Tuesday, April 27, 2010

I need some advice on this girl that i like?

dont really want to go out with her just get to know her, but im pretty sure i pissed her off or freaked her out or something like that, we graduate highschool in 2 weeks and yeah would really like to repair the situation we used to talk sometimes but yeah not now she doesnt give me a cold shoulder or anything she just doesnt talk to me when she sees me and im kinda of awkward around girls unless they talk to me first, and yeah okey i told her that which was pretty stupid, and she said we could chat sometime but i ended up screwing up that opportunity. Im going to graduate from applecross in like 2 weeks, would really like some advice that helps





thanksI need some advice on this girl that i like?
Most basic advice ask her what happened. Think about anything you might have done that would have violated her trusting you. You might figure out it, but it is still all assumptions until you ASK her.





If you have asked her and she says ';nothing'; than she obviously is having an issue with either trusting you or she has feelings beyond what you have and feels embarrassed to share them.





Either way you cannot make her talk to you. If she isn't giving you the total brush off than she still cares about you. Don't push to hard but you need to just ask her why things have changed and let her know you are totally willing to listen.I need some advice on this girl that i like?
Dude, man up and talk to her. If she is pissed off or freaked out, just explain to her what you really meant and that you want the two of you to be friends. Girls really aren't an enigma :-)


And about the awkwardness around girls: 1) girls sometimes feel awkward around guys too, so we know the feeling. Don't let it stop you. 2) Take a deep breath and get out of your head, don't over think it and just talk to her.


Hope you guys fix it before graduation!


Good Luck!
Relax, breathe, stop focusing so much on what you call mistakes, if you keep reliving mistakes made in the past you'll just amplify them and won't focus on the time that is now. Your projection of this girls feelings are thoughts without fact, your feeling that you pissed her off is just an illusion. She may like you man. Just be yourself, concentrate, live in the moment, forget regret, do something special for her. I was in the same boat man and the worst she can do is reject you. Life goes on, far better than not knowing. Live in the now brother.
I think that it sounds like you like her sort of, and she probably likes you too.


I think its a good idea to just chill out, say hi when you see her,but don't come off as desperate.


If you really want to get to know this girl,find out what her interests are, etc.


Do you hang with the same group of friends?, maybe try to organize a group thing, go hang out.


Give her attention, but hang back too and play it cool.


Girls like boys with a little aggression but, don't be overbearing.


Hope this helped you a bit.


Good luck and congrats on your graduation.


Remember, life has just begun for you, there are alot of girls out there.


Cheers :)
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