Hey i need some advice about a girl?

ok well im in college and i saw this very pretty girl ( in my opinion) and well i dont have the courage to talk to her, she works at the library and i constantly go there. i have never had a gf, and well im not very confident in myself its not that im fat or ugly its jsut well personal problems. so any tips please. i learned not to miss your opportunitiesHey i need some advice about a girl?
Well if she's as pretty as you say she is, then im sure other guys have probably tried to hit on her already. So, the it would be best to get to know her.... ';Hi'; could start things off.Hey i need some advice about a girl?
What do you have to lose? Honestly, if she rejects you in any way shape or form she is either not worth it, or she has some issues of her own.





I would recommend just trying to pick a situation when it would be appropriate to say something to her. You'll know when that time is. Such as when she drops a book, or asks a question aloud, or really anything. Just be sweet and gentle, don't act like your really after anything except showing this kindness in your heart.





Hopefully, you'll know where to go from there.
I suggest you go up and ask her to help you find a book, then start up a little conversation. If she seems interested, she is interested, and you are free to talk further, hopefully leading somewhere better. If she seems bored, just jump right in and ask her out! Nothing wrong with a last resort, now is there?
tell her jokes wen you go to the library.. make small conversations wit her and if are true to yourself and a total gentleman then you will totally win her over.. don be scared to ask her out once you get to know her.. you gotta have confidence in your self before anyone else can.. remember wat don kill you only makes you stronger..
Just talk to her , ask her if she'd like to be friends , and if she says yes then get to know her and for all you know she might like you back too. give it a shot, the worst that can happen is she wouldnt want to be friends, but that would be her loss.
Ask her to help you to find a book and go from there. Us guys HAVE to take the initiative or you will end up with nothing. Don't seem desperate or needy because that is a turn off.
Well, first off, she works there, right? So ask her for help finding a book, or for help using the computer library thingy.


Just remember to smile, make eye contact and be confident!
At least speak to her. Especially if you are obvious in your eyeballing her. You are on the fast track to a creeper if you keep visiting just to look at her.
talk to her joke around come in everyday but not in a stalkerish way just for 15 minutes to get a book and say hi AND SHELL NOTICE U
Yes talk to her.





Baby steps my friend, baby steps.
ask her to find u some book...n thats how u can start talkin
Pretend it is just you and her, and no one is watching to judge? If you stutter, just laugh at yourself out loud and start over. Don't take yourself so seriously that you worry about how others perceive you. Eat something that will dull your senses so you are not so aware and so self-conscious (not alcohol). Say ';hi'; and smile a genuine smile...if you like her she may be able to tell when you smile (google ';different smiles';). Get yourself so ';fed up'; with yourself that you ';just do it'; but don't go in there angry. Re-think whether or not you really like her for her looks or everything. I THINK it is sometimes harder for a guy when he is so amazed by physical appearance, than personality, etc.





Maybe that is why it is easier for older guys - who's testosterone is lower - but this may make you feel guilty that you just like her for her physical appearance....So, get to know her personality by talking. Be grateful that you talk with a really good-looking woman, that you have eyes to see and ears to her her voice. Think about the people who lose their senses..they would like to be in your shoes...don't waste your gifts! (sight and hearing). Put them to use!


Or give yourself a good boot in the rear to get started.





How about this point of view?


';What would a woman be in awe of?


A strong sequoia tree that could stop a mac truck


or


A yard full of pretty pussy-willows that a mac truck can drive right through and knock down?';


Get my drift? Which one would she have more respect for if it were about to topple down onto the ground? sequoia vs. pussy-willows.