Weird Breakup. Need some advice. Is this girl just unsure or what? Help?

Me and this girl are dating for 3 months. All of a sudden she says that she feels its not going anywhere. BUT she calls me and texts me like we are still dating. Today she texts me twice and calls me and I didn’t respond until an hour later and she thinks I am ignoring her. Is this a game???? I really like her and i felt we really never got to know eachother well enough. We clicked very very well. Had sex 2 times and enjoyed each other company. Anyone have any life experiences to share etc.. I am 30 she 26. Any advice or anything .. PLEASE. Could she just be thinking of still being with me as a boyfriend? Read latest detail below.Weird Breakup. Need some advice. Is this girl just unsure or what? Help?
Okay, to everyone that says she is young and is scared to commit because she is so young, SHE IS 26!! the national average age for women getting married is 25! She is not too young, I am 26 (almost 27) and I have been married for almost 7 years! My hubby and I went through 3 years of college together and both graduated (debt free) and now have 3 kids, a house that we built together, and both vehicles are paid for, SHE IS NOT TOO YOUNG!





That being said, she could still be nervous, not because of age but because she might be falling in love and be nervous, it is a big commitment. I broke up with my husband after he bought my ring, but before he proposed, I was scared, (and I actually was young, only 19 at the time) but then I just missed him so terribly, we weren't officially together, but we spent all our time together, still kissed (we waited till marriage for sex), eventually I realized that I really was in love with him, being with him brought me more happiness than anything else in my life, so once I got my anxiety and fear under control we got engaged and married. I am so glad he waited for me to figure out my feelings, he is amazing and I fall deeper in love with him everyday, in fact I still get butterflies when he kisses me, and its bee 7 years!!!Weird Breakup. Need some advice. Is this girl just unsure or what? Help?
Well, i think she wants to drive you crazy and she is getting what she wants.Well , i think she needs your attetion, maybe you are not giving her enough.Sometimes she wants you and sometimes she thinks she deserve more.Are you giving attetion enough???
Are you sure you were not the rebound guy, and now you are the back up guy.................she is young and probably does not want anything serious. If you really think you guys can have something and ya really like her, have a serious conversation about this with her. Good Luck
Okay man. She's insecure. You can 't fix that. She would have to. Dump her and move on. Three months is nothing. Date more than one girl, too. Keep your options open.
Take the cues from her actions not from her words...and just enjoy the time if this is what you want...try again to make love to her and you'll see...
she just wants to mess with others guys, and then when u find out about it, she can say, ';were not together'; u know like a duh!
confront her and ask her.


if it seems she just wants to flirt so be it - move on





otherwise get bak together.
She's still dating you. Don't worry about it.
wtf??? how many times r u gna post this? isnt 152 times enuf??
Don't be confused - she's just playing you - using you for companionship until she gets what she wants from the other guy in her life - because there is one. Every time you speak/ text her just keep repeating these words to yourself: she just wants to be friends. In fact, it's great that you're trying not to be available to her every whim.





Don't play into her silly games - you are too grown for this - get what you can while you can, but don't delude yourself until she says otherwise. In the meantime, find someone else to occupy your time so you'll stop obsessing about this chick.
This is a girl who wants her cake and to eat it too. She's got you on her string. If she doesn't have a guy on her role call for the day...you're the one she runs to.


If she holds the trump card and can wheel you in when her dance list is empty for the day...you're a sucker.


It's time to wake up...she's calling the shots. If she wants friendship...only offer that. Don't be so available.


Her manipulation will only end up hurting you.


Cut the cord and move on.


Let her know that she was the one that said she only wanted to be friends. That was so she could play the field with others. And when there are no others...you are the fish she keeps on the line.


If you're a fisher man you know what eventually happens to the fish we've got hanging on the line...they die...we cook them and eat them...then their gone.


So don't be the fish on her line.


She called the shots...she only wants to be friends. Friends don't have sex.


So move on.


Find a girl that is going to treat you much nicer.


Make something better of yourself.


Show you feel good about yourself and don't be there to answer the phone...when she asks why you didn't...it's really none of her business. You're not her boyfriend and don't have to tell her.


Control your own life and don't let her.
She sounds scared!!!!





She's unsure of what she wants? If you confront her you'll loose her. If you ignore her you'll loose her. Your in a no win situation.





Dont wait for her decision - make your own mind up?! DO you want her, is she the right girl for you? Once you've decided you'll be stronger and she will see that and then you will know if your on or off....





BUT!!! Dont let her walk all over you!





Good luck - keep us posted.x
let me tell you mr. she is playing you.......


and ima tell you what you do...... have fun and do what you want because she said LETS BE FRIENDS NOT YOU....... so if she gets mad at you for not doing the boyfriend thing then thats her problem........if she cant handle that then ignore her and maybe JUST MAYBE she'll realize waht a goog person she missed out on because tell her you reserve those special treatments to people that you want to be commited to ok.
i went through the same SHTTTTT and i'm going through it now but she says she loves me, yo i dont care im just doing what i have to do. just be careful when she all of sudden stops calling you then you will be the sad one.





BEST THING TO DO IS IGNORE HER AND STILL GET SOME LOVING...
Wow coming from a girl, I would forget her and move on. She is just playing you. I use to do it myself trust me. She is not right for you, if she is having sex with you with no romantic connection then obviously you can answer your own question. She is pulling you around like a dog on a leash. Keep ignoring her and maybe she will realize what a jerk she is being. Don't be there for her and maybe she will want you back. Its then up to you if you want to take her back. If she wants to act like you are still dating, tell her you don't think thats best right now, and you would like to get to know eachother. You are not her puppy.





hope this helps.
i think after 3 months she has figured out you are not ';the one';. now, it sounds like she is just calling and texting out of habit. i think you should tell her its fine to be friends but maybe you shouldn't talk every day and text every day and speak before bed every night bc she is sending you mixed signals. she is saying you shouldn't be together but totally acting the same as if you were.
Maybe she does still like yooh but at times she has doubts about it and so she tells you that yooh that you two are just friends. maybe shes just telling you that you guys are just friends because she is trying to convince herself that thats all she wants.... On the other hand she might be playing to see how long she can keep you wanting her like playing hard to get only shes gone to the extreme... I think you should talk to her let her know that you think you two are still acting like a couple and prove it show her that you do and then you can sort it out. Hope i helped.
My girlfriend of one year is doing the exact same thing. She is saying that she wants to slow things down, cant be in a relationship and yet still live together and kiss and basically date each other, movies, dinner... As long as she doesnt want to see other people i guess you are dating. My girfriend is 26 and i am 30 as well. Sometimes I think that she feels she is too young to make such a commitment to someone. Probably the same with your girl.