Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Please help!!! Need advice regarding a girl!!?

So i've been single for a few months and one of my friends set me up with a girl she knows- i've only met the girl once but now i have her phone number and started texting her today - she's busy this weekend but said she'll definitely go out with me the following weekend- but now i have to wait 2 weeks before seeing her since we live almost an hour away from each other and with our schedules it's only feasible to hang out on the weekend- my question is how do i handle the 2 weeks before actually going on the date with her? do i only text her? if so, how often?Please help!!! Need advice regarding a girl!!?
you def want to text her but dont go on a crazy texting spree make the text convos more about your plans and what SHE would want to do or is interested in try to learn things about her by seeing what types of things shed like to do when you hang out and chill you got things to do to you dont want to look like you dont have a life but you still want her to know your interested so dont go over board but also let her know your there thinking about her and want that weekend to come but dont just come out and say that express it in lil ways and if its a first date you should be thinking of something that will catch her off guard and maybe a lil romantic flowers are nice but try something adventurous and fun maybe if shes that type of girl i mean not every girl wants to just be taken out to dinner and dropped at home if shes laid back you could do something fun and laid back takes some of the tension of the first datePlease help!!! Need advice regarding a girl!!?
Just get to know her - don't text her like 5 times a day - see if she wants to trade questions - this is really fun way to break the ice and will probably make the date go better also - because you'll have some things to talk about. For example:





What's your favorite movie?


Who do you admire the most?


What's the best gift you've ever gotten?





That way, you'll know when to text back - because you'll get a text or e-mail with a question and you can gauge how quickly she'll text back and forth.





Good Luck!
Don't text her too often. Some girls can find it annoying if you are constantly bugging them. Play it cool, text her every second day or something ask her how her day was etc... keep her wondering, who knows maybe she will text you first! I say try and keep yourself busy to make the time fly by faster! You'll be surprised at how fast next weekend will come around! You could also call her a day or 2 before the day your suppose to hang out to make sure that plans havent changed.
Play it cool my friend. Leave it for a week or so and dont send her loads of texts. Just maybe one or 2 the week before you meet to see how she's been/what she's been up to/what she might like to do on the date - suggest a few ideas yourself and let her pick. Just don't seem too needy or she'll get cold feet before you even meet.
right im a girl so listen up.





The one thing girls hate is being pestered but we also hate being ignored because we then think your not interested.





text her and if she doesnt text back leave it and wait for her to respond.





If she doesnt, maybe she diddnt get the text so wait till the next day and try again.





If she still doesnt respond it best not to text her again but ask your friend if she is still interested.





If she does respond to your texts, that means she wants to talk so dont ignor her.





Thats it really, quite simple.





lol.
I think you're thinking about this a little too much. Feel her out via a few texts. If she responds keep the lines of communication open, if not just wait until you see her. If you're 'pestering' her you may scare her away, and come off as desperate. Play it cool playa'. Good luck with this one.


-ES
Send her a text asking if and when it would be okay to call her. Then use the calls to bond. The date will be much more relaxed, and you will have established common grounds and things to talk about.





First dates are exciting! Good luck!
don't text her to much or she will think u r obsessed with her and might get creeped by u texting her and she might stop texting back so text her maybe


once a day or every other day and if u start if starts


a conversation keep going
you should definitely talk to her and stuff but alot of girls get annoyed if you do too much.








don't call her every day.





text her every so often.








and if she don't text back don't bug her about it.
Call her and send a few texts as for what to do in the mean time, carry on, carry on, its not like you two are married.
Never text. Texting is lame, easy, and impersonal. Call her and talk to her. That way you can actually get to know her.
well if i was in that situation i would cassualy text the person say hey whats up. just little stuff to keep in contact but not like every day. you couls mabey even call her just to say hey.
I guess, i mean text her but not too much, you don't wana run out of things to say for the date!
do whatever you want. dont text her everyday though, let her text you too
not too often. text her like three days a week.
call her..

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