop hints how you feel but don't make any major moves until atleast a week after her birthday. It's possible :)
She is 15 and can't go out with anyone til she is 16(may 4). We have been good friends for years. She is not a girly-girl.
She always claims she doesn't like anyone at all. Do you really think that is possible?
She's one of my best friends. so if you have ever had an experience Dating a good friend, will you tell me how it ultimatly turned out?
I know it can be a risk do date a good friend, but i think it would be worth it...i just need a second (or a lot) opinion.
And i don't want too wonder about what could have happened the rest of my life...i can't go a day without thinking about her
Thanks
-hoot-PLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About a girl!!!?
You make darn sure that you will be her first date. Then take it from there.PLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About a girl!!!?
ya..ask her to date u...u know her well..so dat just give u a advantage..just be ur self...adios n gud luck dude..
since you are already best friends this could either work out well or not
I dated my best friend for a while once and we just agreed to be Friends but that doesn't mean you shouldn't go for her though. she may secretly like you after all
That's really sweet, drop hints how you feel but don't make any major moves until atleast a week after her birthday. It's possible :)
PLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About A Girl?
ok. So there is this girl i really really really like.
She is 15 and can't go out with anyone til she is 16(may 4). We have been good friends for years. She is not a girly-girl.
She always claims she doesn't like anyone at all. Do you really think that is possible?
She's one of my best friends. so if you have ever had an experience Dating a good friend, will you tell me how it ultimatly turned out?
I know it can be a risk do date a good friend, but i think it would be worth it...i just need a second (or a lot) opinion.
And i don't want too wonder about what could have happened the rest of my life...i can't go a day without thinking about her
Thanks
-hoot-PLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About A Girl?
dating friends can end badly but i just came out of a relationship with a good friend and even though it was bad for a couple days things are back to the way they were
if u really like her u have nothing to lose, just wait til she turns 16 and go for it
one more thing, dont ask her out, out of the blue try flirting and showing her a little how u feel so it doesnt come out of no where and u will also have a better idea about how she feels by her responses to ur slight change in behaviourPLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About A Girl?
well first of all..she wouldnt be grossed out because you seem like a nice person.
and alot of girls dream of guys liking them
im 15 and i never think anyone likes me, and when a guy asks me if i like someone, i just say nope. not really.
when it turns out i like the person who asks me.
you know stuff like that is probably what she is going thru to.
well just come out and ask her!! when she can of corse. in the mean time just wait to be with her/
Wow, you sound so adorable! The whole ';I can't go a day without thinking about her';! That's awesome. I liked my best friend for a year before we started dating, and I always told her, ';Know the person you date VERY well before dating them.'; And... I was right. It wasn't awkward and we felt very strongly for one another. Hopefully, she doesn't ONLY see you as a friend where it's just not possible anymore. Just keep on calling her sometimes and be more personal with her. Just start to really know her. Once you know a person, then you can figure out how to handle the bumps in the relationship. HINT: If you do date your friend, make sure you read her signs correctly. If you are coming on too strong, BACK OFF! Seriously, it's the reason why we broke up. Other than that, being friends before you date is a very mature way of dating and I strongly encourage it. The best of luck to you and I'm not sure if it's possible she doesn't like anybody at all. Just work your magic, be charming and flirty, what more could a girl want? ;)
Good luck.acne scars
She is 15 and can't go out with anyone til she is 16(may 4). We have been good friends for years. She is not a girly-girl.
She always claims she doesn't like anyone at all. Do you really think that is possible?
She's one of my best friends. so if you have ever had an experience Dating a good friend, will you tell me how it ultimatly turned out?
I know it can be a risk do date a good friend, but i think it would be worth it...i just need a second (or a lot) opinion.
And i don't want too wonder about what could have happened the rest of my life...i can't go a day without thinking about her
Thanks
-hoot-PLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About A Girl?
dating friends can end badly but i just came out of a relationship with a good friend and even though it was bad for a couple days things are back to the way they were
if u really like her u have nothing to lose, just wait til she turns 16 and go for it
one more thing, dont ask her out, out of the blue try flirting and showing her a little how u feel so it doesnt come out of no where and u will also have a better idea about how she feels by her responses to ur slight change in behaviourPLEASE HELP!!!! I Need Advice About A Girl?
well first of all..she wouldnt be grossed out because you seem like a nice person.
and alot of girls dream of guys liking them
im 15 and i never think anyone likes me, and when a guy asks me if i like someone, i just say nope. not really.
when it turns out i like the person who asks me.
you know stuff like that is probably what she is going thru to.
well just come out and ask her!! when she can of corse. in the mean time just wait to be with her/
Wow, you sound so adorable! The whole ';I can't go a day without thinking about her';! That's awesome. I liked my best friend for a year before we started dating, and I always told her, ';Know the person you date VERY well before dating them.'; And... I was right. It wasn't awkward and we felt very strongly for one another. Hopefully, she doesn't ONLY see you as a friend where it's just not possible anymore. Just keep on calling her sometimes and be more personal with her. Just start to really know her. Once you know a person, then you can figure out how to handle the bumps in the relationship. HINT: If you do date your friend, make sure you read her signs correctly. If you are coming on too strong, BACK OFF! Seriously, it's the reason why we broke up. Other than that, being friends before you date is a very mature way of dating and I strongly encourage it. The best of luck to you and I'm not sure if it's possible she doesn't like anybody at all. Just work your magic, be charming and flirty, what more could a girl want? ;)
Good luck.
Need serious advice w a girl i like?
heres the story
i rly like this girl in my school....but i never really talked to her.
i started talking to her....but she figured out that i liked her so now whenever i try to talk its rly awkward. yet, she told all her friends and iv been hearing she says im rly cute and have nice eyes.
my friend talked to her and she WANTS me to talk to her, but when i do she answers really short and doesnt ask anything....and she complains its awkward. She also says she doesnt like me like that yet, and she wants to get to know me.....
So wtf do i do, why is she acting this way, and how do i make it less awkward?
I will give soo many pts if you help....and il take a bunch of difrent answers.Need serious advice w a girl i like?
Don't rush into anything quick
just try to talk to her more everyday
when you feel its right ask her if she wants to hang out one day!
And just be really friendly or try to make her laugh(but don't try too hard)
anything like that!
best of luck! :)
answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Need serious advice w a girl i like?
ok im pretty sure she is waitingg forr you to make a move. she is just acting like that to see if you likee her. you should talk to her when there isnt a lot of people like her friends around because that might make her act that way, make it less awkward by cracking a joke or asking her what she likes to do and what she likes. try talking to her friends, see if they wanna give you some information ask them to help you out. also tell your friends to not make it odvious if they know.
GOOODD LUCKK :)
this girl is fickle and does not know what she wants. shes playing games because if she likes you then she should want you to talk to her. its possible shes shy and that would explain the short answers but I don't know her only you do so is she shy?
What i'd suggest is figure out a few conversation starters you can bring up. Try talking to her like you would a friend. If that doesnt go well then think about moving on to someone that can hold a conversation.
I think maybe you scared her, by asking her out, when she barely even knew you.
You can always fix it though. She sounds really shy, so your going to have to make most of the conversation at first. Just take it slow, and wait for her to come around, if you really like her, you should be able to do that. It isn't awkward she is just making exuses because she isn't sure of herself yet. Let her get to know you. Ask to hangout. Its not that big of a deal as it seems.
';how do i make it less awkward';
Marijuana
be natural.. but damn thats awkward i'd tell her you didn't mean it you don't know her enough.. wtf were you thinking saying you really like her when you never really talked to her
just take it slow!
ok, good question!
she likes u but thinks u r wierdly shy, insecure or not confident.. one of the three
she gives u short answers because she doesn't want to mess up the fact that u like her...
second u make it too obvious that u like her..
3rd.. u are not having fun with her..
go have fun.
be funny! make her laugh! ~ quit making her nervous!
am sure u'll have something to talk about..
take a walk with her
talk about how awkward it is.. make fun of her
and her shyness.. but, be nice..too!
did u ask her if she likes you? dont.
do u even know what she likes?
have u noticed her to the smallest detail..
ok let me ask a simple question..
what is it that u like about her?
dont ask her too many questions
that is boring.. converse with her
tell her a story.. a cool awesome story..
do something adventurous with her..
dude..
look into her eyes when she talks.. read her body language.
Well you would have to take away that awkwardness by being confident and spontaneous. Give her a reason to like you- I mean nobody likes awkwardness. Yeah its difficult to change yourself, and it might take a while, but what have you got to lose. Just dont take things too seriously. Experiment now, so that you know exactly what to do in the future. Just dont do anything wierd. It will probably be a bit difficult now since she already thinks that everytime you talk to her its gonna be awkward. So bottom line:
First impressions count. Next time the same opportunity comes around with a different girl kill the awkwardness from the start by being confident, teasing her etc.
Well, probably because it IS awkward. Just like you feel awkward talking to her. When you get that butterflies in your stomach feeling around someone, it's hard to have an in-depth conversation.
Do you guys have friends in common? Ask her out on a group outing to get things going. Or set up a group of a couple of her friends and a couple of yours to go out to a public event. If she's already telling her friends you're cute, she'll probably be agreeable. Plus, in a group outing, there will be people there that each of you would be comfortable around, so it would ease some of the awkward-butterfly feeling: making conversation more likely.
Good luck!!
i rly like this girl in my school....but i never really talked to her.
i started talking to her....but she figured out that i liked her so now whenever i try to talk its rly awkward. yet, she told all her friends and iv been hearing she says im rly cute and have nice eyes.
my friend talked to her and she WANTS me to talk to her, but when i do she answers really short and doesnt ask anything....and she complains its awkward. She also says she doesnt like me like that yet, and she wants to get to know me.....
So wtf do i do, why is she acting this way, and how do i make it less awkward?
I will give soo many pts if you help....and il take a bunch of difrent answers.Need serious advice w a girl i like?
Don't rush into anything quick
just try to talk to her more everyday
when you feel its right ask her if she wants to hang out one day!
And just be really friendly or try to make her laugh(but don't try too hard)
anything like that!
best of luck! :)
answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Need serious advice w a girl i like?
ok im pretty sure she is waitingg forr you to make a move. she is just acting like that to see if you likee her. you should talk to her when there isnt a lot of people like her friends around because that might make her act that way, make it less awkward by cracking a joke or asking her what she likes to do and what she likes. try talking to her friends, see if they wanna give you some information ask them to help you out. also tell your friends to not make it odvious if they know.
GOOODD LUCKK :)
this girl is fickle and does not know what she wants. shes playing games because if she likes you then she should want you to talk to her. its possible shes shy and that would explain the short answers but I don't know her only you do so is she shy?
What i'd suggest is figure out a few conversation starters you can bring up. Try talking to her like you would a friend. If that doesnt go well then think about moving on to someone that can hold a conversation.
I think maybe you scared her, by asking her out, when she barely even knew you.
You can always fix it though. She sounds really shy, so your going to have to make most of the conversation at first. Just take it slow, and wait for her to come around, if you really like her, you should be able to do that. It isn't awkward she is just making exuses because she isn't sure of herself yet. Let her get to know you. Ask to hangout. Its not that big of a deal as it seems.
';how do i make it less awkward';
Marijuana
be natural.. but damn thats awkward i'd tell her you didn't mean it you don't know her enough.. wtf were you thinking saying you really like her when you never really talked to her
just take it slow!
ok, good question!
she likes u but thinks u r wierdly shy, insecure or not confident.. one of the three
she gives u short answers because she doesn't want to mess up the fact that u like her...
second u make it too obvious that u like her..
3rd.. u are not having fun with her..
go have fun.
be funny! make her laugh! ~ quit making her nervous!
am sure u'll have something to talk about..
take a walk with her
talk about how awkward it is.. make fun of her
and her shyness.. but, be nice..too!
did u ask her if she likes you? dont.
do u even know what she likes?
have u noticed her to the smallest detail..
ok let me ask a simple question..
what is it that u like about her?
dont ask her too many questions
that is boring.. converse with her
tell her a story.. a cool awesome story..
do something adventurous with her..
dude..
look into her eyes when she talks.. read her body language.
Well you would have to take away that awkwardness by being confident and spontaneous. Give her a reason to like you- I mean nobody likes awkwardness. Yeah its difficult to change yourself, and it might take a while, but what have you got to lose. Just dont take things too seriously. Experiment now, so that you know exactly what to do in the future. Just dont do anything wierd. It will probably be a bit difficult now since she already thinks that everytime you talk to her its gonna be awkward. So bottom line:
First impressions count. Next time the same opportunity comes around with a different girl kill the awkwardness from the start by being confident, teasing her etc.
Well, probably because it IS awkward. Just like you feel awkward talking to her. When you get that butterflies in your stomach feeling around someone, it's hard to have an in-depth conversation.
Do you guys have friends in common? Ask her out on a group outing to get things going. Or set up a group of a couple of her friends and a couple of yours to go out to a public event. If she's already telling her friends you're cute, she'll probably be agreeable. Plus, in a group outing, there will be people there that each of you would be comfortable around, so it would ease some of the awkward-butterfly feeling: making conversation more likely.
Good luck!!
I need Advice about a girl and What I should do?
I like this girl and I think she likes me but i'm not sure. I've tryed to spend as much time around her as possible and she often talks about her boyfriend and how there relationship isn't working out. She never tells me this personally but she tells a friend of mine when I am there so i can hear too. She has eluded to the fact that she is interested but I still can't tell. If anyone can help I would apreciate it. I also have more specific info on my relationship with her and Why i think she likes me if anyone needs more info to help.I need Advice about a girl and What I should do?
Coming from a girls point of view i would just be straight forward and ask her. say, i know you have a boy friend but you seem like you like me and i kind of like you... if she says she doesn't then she isn't meant for you. I would just keep dropping hints, if you dont want to be straight forward, that you like her. see how it goes from there:) good luck!I need Advice about a girl and What I should do?
i think she may like you
she is telling her friend about her relationship problems in FRONT of you so you know they may break up soon
but i don't know...i would definitely be careful with that
since you're a guy, mind helping me with my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtoDVDPmZDUUfq1x.VbgE2Lsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091110131232AA1zO40
Coming from a girls point of view i would just be straight forward and ask her. say, i know you have a boy friend but you seem like you like me and i kind of like you... if she says she doesn't then she isn't meant for you. I would just keep dropping hints, if you dont want to be straight forward, that you like her. see how it goes from there:) good luck!I need Advice about a girl and What I should do?
i think she may like you
she is telling her friend about her relationship problems in FRONT of you so you know they may break up soon
but i don't know...i would definitely be careful with that
since you're a guy, mind helping me with my question?
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Please give me some advice on this girl!?
Back in July I met a girl at a college induction day. I am a pretty shy person and didn鈥檛 say much to her however I noticed her as soon as I saw her.
I had started talking to one of her friends who I was getting on with ok then in the afternoon me and her were by ourselves I didn鈥檛 say much but she asked me for my MSN addy and we started talking every night.
We soon met up with a couple of her friends and went cinemas this was her idea. By this point she was texting me a lot and we agreed to meet up again which we did. 2 days after that we met up and went to a fair with another one of her friends, by this point I was beginning to have feelings for her.
The fair was very good and by the end of the night I was sure there was something between us, she texted me straight after saying things like 鈥?I wish I could tell someone how I feel鈥? 鈥?I want to ask someone how they feel about me鈥?and 鈥?How can I prove I鈥檓 a lady鈥? All of these made me feel like she felt the same way especially when she said to me on MSN a few days later 鈥楧o you like me in anyway?鈥?and asking me how far up my leg I鈥檇 let her go. However I knew this wasn鈥檛 great timing for me and tried to play it cool.
The next time I saw her was at beginning of our college course. She said sorry for the MSN conversation and said she was drunk although when I鈥檇 asked her that on MSN she said she had only had 2.
So the 1st couple of weeks of the course went well and we became really close like best friends but I still felt there was something more than that between us. Anyway one day while out with a mutal friend I found out that this girl was seeing someone and had been for a good while(around 1 year). I decided to play it cool and try to give her space. But I was soon introduced to this guy she never actually said I鈥檓 going to see my boyfriend she just classed him as a 鈥榤ate鈥? She seemed to push him off a little as well when I was around. Anyway this crushed me especially seen how I鈥檇 spent the whole summer thinking about nothing else. I decided to not talk to her on MSN and didn鈥檛 talk to her at college either. She was asking me what was wrong and what she had done to upset me. I just said that she hadn鈥檛 done anything.
On the Friday we went out to a club with 2 friends and she asked me who I loved and was asking for hugs so I thought maybe there was something between us. So I texted her the next night saying 鈥榶ou know I like you a lot don鈥檛 you?鈥?and 鈥榳here do I stand鈥?鈥?she replied to that text by saying 鈥業鈥檓 not sure. I like you but I鈥檓 with x. I got back to that saying 鈥業f you want to be with x then that鈥檚 upto you. And ill back off鈥?Of course I didn鈥檛 think it was fine and again I felt upset and used. So I decided just blank her at college although she was acting like normal and if nothing had happened. The next day college I was going to speak to her but didn鈥檛 get a chance however we talked on msn and kind of made things up. However she didn鈥檛 show up the next day.
The next week we went to college and were getting on OK again, she told me she is planning to quit the course which upset me because I was looking forward to the next 2 years with her. We went to the pub after woods with 3 other people from college. I felt like I was embarrassing her and I went to the toilet for an hour or so when I came back she had gone without even telling me. I rang her and she told me to ring her when I got home. The next day on MSN her screen name said 鈥?Had a great time last night鈥?although when I鈥檇 been with her she had threatened to go home and didn鈥檛 really seem to be having a good time. She also didn鈥檛 speak to me on msn she was on for over half hour this is probably the 1st time she hasn鈥檛 spoken to me. I feel like she prefers 2 of the other guys in my class and I cant do anything right.
People say 鈥?Forget her鈥? and 鈥榤ove on鈥?but I cant, I want to be with her and make her happy but i don鈥檛 know what to do. Can anyone out there help?
Please give me some advice on this girl!?
no one's goona read tht whole thinPlease give me some advice on this girl!?
you should talk to her and show her how much you care for here and she might like you back.
this girl sounds like she doesnt know what she wants. sadly some girls want you to want them, and toy with this idea, BUT not necessarily feel the same way. it sounds like she might like you, but may have issues, not want to be in a relationship, or just even the chance she just may not be into you at all. remember too, its the thrill of the chase, she may have been wanting to see how far she could go with you at the early stage, and when u started showing interest, she backed off. sometimes its this simple with girls. its usually an insecurity thing. to be honest, you have done what you can do, i would leave it up to her..keeping on about it wont make it happen. its also a possibility she is trying to make you jealous. we are complicated. very complicated. just be honest and yourself and if she doesnt go for it, im sure a lovely girl will cus you sound like a gentleman.
good luck
she seems rather undecided. you could try and have a serious talk with her and sort things out, but be strong, she could tell you something ambiguous or just plain tell you she doesn't want to be your gf.
if its ment to be faith will bring use together, everything always happens for a reason and if use are ment to be together use will
but sounds like you want her a little to much, if she doesnt no you want her already let her know even by sending her a rose or somthing then stay away from her , avoid her but not to deliberatly dont call her or anything like that soon enough she will come after you
talk to her and confess fresh!
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I had started talking to one of her friends who I was getting on with ok then in the afternoon me and her were by ourselves I didn鈥檛 say much but she asked me for my MSN addy and we started talking every night.
We soon met up with a couple of her friends and went cinemas this was her idea. By this point she was texting me a lot and we agreed to meet up again which we did. 2 days after that we met up and went to a fair with another one of her friends, by this point I was beginning to have feelings for her.
The fair was very good and by the end of the night I was sure there was something between us, she texted me straight after saying things like 鈥?I wish I could tell someone how I feel鈥? 鈥?I want to ask someone how they feel about me鈥?and 鈥?How can I prove I鈥檓 a lady鈥? All of these made me feel like she felt the same way especially when she said to me on MSN a few days later 鈥楧o you like me in anyway?鈥?and asking me how far up my leg I鈥檇 let her go. However I knew this wasn鈥檛 great timing for me and tried to play it cool.
The next time I saw her was at beginning of our college course. She said sorry for the MSN conversation and said she was drunk although when I鈥檇 asked her that on MSN she said she had only had 2.
So the 1st couple of weeks of the course went well and we became really close like best friends but I still felt there was something more than that between us. Anyway one day while out with a mutal friend I found out that this girl was seeing someone and had been for a good while(around 1 year). I decided to play it cool and try to give her space. But I was soon introduced to this guy she never actually said I鈥檓 going to see my boyfriend she just classed him as a 鈥榤ate鈥? She seemed to push him off a little as well when I was around. Anyway this crushed me especially seen how I鈥檇 spent the whole summer thinking about nothing else. I decided to not talk to her on MSN and didn鈥檛 talk to her at college either. She was asking me what was wrong and what she had done to upset me. I just said that she hadn鈥檛 done anything.
On the Friday we went out to a club with 2 friends and she asked me who I loved and was asking for hugs so I thought maybe there was something between us. So I texted her the next night saying 鈥榶ou know I like you a lot don鈥檛 you?鈥?and 鈥榳here do I stand鈥?鈥?she replied to that text by saying 鈥業鈥檓 not sure. I like you but I鈥檓 with x. I got back to that saying 鈥業f you want to be with x then that鈥檚 upto you. And ill back off鈥?Of course I didn鈥檛 think it was fine and again I felt upset and used. So I decided just blank her at college although she was acting like normal and if nothing had happened. The next day college I was going to speak to her but didn鈥檛 get a chance however we talked on msn and kind of made things up. However she didn鈥檛 show up the next day.
The next week we went to college and were getting on OK again, she told me she is planning to quit the course which upset me because I was looking forward to the next 2 years with her. We went to the pub after woods with 3 other people from college. I felt like I was embarrassing her and I went to the toilet for an hour or so when I came back she had gone without even telling me. I rang her and she told me to ring her when I got home. The next day on MSN her screen name said 鈥?Had a great time last night鈥?although when I鈥檇 been with her she had threatened to go home and didn鈥檛 really seem to be having a good time. She also didn鈥檛 speak to me on msn she was on for over half hour this is probably the 1st time she hasn鈥檛 spoken to me. I feel like she prefers 2 of the other guys in my class and I cant do anything right.
People say 鈥?Forget her鈥? and 鈥榤ove on鈥?but I cant, I want to be with her and make her happy but i don鈥檛 know what to do. Can anyone out there help?
Please give me some advice on this girl!?
no one's goona read tht whole thinPlease give me some advice on this girl!?
you should talk to her and show her how much you care for here and she might like you back.
this girl sounds like she doesnt know what she wants. sadly some girls want you to want them, and toy with this idea, BUT not necessarily feel the same way. it sounds like she might like you, but may have issues, not want to be in a relationship, or just even the chance she just may not be into you at all. remember too, its the thrill of the chase, she may have been wanting to see how far she could go with you at the early stage, and when u started showing interest, she backed off. sometimes its this simple with girls. its usually an insecurity thing. to be honest, you have done what you can do, i would leave it up to her..keeping on about it wont make it happen. its also a possibility she is trying to make you jealous. we are complicated. very complicated. just be honest and yourself and if she doesnt go for it, im sure a lovely girl will cus you sound like a gentleman.
good luck
she seems rather undecided. you could try and have a serious talk with her and sort things out, but be strong, she could tell you something ambiguous or just plain tell you she doesn't want to be your gf.
if its ment to be faith will bring use together, everything always happens for a reason and if use are ment to be together use will
but sounds like you want her a little to much, if she doesnt no you want her already let her know even by sending her a rose or somthing then stay away from her , avoid her but not to deliberatly dont call her or anything like that soon enough she will come after you
talk to her and confess fresh!
http://sg.answers.yahoo.com/question/ind鈥?/a>
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