Friday, April 30, 2010

Need serious advice w a girl i like?

heres the story





i rly like this girl in my school....but i never really talked to her.


i started talking to her....but she figured out that i liked her so now whenever i try to talk its rly awkward. yet, she told all her friends and iv been hearing she says im rly cute and have nice eyes.


my friend talked to her and she WANTS me to talk to her, but when i do she answers really short and doesnt ask anything....and she complains its awkward. She also says she doesnt like me like that yet, and she wants to get to know me.....





So wtf do i do, why is she acting this way, and how do i make it less awkward?


I will give soo many pts if you help....and il take a bunch of difrent answers.Need serious advice w a girl i like?
Don't rush into anything quick


just try to talk to her more everyday


when you feel its right ask her if she wants to hang out one day!


And just be really friendly or try to make her laugh(but don't try too hard)


anything like that!


best of luck! :)





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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Need serious advice w a girl i like?
ok im pretty sure she is waitingg forr you to make a move. she is just acting like that to see if you likee her. you should talk to her when there isnt a lot of people like her friends around because that might make her act that way, make it less awkward by cracking a joke or asking her what she likes to do and what she likes. try talking to her friends, see if they wanna give you some information ask them to help you out. also tell your friends to not make it odvious if they know.


GOOODD LUCKK :)
this girl is fickle and does not know what she wants. shes playing games because if she likes you then she should want you to talk to her. its possible shes shy and that would explain the short answers but I don't know her only you do so is she shy?





What i'd suggest is figure out a few conversation starters you can bring up. Try talking to her like you would a friend. If that doesnt go well then think about moving on to someone that can hold a conversation.
I think maybe you scared her, by asking her out, when she barely even knew you.


You can always fix it though. She sounds really shy, so your going to have to make most of the conversation at first. Just take it slow, and wait for her to come around, if you really like her, you should be able to do that. It isn't awkward she is just making exuses because she isn't sure of herself yet. Let her get to know you. Ask to hangout. Its not that big of a deal as it seems.
';how do i make it less awkward';





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be natural.. but damn thats awkward i'd tell her you didn't mean it you don't know her enough.. wtf were you thinking saying you really like her when you never really talked to her
just take it slow!
ok, good question!


she likes u but thinks u r wierdly shy, insecure or not confident.. one of the three


she gives u short answers because she doesn't want to mess up the fact that u like her...


second u make it too obvious that u like her..


3rd.. u are not having fun with her..


go have fun.


be funny! make her laugh! ~ quit making her nervous!


am sure u'll have something to talk about..


take a walk with her


talk about how awkward it is.. make fun of her


and her shyness.. but, be nice..too!


did u ask her if she likes you? dont.





do u even know what she likes?


have u noticed her to the smallest detail..


ok let me ask a simple question..


what is it that u like about her?





dont ask her too many questions


that is boring.. converse with her


tell her a story.. a cool awesome story..


do something adventurous with her..


dude..


look into her eyes when she talks.. read her body language.
Well you would have to take away that awkwardness by being confident and spontaneous. Give her a reason to like you- I mean nobody likes awkwardness. Yeah its difficult to change yourself, and it might take a while, but what have you got to lose. Just dont take things too seriously. Experiment now, so that you know exactly what to do in the future. Just dont do anything wierd. It will probably be a bit difficult now since she already thinks that everytime you talk to her its gonna be awkward. So bottom line:





First impressions count. Next time the same opportunity comes around with a different girl kill the awkwardness from the start by being confident, teasing her etc.
Well, probably because it IS awkward. Just like you feel awkward talking to her. When you get that butterflies in your stomach feeling around someone, it's hard to have an in-depth conversation.





Do you guys have friends in common? Ask her out on a group outing to get things going. Or set up a group of a couple of her friends and a couple of yours to go out to a public event. If she's already telling her friends you're cute, she'll probably be agreeable. Plus, in a group outing, there will be people there that each of you would be comfortable around, so it would ease some of the awkward-butterfly feeling: making conversation more likely.





Good luck!!

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