Need some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?

Well, I have met this girl at church and I really like her! The problem is This.... A) I'm 33 and she is probably about 23 max... I'm not sure. B) she is very shy %26amp; never carries a conversation. I'm kind of on the shy side too. She sits by her parents at church and it's hard to get her alone. Is it ok to ask her out for dinner or coffee? How do I do it? in the hall? when she is with her parents? When and how?





Additional facts:


It's a conservative baptist church


Her parents look like they are in their late 50's or early 60's


We are both in the same sunday school class, but rarely get to sit together.


I will be baptized on sunday, JUST saved, will she think me too spiritually immature?


BTW she has nothing to do with my relationship with Jesus... That is rock solid!!





Best answer 10 pointsNeed some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?
if you are truly saved as you claimed then God will provides you the wisdom to do it and as God told us: Matthew 7:7; James 1:5 then why not pray to God for grace and mercy to do what you need to do in order to get closer to that lady.





Jas 1:2 My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations;


Jas 1:3 Knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience.


Jas 1:4 But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.


Jas 1:5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.


Jas 1:6 But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.


Jas 1:7 For let not that man think that he shall receive any thing of the Lord.Need some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?
23 is right on the edge of society's unspoken n/2+7 ';ick'; rule for you. I wouldn't necissarly think ';ick'; but her parents might, and she might. Be social for a while with her first, parents around or not. When you do finally ask her out, do it where it's just the two of you in the conversation.





I'm a shy person too. Sometimes we just have to bolden up and wing it.
Pray for opportunities to talk with her and that God will bless your conversations. Does your church have potluck dinners? If so, next time ask her if you can sit with her and her parents. That will put her parents' minds at ease about you too. Mostly, just pray for God's direction in the matter.
Just start talking to her (parents or no parents around). Don't just ask her out randomly, try to get her out of her shell first.





Remember, you are only 33, and she is only 23. You won't come off as a pervert.
Find a girl your age please!!! She shouldn't be dating someone who is 12 years older than her.
Err....stop being a wuss and ask.