So i met this girl last week, who has a boyfriend. We chatted for awhile and got along really well. I had her laughing the whole time. I wasn't going to ask her for her number but it came up, and I got it. We exchanged numbers and then she left a little bit later to go home with her friend.
A few days later, me, her and a few friends were going to hang out - one of those friends being her boyfriend, but by the time I got there she and her boyfriend had left to hang out on their own.
A little later, I found out that some guy told her that I messed with his relationship - which is not true. He spread a rumor to her about me.
Today, I sent a message to her on facebook, telling her that what he said is not true, and he really hates me. I said that another friend of both her and me told me about what she was told. She responded by saying, ';ok thanks.'; I then asked her how an event was tonight in a message and when I got back to my computer, I facebook chatted her saying, ';hey, wats up.'; She did not respond. I need some advice of where to go from here.
I think she's a really cool girl and I really want to be friends with her. I'm being totally honest about this.
Her boyfriend is really chill, and she's the kind of girl who's friends with other guys. Her boyfriend doesn't get the least bit jealous.
A good friend of mine also met her that night, so we kind of have a friend circle. And I know her boyfriend doesn't get jealous, because when me and her traded coats cuz she was cold and we took a picture of it, someone said, ';won't your boyfriend get jealous?'; And she said no.
*Her boyfriend didn't spread the rumor* Someone else did.HELP! I NEED ADVICE ABOUT A GIRL!!! EASY POINTS!!! PLEASE!!!?
you should tell her that you like her and you know she has a bf but you want to hang out sometime i mean she wont mind tell her you don't want to get her bf mad or make her uncomforable being around you if she knows you like her but you want to go out to a restaurant or hang out at ur house or something im sure she will say yes
*and when she leaves give her a kiss on the cheekHELP! I NEED ADVICE ABOUT A GIRL!!! EASY POINTS!!! PLEASE!!!?
Just tell her how you feel. Maybe she feels the same?
Find a way to prove to her it was not you.
Find the root of the rumor and confront him.
It's likely the boyfriend, even if he says otherwise.
WHAT ARE YOU ASKING!?
Your friend seems a lot like me. I have a boyfrend, but i like to hang around guys bcuz they r way kooler than girls. That doesnt mean that i gotta have a ';relationship'; with the guys that i hang with. So i understand where ur coming from. Maybe she is trying to back off a little bit bcuz she doesnt want her boyfriend to think that she is cheating on him. I have had that problem in the the past with one of my guy friends. He ended up txting me and asked if it was ok if we cud just be friends. He told me that wutever i dont wanna do is fine and if i wanna take my boyfriend with us when we go places, thats kool too. My boyfriend is friends with my friend and we keep it kool. Try it. it mite work.
Just dont screw with him and his girl..You can be friends with her but dont screw it up for the guy
Thursday, December 31, 2009
I need some Advice about this girl!!!HELP?
ok,, there was one girl in my swimming class, i catched her staring at me all the time, and she always smile to me and sometime try to swim close to me, and many times she try to touch me with her body.but she never talk to me. well i think she likes me too, but i just a ****** SHY boy, u know..i hate myself being like that. everytime when there is a pretty girl try to get close to me i feel very ****** nervouse and SHY. But i really really really want to start a Conversation with this girl in my swimming class, but i just so scare, i dont know why, i started to hate myself a lot becasue i will loose another chance if i still like that. i need some help to overcome my fear. can anyone tell me what to do, how can i build up my confident,
any girls here pleases tell me what was this girl in my swimiming class thinking about? does she like me?
Thank You!!! i need some advice, HELP Pleases PleasesI need some Advice about this girl!!!HELP?
SOoOO ADORABLE! Say hi and start talking about swimming aske her how long has she been swimming for, how does she like it? Has she been to competitions. I mean you already have one concrete thing in common. You cannot mess it up. SHE LIKES YOU. Go up to her and ask if she would like to practice together or something. She's most likely just waiting for you to initiate. Please dont let her pass by. Tomorrow atleast say hi to her and smile. If you cant start a conversation atleast say hi...it's rare for ppl to neglect a hi. Just say hi as you are walking next to her.
Good luck!I need some Advice about this girl!!!HELP?
well step one you need to try to talk to her and i know this is hard i was like you once you cant just ask if she likes you you need to build a friendship just go up and talk to her man god has no pity for a coward and you will be stuck in this situation otherwise find a common ground that you can both speak about such as swimming and then after a little while ask her if she owuld like to hang out sometime out of swim class
i think she is totally into you. you need to talk to her and get to know her first. it doesnt have to be a relationship at first but instead a friendship. just go up to her and start talkin bout what your interested in or ask her questions. dont think of her as a girl but as another person. youll miss out on A LOT of opportunities in life if you keep it up. believe me it gets easier the more you do it.
I'll try to help-
Don't swear around girls... sorry, i just noted that you did that. Girls are major flirts and we normally don't know when a guy's into us. Talk to her about her life- we love to talk about ourselves normally. Ask what kinds of music she likes and listen to that music. Now you have something to talk about with her! You shouldn't talk about swimming, since it could go nowhere whatsoever. I hope this helps, bud!
Yes :) she likes you! Next time she swims by you/touches you, tell her you like her bathing suit or something...but don't be creepy about it. Complementing is always a plus...Maybe after that just start of with a simple convo like the swimming class itself. Just be like...eh you like this class? IDK thats what I would do (as a shy person myself) to start talking to a guy.
first of all DONT SHOW OFF!! thats the last thing a girl wants! lol! ummmm try to just put urself out ther, trust me i kno its annoying wen ppls dont understand and just say ';get out ther'; but i used to be ultra shy too and ppl kept sayin s h i t like dat!! but really u just gotta get out ther and be urself! thats wat i like in a guy, hope i helped!
its simple, just start off asking for her name, ';what's ur name?'; she tells you, then be like, '; im ********* nice to meet you.'; after that your free to ask whatever. just start talking about things thats going on around you. no need to be shy. if she acts like she doesnt want to speak, dont give her the time and day.
okay im a gurl...i think...that gurl is either a whore or she likes u work up some courage and talk to her next time u see her...how old are u?... well yeah talk to her and get to know her if you like her and she likes you than there ya go hope this helps shy boii!!
i am a girl so i think i can help you.Ok soo if she smiles alot and stares at you then she probaly likes you.Has she ever flirted with you?The best thing to do is say hi and see where it takes you.Try making conversation.
well, i can't tell you that she likes you, but i do know that you'll never have a chance with her if you don't overcome your shyness. girls love it when you go out of your way to talk to her. :)
practice talking to other girls that you dont have an interest in a school you could do 20 a day or more girls you dont know girls you know whatever then youll feel better about striking a convo with the girl in question
That;s adorable shy guys are cuties. Yeah she likes you. Just be like '; you're a good swimmer.'; :)) you can;t mess it up with complimentss. :DD
Goood luckk Hunny.
i think you should say hey
and then she'll talk to you
she is probably shy as well
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You just need to overlook the fact of how beautiful she is and find out who she is on the inside.
Alright man, first. Next time she comes up to you and touches you, touch her back. And if she smiles let her take control and it'll be amazing form then on.
if she comes near you, say hi and ask her how is her day going. just strike up a simple conversation. and you'll get somewhere from there.
just start with a hello
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yeah, i think she does like you. go up and talk to her. and if your really shy, when you catch her looking at you, smile at her.
go up to her and say hi, from there the conversation will flow.
you could start a conversation about swimming maybe or something.
compliment her on something. she would really like that.
you could also ask an open- ended question. if you ask a question that just requires a yes or no the conversation wont flow and it will end quite fast.
act quickly when you see her looking at you. if you take too long you may start to loose your courage. don't think about what your going to say or what your going to do. that would really make you lose your courage faster.
if you stay shy you will miss some really good chances in life. :)
hope this helps you. good luck. :-D
you have nothing to lose by making a fool of yourself, if thats what you're afraid of then just go out on a limb and be yourself the worst that could happen is shes not into you but from her behavior i think shes into you just stop asking yourself what if i say something stupid , what would this world be if everybody was so serious all the time just play along with her and start some conversation , ask her what she likes to do , what her fav color is even if its monotonous and you really dont give a rats *** either way just keep the mouth moving, i used to be like this and i regret every moment of it ive missed out on some pretty good girls because of my awkwardness of myself
EMBRACE THYSELF BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE
okay. if your a shy guys, then just start out talking to her. Take a deep breath before approaching her. If you feel like you dont have any confidence, FAKE IT. soon enough, your brain will forget about the awkwardness and you will start to relax. try being her friend first. you dont necessarily need to be flirty right from the get go. just introduce yourself, it will open the door for future possibilities. Just have a general conversation:
Guy: Hey, i always see you here. You're a great swimmer. how long have you been swimming?
Girl: a couple months/years/etc.
Guy: Oh, really. thats cool. do you do any other sports (surf, play beach volleyball, etc)
just keep it casual, make sure you get her name so next time you see her you can say ';Hi'; to her and mention her name (eg. ';Hi Daisy';) She will feel more comfortable and that you actually listen and remember what she says (:
any girls here pleases tell me what was this girl in my swimiming class thinking about? does she like me?
Thank You!!! i need some advice, HELP Pleases PleasesI need some Advice about this girl!!!HELP?
SOoOO ADORABLE! Say hi and start talking about swimming aske her how long has she been swimming for, how does she like it? Has she been to competitions. I mean you already have one concrete thing in common. You cannot mess it up. SHE LIKES YOU. Go up to her and ask if she would like to practice together or something. She's most likely just waiting for you to initiate. Please dont let her pass by. Tomorrow atleast say hi to her and smile. If you cant start a conversation atleast say hi...it's rare for ppl to neglect a hi. Just say hi as you are walking next to her.
Good luck!I need some Advice about this girl!!!HELP?
well step one you need to try to talk to her and i know this is hard i was like you once you cant just ask if she likes you you need to build a friendship just go up and talk to her man god has no pity for a coward and you will be stuck in this situation otherwise find a common ground that you can both speak about such as swimming and then after a little while ask her if she owuld like to hang out sometime out of swim class
i think she is totally into you. you need to talk to her and get to know her first. it doesnt have to be a relationship at first but instead a friendship. just go up to her and start talkin bout what your interested in or ask her questions. dont think of her as a girl but as another person. youll miss out on A LOT of opportunities in life if you keep it up. believe me it gets easier the more you do it.
I'll try to help-
Don't swear around girls... sorry, i just noted that you did that. Girls are major flirts and we normally don't know when a guy's into us. Talk to her about her life- we love to talk about ourselves normally. Ask what kinds of music she likes and listen to that music. Now you have something to talk about with her! You shouldn't talk about swimming, since it could go nowhere whatsoever. I hope this helps, bud!
Yes :) she likes you! Next time she swims by you/touches you, tell her you like her bathing suit or something...but don't be creepy about it. Complementing is always a plus...Maybe after that just start of with a simple convo like the swimming class itself. Just be like...eh you like this class? IDK thats what I would do (as a shy person myself) to start talking to a guy.
first of all DONT SHOW OFF!! thats the last thing a girl wants! lol! ummmm try to just put urself out ther, trust me i kno its annoying wen ppls dont understand and just say ';get out ther'; but i used to be ultra shy too and ppl kept sayin s h i t like dat!! but really u just gotta get out ther and be urself! thats wat i like in a guy, hope i helped!
its simple, just start off asking for her name, ';what's ur name?'; she tells you, then be like, '; im ********* nice to meet you.'; after that your free to ask whatever. just start talking about things thats going on around you. no need to be shy. if she acts like she doesnt want to speak, dont give her the time and day.
okay im a gurl...i think...that gurl is either a whore or she likes u work up some courage and talk to her next time u see her...how old are u?... well yeah talk to her and get to know her if you like her and she likes you than there ya go hope this helps shy boii!!
i am a girl so i think i can help you.Ok soo if she smiles alot and stares at you then she probaly likes you.Has she ever flirted with you?The best thing to do is say hi and see where it takes you.Try making conversation.
well, i can't tell you that she likes you, but i do know that you'll never have a chance with her if you don't overcome your shyness. girls love it when you go out of your way to talk to her. :)
practice talking to other girls that you dont have an interest in a school you could do 20 a day or more girls you dont know girls you know whatever then youll feel better about striking a convo with the girl in question
That;s adorable shy guys are cuties. Yeah she likes you. Just be like '; you're a good swimmer.'; :)) you can;t mess it up with complimentss. :DD
Goood luckk Hunny.
i think you should say hey
and then she'll talk to you
she is probably shy as well
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You just need to overlook the fact of how beautiful she is and find out who she is on the inside.
Alright man, first. Next time she comes up to you and touches you, touch her back. And if she smiles let her take control and it'll be amazing form then on.
if she comes near you, say hi and ask her how is her day going. just strike up a simple conversation. and you'll get somewhere from there.
just start with a hello
for better solutions just checkout
http://suits-ur-persnality.blogspot.com
yeah, i think she does like you. go up and talk to her. and if your really shy, when you catch her looking at you, smile at her.
go up to her and say hi, from there the conversation will flow.
you could start a conversation about swimming maybe or something.
compliment her on something. she would really like that.
you could also ask an open- ended question. if you ask a question that just requires a yes or no the conversation wont flow and it will end quite fast.
act quickly when you see her looking at you. if you take too long you may start to loose your courage. don't think about what your going to say or what your going to do. that would really make you lose your courage faster.
if you stay shy you will miss some really good chances in life. :)
hope this helps you. good luck. :-D
you have nothing to lose by making a fool of yourself, if thats what you're afraid of then just go out on a limb and be yourself the worst that could happen is shes not into you but from her behavior i think shes into you just stop asking yourself what if i say something stupid , what would this world be if everybody was so serious all the time just play along with her and start some conversation , ask her what she likes to do , what her fav color is even if its monotonous and you really dont give a rats *** either way just keep the mouth moving, i used to be like this and i regret every moment of it ive missed out on some pretty good girls because of my awkwardness of myself
EMBRACE THYSELF BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE
okay. if your a shy guys, then just start out talking to her. Take a deep breath before approaching her. If you feel like you dont have any confidence, FAKE IT. soon enough, your brain will forget about the awkwardness and you will start to relax. try being her friend first. you dont necessarily need to be flirty right from the get go. just introduce yourself, it will open the door for future possibilities. Just have a general conversation:
Guy: Hey, i always see you here. You're a great swimmer. how long have you been swimming?
Girl: a couple months/years/etc.
Guy: Oh, really. thats cool. do you do any other sports (surf, play beach volleyball, etc)
just keep it casual, make sure you get her name so next time you see her you can say ';Hi'; to her and mention her name (eg. ';Hi Daisy';) She will feel more comfortable and that you actually listen and remember what she says (:
I need some advice about this girl . . ?
So heres the story. Back about a week ago I found out that this girl I've been seeing was seeing another guy. She didn't know that I found out from one of her friends that was my friends. So to make a long story short, I asked her to hang out what night and she said that she couldn't cause she was busy. Later that day I found out that she was going up to this bar with the dude she was seeing.M e and a couple of my friends set it up that when she and this dude would come up to the bar the same night that I was going to be up there with all of my friends and call her out. So When they came in there I just let her have it by yelling at her as soon as the dude kissed her and walked away for a second. When he came back within the 5 mins he was gone she ended up leaving very upset. It's been about a week and a half since I talked to her. The thing I want to know is should I even say anything to her, I keep thinking about her and what she is up to. I am still hurt about this and its bugging me to find out why the hell she would even do this. Should I say anything to her? I don't want to be the one crawling back talking to her. Any advice?I need some advice about this girl . . ?
you need to move on. you need to find someone who would treat you better than that. if you did mean anything to this girl she'll be the one trying to get in contact with you.I need some advice about this girl . . ?
Well she is probably mad at you for the way you handled the situation (not saying you were in the wrong or anything) So if anything I would email her and leave it up to her if she wanted to contact you back. It sounds like you're not completely over everything that happened, which could cause another argument. I thinks it's best if you both move on.
Ok i think you shouldn't go back unless you KNOW she likes you if you really want. But ask her why. Be open, but try not to get her mad, if you know what im saying ;). If she didn't know you liked her then its not her fault. You know? Because she wouldn't have known! So make it clear that the reason you yelled is because you liked her.
oooooo.
Im sorry about that..
hmmm, advice,...
Wait a little while longer, but not to long, see if she wants to get together and ask her what's she been up to.
Or you could just tell her the truth, or just leave it alone.
Do what you think is best ;)
Dude c'mon you don't need that crap. Let it go. Dating girls is like selling vacuum cleaners...knock on enough doors and you WILL make a sale.
let it go... shes not worth it
she NOT worth it ! and don't give in if SHE comes crawling back to you!
No way. Get over her. She's so not worth your time. Don't even think about her and don't think why she would do that. Some people are just naturally shallow.
she is a *****//// u should forget her....
and fine someone worth it
well i would be hurt if a guy said that to me.
but if you can't stop thinking about her .text her and say i'm sorry (:
it will work out
K, here is the honest truth. If she was seeing another guy she probably wasn't that into you in the first place. You ambushing her at the bar probably voided any interest she may have still had for you, and then not talking to her for about a week, that s bad too. If you wanted to save the situation you should have called her the following day to apologize. But by now, there is most likely no hope. Especially since I'm sure you caused a scene. But what do I know? I'm just a woman, right? Maybe there is a chance. I doubt it tho. Best of luck.
you need to move on. you need to find someone who would treat you better than that. if you did mean anything to this girl she'll be the one trying to get in contact with you.I need some advice about this girl . . ?
Well she is probably mad at you for the way you handled the situation (not saying you were in the wrong or anything) So if anything I would email her and leave it up to her if she wanted to contact you back. It sounds like you're not completely over everything that happened, which could cause another argument. I thinks it's best if you both move on.
Ok i think you shouldn't go back unless you KNOW she likes you if you really want. But ask her why. Be open, but try not to get her mad, if you know what im saying ;). If she didn't know you liked her then its not her fault. You know? Because she wouldn't have known! So make it clear that the reason you yelled is because you liked her.
oooooo.
Im sorry about that..
hmmm, advice,...
Wait a little while longer, but not to long, see if she wants to get together and ask her what's she been up to.
Or you could just tell her the truth, or just leave it alone.
Do what you think is best ;)
Dude c'mon you don't need that crap. Let it go. Dating girls is like selling vacuum cleaners...knock on enough doors and you WILL make a sale.
let it go... shes not worth it
she NOT worth it ! and don't give in if SHE comes crawling back to you!
No way. Get over her. She's so not worth your time. Don't even think about her and don't think why she would do that. Some people are just naturally shallow.
she is a *****//// u should forget her....
and fine someone worth it
well i would be hurt if a guy said that to me.
but if you can't stop thinking about her .text her and say i'm sorry (:
it will work out
K, here is the honest truth. If she was seeing another guy she probably wasn't that into you in the first place. You ambushing her at the bar probably voided any interest she may have still had for you, and then not talking to her for about a week, that s bad too. If you wanted to save the situation you should have called her the following day to apologize. But by now, there is most likely no hope. Especially since I'm sure you caused a scene. But what do I know? I'm just a woman, right? Maybe there is a chance. I doubt it tho. Best of luck.
LADIES: I need advice with this girl?
Alright so i'm 15 and she's 14. I talk to her all the time on msn and in real life we meet up with other people and hang out. I really like her, and I think she has feelings for me but she just can't seem to take my hints. My friend is her Ex- and says that she makes things really akward and I can see how he says that, but he was also a bit of a jerk to her. Recently I got the feeling I talked to her too much, and now she isn't as outgoing in our conversations and text messages. Maybe its just me But I feel like I pushed her away some how...
I'm going to tell her I like her when she gets back from her cottage on Saturday but I'm not sure if she likes me or not because I don't want to ruin the friendship I have with her, by making things awkward when were together. So what do you ladies out there think I should do??? ( tips ect.)LADIES: I need advice with this girl?
If telling her you like her ruins your friendship, then you obviously have to rethink the friendship. I liked a guy when I was in my freshman year of high school, and he was a senior. Well, when I finally plucked up enough courage to tell him, I thought it was going to change everything between us - the friendship we had built, etc. Well, it didn't, and the two of us hanging out now or even after I told him isn't awkward or anything. Even if she rejects you, just try to act like things are the same as they've always been, because even if they change, everything will eventually have to fall into place. But if you bringing your feelings for her into play changes your friendship in anyway, it can't be a very strong friendship. Take that into account also. Ask her to take a walk and talk to her and just bring it up and gauge her reaction. Good luck.LADIES: I need advice with this girl?
Well since you feel that she's pushed you away, why don't you wait a while?
Let her get settled back in, let her relax from her trip.
Make sure not to start the conversations, let her try.
Wait a little whilte longer for your friendship to get baxk on track and develop, and when you feel like she's really catching on, then you tell her.
You see what I mean?
Hm, well good luck %26amp; hope this helps!
ok i think you should talk to your friend that dated her b/c she knows her bteer adn she what she has to say about it and eveyrhting and if you don't mind ever seeing this girl again then ask her but maybe if you are not pretty sure that she doens't like you then don't tll her get to know her until yshe ives you the hints
I think you need to give her a compliment just 1 compliment and see how she reacts if it is a loving look then she likes it but if it is a look she would give one of her girlfriends when they compliment her then she doesn't like u
tell her how you feel... nothing gets accomplished if you wait for her to say it or not say it at all... life is too short just do it
just telll her wat u feel
if u dont.... u will never find out if she likes u 2
if u do .....then she might like u too
good luck
tell hertheres nothin to lose
take a chance
ask her out
hope it works out
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Tell her that u like her and if she doesn't feel the same way, then tell her ';It's alright. we could just stay friends then.';
i agree with hayhay
tell her you like her
She dated your friend. Why would you even think about going out with her?
just bee cool... but try not to be to cool we dont like that, but just tell her how you feel and she will/might understand where your comming from.
i think you should talk to her. tell her how you feel and hope for the best.
tell her how you feel
i think u should take a chance and ask her! good luck! :)
Ok well she I am the same way to my boyfriend I dont always act as happy and outgoing as I first did but it is proably because she feels comfortable with you now and doesnt feel the need to try as hard to get your attetion or to like her adn not thin shes weird. i would tell her how you feel even if its a chance the friendship could be ruined because you never know if she likes you back you mite miss an opportunity of a lifetime and if your that good of friends if she rejects you then youll work through the weirdness. good luck !!!! ~鈾
Well idk but by the way u talk about her u must really like her so here is the plan.......dont talk to her for a few days if she doesnt talk to you then go ahead and talk to her but dont show off and flirt yet......then when you guys are almost or completley alone say( i was wondering.......if she really likes you her face will get eager and she will search your eyes for what you are gonna say next if not give it a try she just might be playin hard to get but no matter what if you like her go for it :)-summer(good luck)
I'm going to tell her I like her when she gets back from her cottage on Saturday but I'm not sure if she likes me or not because I don't want to ruin the friendship I have with her, by making things awkward when were together. So what do you ladies out there think I should do??? ( tips ect.)LADIES: I need advice with this girl?
If telling her you like her ruins your friendship, then you obviously have to rethink the friendship. I liked a guy when I was in my freshman year of high school, and he was a senior. Well, when I finally plucked up enough courage to tell him, I thought it was going to change everything between us - the friendship we had built, etc. Well, it didn't, and the two of us hanging out now or even after I told him isn't awkward or anything. Even if she rejects you, just try to act like things are the same as they've always been, because even if they change, everything will eventually have to fall into place. But if you bringing your feelings for her into play changes your friendship in anyway, it can't be a very strong friendship. Take that into account also. Ask her to take a walk and talk to her and just bring it up and gauge her reaction. Good luck.LADIES: I need advice with this girl?
Well since you feel that she's pushed you away, why don't you wait a while?
Let her get settled back in, let her relax from her trip.
Make sure not to start the conversations, let her try.
Wait a little whilte longer for your friendship to get baxk on track and develop, and when you feel like she's really catching on, then you tell her.
You see what I mean?
Hm, well good luck %26amp; hope this helps!
ok i think you should talk to your friend that dated her b/c she knows her bteer adn she what she has to say about it and eveyrhting and if you don't mind ever seeing this girl again then ask her but maybe if you are not pretty sure that she doens't like you then don't tll her get to know her until yshe ives you the hints
I think you need to give her a compliment just 1 compliment and see how she reacts if it is a loving look then she likes it but if it is a look she would give one of her girlfriends when they compliment her then she doesn't like u
tell her how you feel... nothing gets accomplished if you wait for her to say it or not say it at all... life is too short just do it
just telll her wat u feel
if u dont.... u will never find out if she likes u 2
if u do .....then she might like u too
good luck
tell hertheres nothin to lose
take a chance
ask her out
hope it works out
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Tell her that u like her and if she doesn't feel the same way, then tell her ';It's alright. we could just stay friends then.';
i agree with hayhay
tell her you like her
She dated your friend. Why would you even think about going out with her?
just bee cool... but try not to be to cool we dont like that, but just tell her how you feel and she will/might understand where your comming from.
i think you should talk to her. tell her how you feel and hope for the best.
tell her how you feel
i think u should take a chance and ask her! good luck! :)
Ok well she I am the same way to my boyfriend I dont always act as happy and outgoing as I first did but it is proably because she feels comfortable with you now and doesnt feel the need to try as hard to get your attetion or to like her adn not thin shes weird. i would tell her how you feel even if its a chance the friendship could be ruined because you never know if she likes you back you mite miss an opportunity of a lifetime and if your that good of friends if she rejects you then youll work through the weirdness. good luck !!!! ~鈾
Well idk but by the way u talk about her u must really like her so here is the plan.......dont talk to her for a few days if she doesnt talk to you then go ahead and talk to her but dont show off and flirt yet......then when you guys are almost or completley alone say( i was wondering.......if she really likes you her face will get eager and she will search your eyes for what you are gonna say next if not give it a try she just might be playin hard to get but no matter what if you like her go for it :)-summer(good luck)
I need some advice on a girl?
My best friend is a girl i went to high school with and i have grown to really like her. I am in the army and she goes to college about 5 hours away from me. I am getting ready to go to a school on monday. I really want to tell her before i leave, but dont know if i should because i dont want her to feel uncomfortable around me. I get the feeling everytime we hang out that she likes me to. If you think i should tell her how should i do it, because i would rather do it in person but wont be able to go home for months
I need some advice on a girl?
Just tell her! Yeah, it may be nerve-wracking but otherwise you'll never have a chance. If she rejects you, oh well... you're five hours away from her! But if she likes you too, you guys can make it work. Oh, and if Obama gets elected, the army thing won't be a problem anymore! :D Don't be nervous.JUST DO IT! :DI need some advice on a girl?
Put some flowers on the kitchen! My sis in law is a great lady and she called me and told me she loved the flowers! i am a big sis and sent the flowers! They were sent my him and he asked me to send them to her! It is our secret! I wanted her to be special! He is my buddy and big sis sends flowers to a sis inlaw. I love her!!!
GROW SOME BALLS AND TELL HER!!!
If she rejects you, you can atleast say you tryed.
Tell her. If it doesn't work out, then you'll be far away from her. If it does, give her your email and tele # and keep in touch!
you should tell her how you feel and she may end up feeling the same way about you
YES LISTEN LUV BUG AND DO IT.
go for it gd luck xbody mask
I need some advice on a girl?
Just tell her! Yeah, it may be nerve-wracking but otherwise you'll never have a chance. If she rejects you, oh well... you're five hours away from her! But if she likes you too, you guys can make it work. Oh, and if Obama gets elected, the army thing won't be a problem anymore! :D Don't be nervous.JUST DO IT! :DI need some advice on a girl?
Put some flowers on the kitchen! My sis in law is a great lady and she called me and told me she loved the flowers! i am a big sis and sent the flowers! They were sent my him and he asked me to send them to her! It is our secret! I wanted her to be special! He is my buddy and big sis sends flowers to a sis inlaw. I love her!!!
GROW SOME BALLS AND TELL HER!!!
If she rejects you, you can atleast say you tryed.
Tell her. If it doesn't work out, then you'll be far away from her. If it does, give her your email and tele # and keep in touch!
you should tell her how you feel and she may end up feeling the same way about you
YES LISTEN LUV BUG AND DO IT.
go for it gd luck x
I need some advice with my girl friend..?
Hello loving answers community! So, here's the story: I was at jamba juice with my girl friend and she bent over to get something and i couldn't help but notice that when she did the way her shirt went down i could see her entire breast! i talked to her today about it saying how i don't like how she wears those tops at school (we go to diff schools) and said why wear it, if you already have a boy friend etc. She didn't really answer, saying its won't happen at school, even though i know it's inevitable that she bends over for one thing or another. help on how to talk to her about it? She's not a dirty girl i swear :/I need some advice with my girl friend..?
You need to let her wear what she wants, I say. You voiced your displeasure about it, but now it's up to her if she decides to not dress like that or not. That's about it.
You need to let her wear what she wants, I say. You voiced your displeasure about it, but now it's up to her if she decides to not dress like that or not. That's about it.
I need some advice on this girl..?
There is this girl in my year which im pretty close to and i seriously want to go out with. I text her quite regularly and we talk a lot, and we get along really well, we joke well together and we like the same things... We had a pizza the other night together and i really felt a connection, we talked a lot about our lives and such. But she doesn't want to tell me who she fancies but said she fancies someone in school and someone outside of it. Im thinking of asking her out when we get back to school and i want to kiss her but what do you guys think???I need some advice on this girl..?
ummm i think you should ask her out before you kiss her
ummm i think you should ask her out before you kiss her
I need some advice on this girl..?
There is this girl in my year which im pretty close to and i seriously want to go out with. I text her quite regularly and we talk a lot, and we get along really well, we joke well together and we like the same things... We had a pizza the other night together and i really felt a connection, we talked a lot about our lives and such. But she doesn't want to tell me who she fancies but said she fancies someone in school and someone outside of it. Im thinking of asking her out when we get back to school and i want to kiss her but what do you guys think???I need some advice on this girl..?
ummm i think you should ask her out before you kiss her
ummm i think you should ask her out before you kiss her
I need some advice on a girl.?
I need to find a nice way to tell a girl that its not going to work out. I have only known this girl for about 3 days. I met her at a party and we both got really drunk and ended up messing around. We did not have intercourse. I gave her my number and now she is all about talking to me 24/7 and its annoying. She is a really nice girl and I don't want to seem like a mean person. I really need some good advice on being honest with her and not saying things like; ';i just wanna be friends';. She also has a young child, which im not really thriller about. Please help with some good advice. Thank You in advance!I need some advice on a girl.?
That's a tough one. Maybe just come out and tell her that you're not interested in her that way? Tell her that you think she's really nice, but just not your type. Or that you have another girl in mind.I need some advice on a girl.?
Just tell her that its not going to work out cuz you don't fell like dating right now then go on with ur life
Just stop talking to her. She will get the idea.
just stop talking to her.......
unless she's a retard, she'll get the hint!
That's a tough one. Maybe just come out and tell her that you're not interested in her that way? Tell her that you think she's really nice, but just not your type. Or that you have another girl in mind.I need some advice on a girl.?
Just tell her that its not going to work out cuz you don't fell like dating right now then go on with ur life
Just stop talking to her. She will get the idea.
just stop talking to her.......
unless she's a retard, she'll get the hint!
Need some expert advice with this girl from church! 10 points?
Well, I have been going to this church for about 3 months. On my first day there in sunday school class, a girl came over and sat by me. She could have sat anywhere. She asked if this was my first time there and we exchanged names (first names, I still don't know her last name). Since then there has not been much conversation between us. She doesn't really talk to much of anyone, and seems shy. She never really looks at you face to face, just out of the corner of her eye, and she is brief when someone asks her something... never carries a conversation. When we are in the service though she sits by her parents and seems very comfortable around them, looks them in the face, chats and laughs with them, etc.
She has a 3 yr niece, that she gets just before the service ends. I asked her once (in sunday school) ';what is your daughter's name,'; and she looked a little suprised and said ';I don't have any kids, do you mean that little girl... that's my niece.'; Well I inquired a little bit more, but it was hard to keep the conversation going!
Well here are my questions:
1) She wears a ring on each of her ring fingers, do they mean anything? If she has a BF would he sit near her? She is in a singles sunday school class.
2) I'm 33. I don't know how old she is. She looks like she is maybe 22 max... but she looks like one of those people who will always look young. ( I have been told that I look about 6-8 years younger than I am). So maybe she is 25, 28 .. maybe 21? My question is: Is it alright to ask her out? Is it inapporopiate since I only see her at church? And at 33 how young is too young?
I don't know how to go about asking her out... how to get her alone? I guess I feel like why would she want too.
Any help will be very much apprieciated. Best answer 10 points!
Additional facts!
She has been going here for years.
She is going to college for teaching (in her 3rd or 4th term)
It is a conservative baptist church.
I don't want to come across as a creep or a bother!
She is VERY pretty, I might be aiming too high!Need some expert advice with this girl from church! 10 points?
I can help you. First never have the mind set that your aiming too high. Most women perceive you the way that you perceive yourself... so if you start thinking shes out of your league most likely she will too. Theres nothing wrong with asking her out, however you might want to try and build a little more report with her first. TALK to her. Tons of girls are shy and quiet. Its your job to be the man and go start a conversation with her. Be social buddy! Pay attention to her interests and find something that you both have in common. Then let that be your conversation starter. After talking to her for a bit tell her you have to run but you really like talking to her and you think you two should get together sometime. Ask for her number or ask her to go on a date. First dates i recommend something public and relaxing like coffee or tea. This works every time. Just be confidence, and humorous. Women are programed to be attracted to certain things in guys. Also i don't think there is anything wrong with that age gap. Your both adults. I have dated women 10 years older than me. And it worked out great. So have fun buddy.Need some expert advice with this girl from church! 10 points?
this question is worthless without pics!!!!
go after her dude. as long as both of you share interests and common goals, the situation can't be better
Start by steps.
1)Ask her if her trip to the church
was fine.Try to make the conversation
as long as possible.
2)Try to contact her out of church.
Give her your phone number or something.
3)Get to know her and her family better.
When you get to know her and her family
better,there might be a chance that you will
spend more time with her.
4)If she already has a boyfriend,offer to be
her friend or move on to the next girl you
think is fit for you.
*Best Luck for You* -Your Answerer
She has a 3 yr niece, that she gets just before the service ends. I asked her once (in sunday school) ';what is your daughter's name,'; and she looked a little suprised and said ';I don't have any kids, do you mean that little girl... that's my niece.'; Well I inquired a little bit more, but it was hard to keep the conversation going!
Well here are my questions:
1) She wears a ring on each of her ring fingers, do they mean anything? If she has a BF would he sit near her? She is in a singles sunday school class.
2) I'm 33. I don't know how old she is. She looks like she is maybe 22 max... but she looks like one of those people who will always look young. ( I have been told that I look about 6-8 years younger than I am). So maybe she is 25, 28 .. maybe 21? My question is: Is it alright to ask her out? Is it inapporopiate since I only see her at church? And at 33 how young is too young?
I don't know how to go about asking her out... how to get her alone? I guess I feel like why would she want too.
Any help will be very much apprieciated. Best answer 10 points!
Additional facts!
She has been going here for years.
She is going to college for teaching (in her 3rd or 4th term)
It is a conservative baptist church.
I don't want to come across as a creep or a bother!
She is VERY pretty, I might be aiming too high!Need some expert advice with this girl from church! 10 points?
I can help you. First never have the mind set that your aiming too high. Most women perceive you the way that you perceive yourself... so if you start thinking shes out of your league most likely she will too. Theres nothing wrong with asking her out, however you might want to try and build a little more report with her first. TALK to her. Tons of girls are shy and quiet. Its your job to be the man and go start a conversation with her. Be social buddy! Pay attention to her interests and find something that you both have in common. Then let that be your conversation starter. After talking to her for a bit tell her you have to run but you really like talking to her and you think you two should get together sometime. Ask for her number or ask her to go on a date. First dates i recommend something public and relaxing like coffee or tea. This works every time. Just be confidence, and humorous. Women are programed to be attracted to certain things in guys. Also i don't think there is anything wrong with that age gap. Your both adults. I have dated women 10 years older than me. And it worked out great. So have fun buddy.Need some expert advice with this girl from church! 10 points?
this question is worthless without pics!!!!
go after her dude. as long as both of you share interests and common goals, the situation can't be better
Start by steps.
1)Ask her if her trip to the church
was fine.Try to make the conversation
as long as possible.
2)Try to contact her out of church.
Give her your phone number or something.
3)Get to know her and her family better.
When you get to know her and her family
better,there might be a chance that you will
spend more time with her.
4)If she already has a boyfriend,offer to be
her friend or move on to the next girl you
think is fit for you.
*Best Luck for You* -Your Answerer
Please help. need advice with confusing girl friend.?
i have been dating this girl for about 9 months. i really do love her and i think she ussually loves me. however, sometimes she treats me like crap. now i need help because its currently going on. I.E. i told my gf i may not work friday. she said she hoped that i would not because then we could spend some time together. so, instead of trying to find work that day, i looked foreward to her and i hanging out. then friday morning,s ws suppose to call, she blew me off. then when i called and told her that upset me, she got mad at me and appologized for excuses instead of the truth and told me to get over it. worse of, tonight, because i was still upset, i tried to talk to her about it,and she told me that i should drop it. then she told me to leave her house and that she would get over me, and that she can not be what i need. that makes me feel horrible. she says that sort of thing when ever we disagree. then she called me and said she loved me? then she got mad and then loving again??????Please help. need advice with confusing girl friend.?
I acted like that when I was 14/15. My boyfriend dumped me. Straightened me out quick. But I was a teenager. I hope she's not a grown woman.Please help. need advice with confusing girl friend.?
your girlfriend is probably bipolar and I feel that you shouldn't be with someone who will treat you like crap all the time. You deserve better and no offense but you should dump her because you could probably find someone better and who will treat you right.
I really don't know.body mask
I acted like that when I was 14/15. My boyfriend dumped me. Straightened me out quick. But I was a teenager. I hope she's not a grown woman.Please help. need advice with confusing girl friend.?
your girlfriend is probably bipolar and I feel that you shouldn't be with someone who will treat you like crap all the time. You deserve better and no offense but you should dump her because you could probably find someone better and who will treat you right.
I really don't know.
Ladies I need advice on a girl checking my myspace page.?
Hello I would appreciate your advice about this girl I know who is on my myspace page. Recently in the past 2 months or so she has been checking my profile at least twice a week sometimes more. I avoided checking hers. She had a boyfriend for a while but now it says shes single on there and i think (not sure) ever since she has been checking out my profile. Any girls out there think she is crushing on me or something? I know I have another girl on my profile who likes me and checks just as often, if not more, so tell me what you think. I am also very good friends with one of her best friends (female) so she may know something but has never said anything. Thanks.Ladies I need advice on a girl checking my myspace page.?
well, it depends? are you wanting her to check up on your page, or not? if so - then she probably is crushing all over you. if not - then i wouldnt worry about it it will probably go away.
girls are very detail oriented though, normally - and the slightest thing that you post on your myspace, or that is posted in a comment to you - could mean everything to her - so watch how you treat her in the internet world in either way, if you want to impress her or if you want to lose her, because she will probably go back and read and re read over and over youre messages and comments. it might sound sick? lol, but its how our brain operates... what with all of thes hormones enraging our emotions ;)Ladies I need advice on a girl checking my myspace page.?
yeah she is checkin up on ya. BUT like the one said earlier
there is a 50/50 chance she might lie.
If it happens that way pick yourself up and dust that crap off and go on with out it bothering you.
ya they like u
Yes I believe she has a crush on you. There is a strong possibility that she put she was single on there so you would see it, and hopefully pursue her. If you feel bold enough, send her a message and ask her. Asking won't hurt, but you may just get the answer you are looking for. 50-50 chance she may lie to you though so be prepared.
she could be why don't u just ask her?
don't always fall for that single thing because she can be just saying that and baby you don't want to be a rebound because thats never fun and you just need to get to know out side of myspace and see where her head is and then go from there
well, it depends? are you wanting her to check up on your page, or not? if so - then she probably is crushing all over you. if not - then i wouldnt worry about it it will probably go away.
girls are very detail oriented though, normally - and the slightest thing that you post on your myspace, or that is posted in a comment to you - could mean everything to her - so watch how you treat her in the internet world in either way, if you want to impress her or if you want to lose her, because she will probably go back and read and re read over and over youre messages and comments. it might sound sick? lol, but its how our brain operates... what with all of thes hormones enraging our emotions ;)Ladies I need advice on a girl checking my myspace page.?
yeah she is checkin up on ya. BUT like the one said earlier
there is a 50/50 chance she might lie.
If it happens that way pick yourself up and dust that crap off and go on with out it bothering you.
ya they like u
Yes I believe she has a crush on you. There is a strong possibility that she put she was single on there so you would see it, and hopefully pursue her. If you feel bold enough, send her a message and ask her. Asking won't hurt, but you may just get the answer you are looking for. 50-50 chance she may lie to you though so be prepared.
she could be why don't u just ask her?
don't always fall for that single thing because she can be just saying that and baby you don't want to be a rebound because thats never fun and you just need to get to know out side of myspace and see where her head is and then go from there
Help me please!!!! i need advice on this girl (guys and girls please)?
i am a 14 year old guy and have been hanging out at my best guy friends house a lot recently. He has a really cute 16 year old sister who is a Sophomore. i asked her for her number when my friend wasnt aroung and she gave it to me. We have been texting nonstop for 1 week and hanging out with eachother and her brother (my best friend). She just told me she liked me and i have the same feelings towards her. I want to ask her out but dont know how it will affect my relationship with my best friend. What should I do, please help me!!!Help me please!!!! i need advice on this girl (guys and girls please)?
.Austen it probably won't make any difference with your friend. After all she's his big sister
.Austen it probably won't make any difference with your friend. After all she's his big sister
So i need advice on a girl...?
so i got a gay friend of mine who is close to her to explore the ';does she like me'; question, he said no and that she seemed kindve annoyed i liked her, im not sure why she would be annoyed because i havent pressed the matter or anything, and i give her alot of space, she did get turned down by one of my friends awhile ago mainly because hes trying to get back with his ex, but she also said';why do all the weird guys like me?';
she also was referring to the guy that rejected her and ive never been called weird before, and my gay friend was also quick to say i wasnt weird but is she just stressed right now b/c of prom and the end of senior year and stuff? she also says she doesnt like anyone right now.she said to him that i was sweet but she didnt like me as more than a friend.i also couldve sworn she liked me because of her body language and stuff in class but i guess not, is this something that can be waited it out and in the meantime i just go';play the field';?or is it stuck this way?So i need advice on a girl...?
Perhaps she wants to do the picking, instead of someone picking her.
Sometimes friends trying to become something more puts a damper on things.
I'd ditch the idea of her for a while, even though it may be hard. Maybe one of these days she'll come around and see that you're not half bad, or ...weird.
best of luck.So i need advice on a girl...?
Body lang isnt always everything. [i dont realize when im doin it or not.]
she just might not be into to you.
ive said that before ';why dofreaks like me';
because i like this [sorta popular] guy. and he liked this other girl. i felt so renfrmeknf and was like
why couldnt he like me?!
and this guy that DID like me i wasnt into since im EXTREMELY picky w/ guys.
also he was a drug dealer [my high school is horrible] and would attempt to show off big bills and such
-he sits next to me 1st pd english-
it just might be something like that.
I would say if she isnt in to you then you are wasting your time. Try finding a girl who is intrested in you too. Dont stress out over her.
Stuc it away b/c she dont like you as a bf.
She'll like you for being there, if she's is going through a lot, be there to comfort her. Then she will realise that maybe she shouldn't judge someone.
I'm sorry to say, but she is not into you. She thinks you're below her. She doesn't like you.
You need to stop having folks do your talking for you. You need to grow some OO and talk to the girl like a man. You have noting to loose and everything to gain. Go for it
she also was referring to the guy that rejected her and ive never been called weird before, and my gay friend was also quick to say i wasnt weird but is she just stressed right now b/c of prom and the end of senior year and stuff? she also says she doesnt like anyone right now.she said to him that i was sweet but she didnt like me as more than a friend.i also couldve sworn she liked me because of her body language and stuff in class but i guess not, is this something that can be waited it out and in the meantime i just go';play the field';?or is it stuck this way?So i need advice on a girl...?
Perhaps she wants to do the picking, instead of someone picking her.
Sometimes friends trying to become something more puts a damper on things.
I'd ditch the idea of her for a while, even though it may be hard. Maybe one of these days she'll come around and see that you're not half bad, or ...weird.
best of luck.So i need advice on a girl...?
Body lang isnt always everything. [i dont realize when im doin it or not.]
she just might not be into to you.
ive said that before ';why dofreaks like me';
because i like this [sorta popular] guy. and he liked this other girl. i felt so renfrmeknf and was like
why couldnt he like me?!
and this guy that DID like me i wasnt into since im EXTREMELY picky w/ guys.
also he was a drug dealer [my high school is horrible] and would attempt to show off big bills and such
-he sits next to me 1st pd english-
it just might be something like that.
I would say if she isnt in to you then you are wasting your time. Try finding a girl who is intrested in you too. Dont stress out over her.
Stuc it away b/c she dont like you as a bf.
She'll like you for being there, if she's is going through a lot, be there to comfort her. Then she will realise that maybe she shouldn't judge someone.
I'm sorry to say, but she is not into you. She thinks you're below her. She doesn't like you.
You need to stop having folks do your talking for you. You need to grow some OO and talk to the girl like a man. You have noting to loose and everything to gain. Go for it
I need your advice about this girl>>>>?
i asked her out and she said she was already seeing someone else.But she's not, and she stares at me quite a bit.
So, what do I do. i don't wanna ask her out again %26amp; look like a looser that cant get a girl. but I don't wanna ask her why she keeps starring at me, cuz that's weird.. Do I just smile at her when i catch her looking..?? thanks..
I guess she playing hard to get or was surprised when asked her out.. either way HELP =) thank you again.I need your advice about this girl%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;?
honestly.
she doesnt like you
she stares at you probably because
she wants to see if you stare at her?
i say im seeing someone just to let the guy down easy?I need your advice about this girl%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;?
just stop talking to her for awhile and don't look at her in class and even if you see her staring at you don't look at her shes just playing head games and you don't want that crazy girl
So, what do I do. i don't wanna ask her out again %26amp; look like a looser that cant get a girl. but I don't wanna ask her why she keeps starring at me, cuz that's weird.. Do I just smile at her when i catch her looking..?? thanks..
I guess she playing hard to get or was surprised when asked her out.. either way HELP =) thank you again.I need your advice about this girl%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;?
honestly.
she doesnt like you
she stares at you probably because
she wants to see if you stare at her?
i say im seeing someone just to let the guy down easy?I need your advice about this girl%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;?
just stop talking to her for awhile and don't look at her in class and even if you see her staring at you don't look at her shes just playing head games and you don't want that crazy girl
I need some advice on this girl?
okay so i work at the mall and there's this cute rican girl that works across from the store i work at. i have to emphasize that shes hispanic b/c i've never dated a hispanic girl before (even though i'm hispanic) and either way i'm bad at telling if girls like me or not. so here's the history. i met her and we talked a bit and i really like her. by the time i decided to see if she'd be interested in hanging out after work she got a boyfriend. so i didn't sweat it because hey, there's plenty of other fish in the sea. anyway i still tried to hang out with her and got the vibe that she didn't like me like that so i let it go. Since then i haven't seen her much because my shifts have changed. that was about 2 or 3 weeks ago. then today, to my surprise, she swings by on her day off and talks to me. she told me she'd been looking over here alot to see if i'm working when she is but i haven't been. we flirted a bit but i don't know what to make of her.....what do you guys think?I need some advice on this girl?
What do I think? Go for it. She sounds into you man. If you think you might like her, then there's no reason to hold back.
If you need help on how to approach her..I need some advice on this girl?
Don't go on a date with her.
She maybe cheating on her boyfriend.
She has a fake boob.
What do I think? Go for it. She sounds into you man. If you think you might like her, then there's no reason to hold back.
If you need help on how to approach her..I need some advice on this girl?
Don't go on a date with her.
She maybe cheating on her boyfriend.
She has a fake boob.
Could use some advice about this girl...?
Well there was this girl I use to be friends with, but then our friendship ended because she thought that the way I acted that I was getting mad at her because she was in a relationship, and she didn't want nothing more to do with me.
I did applogize for the way I acted, but she never accepted it and she stopped talking to me. And yes I did like her, but its all good, if she does not want nothing more to do with me thats fine, I'll get over it and I did. Now she has been single for a couple of months. And I tried talking to her again, you know see if we could start over and be friends, but she still acted the same way she did before, wanted nothing to do with me.
But this is the confusing part, about a week or 2 later her best friend started texting me, and she never texted me before, it was just right out of the blue, and she was asking what I was up to and what not and she told me she was hanging out with her, I just said cool, and that was it afther she told me that, she never texted me back. Why would she text me in the first place? was she telling her friend to text me?
I check her myspace every now and then, and she has like weird status like I don't like she is confused or whatever.
this is her recent one though:
Torn Between Two, Who Would You Choose, The One That You Love, Or The One That Loves You.
Do you think this could have something to do with me?Could use some advice about this girl...?
Who knows...but to be honest she is acting shady if that was towards you. Dont bother/worry too much over her, because if she had any interest she would let you know. Dont just assume things, if she comes around then great, but if not...then no big loss.Could use some advice about this girl...?
well what i would do is keep trying to talk to her, and then tell her that u apologize to her and u would like her to be your friend. Then i would try too be more then a rfiend and then ask her if she knows that her friend is texting u and if she says why ask her and then like try to be a great guy. I would also choose the One That Loves youbody mask
I did applogize for the way I acted, but she never accepted it and she stopped talking to me. And yes I did like her, but its all good, if she does not want nothing more to do with me thats fine, I'll get over it and I did. Now she has been single for a couple of months. And I tried talking to her again, you know see if we could start over and be friends, but she still acted the same way she did before, wanted nothing to do with me.
But this is the confusing part, about a week or 2 later her best friend started texting me, and she never texted me before, it was just right out of the blue, and she was asking what I was up to and what not and she told me she was hanging out with her, I just said cool, and that was it afther she told me that, she never texted me back. Why would she text me in the first place? was she telling her friend to text me?
I check her myspace every now and then, and she has like weird status like I don't like she is confused or whatever.
this is her recent one though:
Torn Between Two, Who Would You Choose, The One That You Love, Or The One That Loves You.
Do you think this could have something to do with me?Could use some advice about this girl...?
Who knows...but to be honest she is acting shady if that was towards you. Dont bother/worry too much over her, because if she had any interest she would let you know. Dont just assume things, if she comes around then great, but if not...then no big loss.Could use some advice about this girl...?
well what i would do is keep trying to talk to her, and then tell her that u apologize to her and u would like her to be your friend. Then i would try too be more then a rfiend and then ask her if she knows that her friend is texting u and if she says why ask her and then like try to be a great guy. I would also choose the One That Loves you
Help me please!!!! i need advice on this girl (guys and girls please)?
i am a 14 year old guy and have been hanging out at my best guy friends house a lot recently. He has a really cute 16 year old sister who is a Sophomore. i asked her for her number when my friend wasnt aroung and she gave it to me. We have been texting nonstop for 1 week and hanging out with eachother and her brother (my best friend). She just told me she liked me and i have the same feelings towards her. I want to ask her out but dont know how it will affect my relationship with my best friend. What should I do, please help me!!!Help me please!!!! i need advice on this girl (guys and girls please)?
.Austen it probably won't make any difference with your friend. After all she's his big sister
.Austen it probably won't make any difference with your friend. After all she's his big sister
So i need advice on a girl...?
so i got a gay friend of mine who is close to her to explore the ';does she like me'; question, he said no and that she seemed kindve annoyed i liked her, im not sure why she would be annoyed because i havent pressed the matter or anything, and i give her alot of space, she did get turned down by one of my friends awhile ago mainly because hes trying to get back with his ex, but she also said';why do all the weird guys like me?';
she also was referring to the guy that rejected her and ive never been called weird before, and my gay friend was also quick to say i wasnt weird but is she just stressed right now b/c of prom and the end of senior year and stuff? she also says she doesnt like anyone right now.she said to him that i was sweet but she didnt like me as more than a friend.i also couldve sworn she liked me because of her body language and stuff in class but i guess not, is this something that can be waited it out and in the meantime i just go';play the field';?or is it stuck this way?So i need advice on a girl...?
Perhaps she wants to do the picking, instead of someone picking her.
Sometimes friends trying to become something more puts a damper on things.
I'd ditch the idea of her for a while, even though it may be hard. Maybe one of these days she'll come around and see that you're not half bad, or ...weird.
best of luck.So i need advice on a girl...?
Body lang isnt always everything. [i dont realize when im doin it or not.]
she just might not be into to you.
ive said that before ';why dofreaks like me';
because i like this [sorta popular] guy. and he liked this other girl. i felt so renfrmeknf and was like
why couldnt he like me?!
and this guy that DID like me i wasnt into since im EXTREMELY picky w/ guys.
also he was a drug dealer [my high school is horrible] and would attempt to show off big bills and such
-he sits next to me 1st pd english-
it just might be something like that.
I would say if she isnt in to you then you are wasting your time. Try finding a girl who is intrested in you too. Dont stress out over her.
Stuc it away b/c she dont like you as a bf.
She'll like you for being there, if she's is going through a lot, be there to comfort her. Then she will realise that maybe she shouldn't judge someone.
I'm sorry to say, but she is not into you. She thinks you're below her. She doesn't like you.
You need to stop having folks do your talking for you. You need to grow some OO and talk to the girl like a man. You have noting to loose and everything to gain. Go for it
she also was referring to the guy that rejected her and ive never been called weird before, and my gay friend was also quick to say i wasnt weird but is she just stressed right now b/c of prom and the end of senior year and stuff? she also says she doesnt like anyone right now.she said to him that i was sweet but she didnt like me as more than a friend.i also couldve sworn she liked me because of her body language and stuff in class but i guess not, is this something that can be waited it out and in the meantime i just go';play the field';?or is it stuck this way?So i need advice on a girl...?
Perhaps she wants to do the picking, instead of someone picking her.
Sometimes friends trying to become something more puts a damper on things.
I'd ditch the idea of her for a while, even though it may be hard. Maybe one of these days she'll come around and see that you're not half bad, or ...weird.
best of luck.So i need advice on a girl...?
Body lang isnt always everything. [i dont realize when im doin it or not.]
she just might not be into to you.
ive said that before ';why dofreaks like me';
because i like this [sorta popular] guy. and he liked this other girl. i felt so renfrmeknf and was like
why couldnt he like me?!
and this guy that DID like me i wasnt into since im EXTREMELY picky w/ guys.
also he was a drug dealer [my high school is horrible] and would attempt to show off big bills and such
-he sits next to me 1st pd english-
it just might be something like that.
I would say if she isnt in to you then you are wasting your time. Try finding a girl who is intrested in you too. Dont stress out over her.
Stuc it away b/c she dont like you as a bf.
She'll like you for being there, if she's is going through a lot, be there to comfort her. Then she will realise that maybe she shouldn't judge someone.
I'm sorry to say, but she is not into you. She thinks you're below her. She doesn't like you.
You need to stop having folks do your talking for you. You need to grow some OO and talk to the girl like a man. You have noting to loose and everything to gain. Go for it
I need your advice about this girl>>>>?
i asked her out and she said she was already seeing someone else.But she's not, and she stares at me quite a bit.
So, what do I do. i don't wanna ask her out again %26amp; look like a looser that cant get a girl. but I don't wanna ask her why she keeps starring at me, cuz that's weird.. Do I just smile at her when i catch her looking..?? thanks..
I guess she playing hard to get or was surprised when asked her out.. either way HELP =) thank you again.I need your advice about this girl%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;?
honestly.
she doesnt like you
she stares at you probably because
she wants to see if you stare at her?
i say im seeing someone just to let the guy down easy?I need your advice about this girl%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;?
just stop talking to her for awhile and don't look at her in class and even if you see her staring at you don't look at her shes just playing head games and you don't want that crazy girl
So, what do I do. i don't wanna ask her out again %26amp; look like a looser that cant get a girl. but I don't wanna ask her why she keeps starring at me, cuz that's weird.. Do I just smile at her when i catch her looking..?? thanks..
I guess she playing hard to get or was surprised when asked her out.. either way HELP =) thank you again.I need your advice about this girl%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;?
honestly.
she doesnt like you
she stares at you probably because
she wants to see if you stare at her?
i say im seeing someone just to let the guy down easy?I need your advice about this girl%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;?
just stop talking to her for awhile and don't look at her in class and even if you see her staring at you don't look at her shes just playing head games and you don't want that crazy girl
I need some advice on this girl?
So i am in class one day and i happened to make this joke to another guy adn the whole class heard. I look up and see this girl smiling looking at me. Then I was leaving the room, and I really have never talked to this girl before, and I heard a voice and it was hers asking me about my paper i wrote. We talked and she said how she really doesnt talk to anyone and she is kind of quiet. I got back to my dorm room. I think that I sometimes catch or feel that she is looking at me too. Do you think shes interested in me or just being friendly?I need some advice on this girl?
She might be interested and if you are why don't you joke around and flirt a little bit and she if she plays along. Someone asking about a paper you wrote and then saying that she don't talk to nobody and that she is quiet is probably interested and maybe that is her excuse because she is playing it cool and maybe shy. I don't think she'd try to explain herself to much if she wasn't just a little interested.I need some advice on this girl?
Girls are trick little things, sorry to say. But your best bet is to try to keep talking to her about things relating to the class, then start branching out little by little, like current events that are going on in the town. Then when you really start feeling brave invite her to different things JUST AS FRIENDS. From there if you like her that much branch out and ask her out. Just go step by step and take it slow, don't jump into a relationship.
Good luck.
if she's usually quiet and doesn't talk to anyone, that means that she's really trying hard for you. she's come out of her little shell to talk to you. i'm sure she's nervous, too. yes, she's interested and she wants to get to know you.
she likes you! if she never talks to anyone in class and suddenly opens up to you it's very obvious because a girl wouldn't start talking to a guy before talking to a girl for the first time.
Well if she doesn't talk to anyone and she came up to you that is a big deal. You should ask her for coffee or something, that way you don't have date pressure and its still just you two. Good luck.
Shes interested in you :)
Us girls use dumb things like that to talk to you,
Ask her to hang out!
good luck!
she may be interested in you =] the paper thing was probably just an excuse to talk to you haha.. so if you like her do something about it! =p good luck
she is totallyyyyy!!! interested in you!!! talk to her! invite her out to eat or to the movies or park!
Heya.i defiantly think shes intrested in u.if u like her u should see if shed go out with u.;D
shes deffinetly intrested in you
I THINK SHE IS STARTING TO LIKE YOU.
yeah try inviting her to a movie or something just be friendly back
she likes you :)
talk to her, flirt with her.
goodluck :D
Go for it call her right now
It's a shy girl that opened up to you...doesn't that take some work on her part? Pretty simple
omg! totally into u! and shes shy........so cute! go for it!
She might be interested and if you are why don't you joke around and flirt a little bit and she if she plays along. Someone asking about a paper you wrote and then saying that she don't talk to nobody and that she is quiet is probably interested and maybe that is her excuse because she is playing it cool and maybe shy. I don't think she'd try to explain herself to much if she wasn't just a little interested.I need some advice on this girl?
Girls are trick little things, sorry to say. But your best bet is to try to keep talking to her about things relating to the class, then start branching out little by little, like current events that are going on in the town. Then when you really start feeling brave invite her to different things JUST AS FRIENDS. From there if you like her that much branch out and ask her out. Just go step by step and take it slow, don't jump into a relationship.
Good luck.
if she's usually quiet and doesn't talk to anyone, that means that she's really trying hard for you. she's come out of her little shell to talk to you. i'm sure she's nervous, too. yes, she's interested and she wants to get to know you.
she likes you! if she never talks to anyone in class and suddenly opens up to you it's very obvious because a girl wouldn't start talking to a guy before talking to a girl for the first time.
Well if she doesn't talk to anyone and she came up to you that is a big deal. You should ask her for coffee or something, that way you don't have date pressure and its still just you two. Good luck.
Shes interested in you :)
Us girls use dumb things like that to talk to you,
Ask her to hang out!
good luck!
she may be interested in you =] the paper thing was probably just an excuse to talk to you haha.. so if you like her do something about it! =p good luck
she is totallyyyyy!!! interested in you!!! talk to her! invite her out to eat or to the movies or park!
Heya.i defiantly think shes intrested in u.if u like her u should see if shed go out with u.;D
shes deffinetly intrested in you
I THINK SHE IS STARTING TO LIKE YOU.
yeah try inviting her to a movie or something just be friendly back
she likes you :)
talk to her, flirt with her.
goodluck :D
Go for it call her right now
It's a shy girl that opened up to you...doesn't that take some work on her part? Pretty simple
omg! totally into u! and shes shy........so cute! go for it!
I need some advice concerning a girl i like asap.?
Alright well in about an hour or so im meeting up with a good friend of mine whom i also happen to like more than words could describe. i told her we needed to talk to we are gonna meet somewhere to do so. i dont think she really knows that i plan on letting her know how i feel and to be honest im kinda stumped on the best way to let her know or to word it in a sense i guess. i have known her for a couple of years and i am really comfortable around her but i have planned on doing this before and have always became tongue tied so i dont want to do that again.
Give me some suggestions pleaseI need some advice concerning a girl i like asap.?
I agree with Randall J. What you just told us is what you tell her. Tell her that she makes you feel very comfortable, and you want to ask her if she wants to take things to the next level.I need some advice concerning a girl i like asap.?
the best thing to do is just relax.if the girl truley likes you for who you are,be yourself.no need for hesitation.it might be hard but i know you can do it!!you sound like a good guy and im sure alot of girls would like you.if she says no,then atleese be proud that you were brave enough to try and move on.more nice,intellegent,respectable girls in this world.
just be yourself and go for itbody mask
Give me some suggestions pleaseI need some advice concerning a girl i like asap.?
I agree with Randall J. What you just told us is what you tell her. Tell her that she makes you feel very comfortable, and you want to ask her if she wants to take things to the next level.I need some advice concerning a girl i like asap.?
the best thing to do is just relax.if the girl truley likes you for who you are,be yourself.no need for hesitation.it might be hard but i know you can do it!!you sound like a good guy and im sure alot of girls would like you.if she says no,then atleese be proud that you were brave enough to try and move on.more nice,intellegent,respectable girls in this world.
just be yourself and go for it
I need some advice from a girl or guy perspective.?
Theres this guy in my class and hes my friends ex. I told her I thought he was cute and she told him that i liked him. Well he said that he thought I was cute. I came into class today and didn't even look at him. He sits in front of me facing me, but theres a short wall inbetween us. I know he looked at me a few times when I got up, but I don't want to have a feeling of not being able to look at him. I get nervous sometimes and I'm not sure what to do. Telling him how i feel isn't an option either. I'm usually not shy, I just act like they don't exist. Should I look over and try to keep eye contact for a second or just keep going on as normal? I'm so confused!!! :/I need some advice from a girl or guy perspective.?
try to get eye contact ;)
try to get eye contact ;)
What the hell!! advice on this girl please.?
I have gotten to know her quite well, talked to her online and off on several occasions...and even ';hung out'; once but it was w/others....thing is I thought she liked me at one point, then I started losing hope, then I once again got the feeling that she wanted to be friends w/me but like some online convos just run short and i get the 'yeahs', 'cool', 'lol', 'haha' and not much else. and she basically didnt talk to me in class or acknowledge that i was a table from her at lunch earlier looking at each other pretty much from our seating.
And then randomly she starts a convo online w/me tonight (which isn't common i usually initiate all convos) and it went very nicely and we chatted online for like an hour and apparently we are watching a movie together on tv tomorrow night.
Does she not really want to hang out w/me? I was honestly right on the brink of entirely giving up on her, like thinking about just dropping it at the very second she started a convo w/me. Now its changed again.
Do you think she wants to hang out and be legit friends or what?What the hell!! advice on this girl please.?
well if she doesn't make up an excuse you know she actually wants to hang out with you:)What the hell!! advice on this girl please.?
i think she definitely wants to give it a try this time and alone. just see what happends and see if she hints through the night if she wants to be just friends or more. because usually if a girl hangs with a guy alone its because they want to be more than just your friend. so just see what happends.
And then randomly she starts a convo online w/me tonight (which isn't common i usually initiate all convos) and it went very nicely and we chatted online for like an hour and apparently we are watching a movie together on tv tomorrow night.
Does she not really want to hang out w/me? I was honestly right on the brink of entirely giving up on her, like thinking about just dropping it at the very second she started a convo w/me. Now its changed again.
Do you think she wants to hang out and be legit friends or what?What the hell!! advice on this girl please.?
well if she doesn't make up an excuse you know she actually wants to hang out with you:)What the hell!! advice on this girl please.?
i think she definitely wants to give it a try this time and alone. just see what happends and see if she hints through the night if she wants to be just friends or more. because usually if a girl hangs with a guy alone its because they want to be more than just your friend. so just see what happends.
I need some advice for a girl im in love with. im a guy?
ok so i saw the girl at my school about aug.13th 2008 and i fell in love so i eventually met her and started talking to her now she is going in to 9th grade and im going into 8th grade when we met i was in 6th and she was in 8th i skipped a grade anyway she has a boyfriend and im really good friends with her and her boyfriend and i heard some things at school that the girl im in love with knows i love her idk if thats true i also heard that her and her boyfriend are having problems anyway turns out we both went to this thing at our school in the summer so did her boyfriend and i will c her everyday until friday. every time i turn my head she is looking at me and then i look at her and we stare into each others eyes and i feel something and i know she has to feel something too. and every time i see her its kinda like my heart stops. does anyone have any advice and should i tell her i love her please help and thanks for readingI need some advice for a girl im in love with. im a guy?
Awwww ;)
That's so sweet x)
I'm sad now.
Haha,
Yeah, but...
Don't spring it up like, randomly and be like:
'OH MY JESUS! I LOVE YOU!';
Or,
Randomly in the middle of a conversation say:
';I love you...';
Haha, that would be so awkward.
Kind of, work your way up to it :D
BUT definately do it!
Awwww ;)
That's so sweet x)
I'm sad now.
Haha,
Yeah, but...
Don't spring it up like, randomly and be like:
'OH MY JESUS! I LOVE YOU!';
Or,
Randomly in the middle of a conversation say:
';I love you...';
Haha, that would be so awkward.
Kind of, work your way up to it :D
BUT definately do it!
PLEASE HELP, need advice on this girl asap?
I got this girls number one night at a party. i made out with her and felt up on her. anyway, i am unsure if it was just a drunken night thing or what. so i was just too nervous to call because i didnt want to get turned down and feel like a fool, so i texted her. i texted her yesterday and she responded. but today i was going to call, instead i texted her again. she didnt respond. im not going to call tonight, but should i try and call her sometime, or is it too late for that.PLEASE HELP, need advice on this girl asap?
you are a coward, plan and simple. i met a girl, made out felt her up and now dont know if i should call her?? w t f if it were me i would have called her. im not afraid of rejection. after all she liked you enough to let you feel her up. now i want to know what the real problem is cause this does not even sound right. ill tell you this dude, girls do not like wimps. so stop being one and start to take some risks in your life. PLEASE HELP, need advice on this girl asap?
Wait a few hours and see if you'll get a response in a text message. If she doesnt, you can call her just to see wats up. Hey, she may shut you down, but it's better to know then to wonder for the rest of your life wether or not she liked you.
it's a lot easier to go by the text route for a while, personally, i would keep texting her til you get a reply again and you're sure that she's interested in you...then a call and asking her on a date could be next! :)
I agree with you that texting is the week way to go. I would try and work up the courage to call her. My experience is that girls need verbal communication to seduce them into anything. Good luck.
What would jesus do?
you are a coward, plan and simple. i met a girl, made out felt her up and now dont know if i should call her?? w t f if it were me i would have called her. im not afraid of rejection. after all she liked you enough to let you feel her up. now i want to know what the real problem is cause this does not even sound right. ill tell you this dude, girls do not like wimps. so stop being one and start to take some risks in your life. PLEASE HELP, need advice on this girl asap?
Wait a few hours and see if you'll get a response in a text message. If she doesnt, you can call her just to see wats up. Hey, she may shut you down, but it's better to know then to wonder for the rest of your life wether or not she liked you.
it's a lot easier to go by the text route for a while, personally, i would keep texting her til you get a reply again and you're sure that she's interested in you...then a call and asking her on a date could be next! :)
I agree with you that texting is the week way to go. I would try and work up the courage to call her. My experience is that girls need verbal communication to seduce them into anything. Good luck.
What would jesus do?
Could use some advice about this girl...?
Well there was this girl I use to be friends with, but then our friendship ended because she thought that the way I acted that I was getting mad at her because she was in a relationship, and she didn't want nothing more to do with me.
I did applogize for the way I acted, but she never accepted it and she stopped talking to me. And yes I did like her, but its all good, if she does not want nothing more to do with me thats fine, I'll get over it and I did. Now she has been single for a couple of months. And I tried talking to her again, you know see if we could start over and be friends, but she still acted the same way she did before, wanted nothing to do with me.
But this is the confusing part, about a week or 2 later her best friend started texting me, and she never texted me before, it was just right out of the blue, and she was asking what I was up to and what not and she told me she was hanging out with her, I just said cool, and that was it afther she told me that, she never texted me back. Why would she text me in the first place? was she telling her friend to text me?
I check her myspace every now and then, and she has like weird status like I don't like she is confused or whatever.
this is her recent one though:
Torn Between Two, Who Would You Choose, The One That You Love, Or The One That Loves You.
Do you think this could have something to do with me?Could use some advice about this girl...?
well what i would do is keep trying to talk to her, and then tell her that u apologize to her and u would like her to be your friend. Then i would try too be more then a rfiend and then ask her if she knows that her friend is texting u and if she says why ask her and then like try to be a great guy. I would also choose the One That Loves youCould use some advice about this girl...?
Who knows...but to be honest she is acting shady if that was towards you. Dont bother/worry too much over her, because if she had any interest she would let you know. Dont just assume things, if she comes around then great, but if not...then no big loss.
I did applogize for the way I acted, but she never accepted it and she stopped talking to me. And yes I did like her, but its all good, if she does not want nothing more to do with me thats fine, I'll get over it and I did. Now she has been single for a couple of months. And I tried talking to her again, you know see if we could start over and be friends, but she still acted the same way she did before, wanted nothing to do with me.
But this is the confusing part, about a week or 2 later her best friend started texting me, and she never texted me before, it was just right out of the blue, and she was asking what I was up to and what not and she told me she was hanging out with her, I just said cool, and that was it afther she told me that, she never texted me back. Why would she text me in the first place? was she telling her friend to text me?
I check her myspace every now and then, and she has like weird status like I don't like she is confused or whatever.
this is her recent one though:
Torn Between Two, Who Would You Choose, The One That You Love, Or The One That Loves You.
Do you think this could have something to do with me?Could use some advice about this girl...?
well what i would do is keep trying to talk to her, and then tell her that u apologize to her and u would like her to be your friend. Then i would try too be more then a rfiend and then ask her if she knows that her friend is texting u and if she says why ask her and then like try to be a great guy. I would also choose the One That Loves youCould use some advice about this girl...?
Who knows...but to be honest she is acting shady if that was towards you. Dont bother/worry too much over her, because if she had any interest she would let you know. Dont just assume things, if she comes around then great, but if not...then no big loss.
I need some advice about a girl and how to say sorry?
I have been talking to a girl for almost a year on the phone. We met on the internet and talked for about 2 months then started talking on the phone. She says she wants to meet me but her mom don't agree so she don't want to disrespect her. Well she finally stopped say that about a month ago. This girl is 26 years old and I am 29. She also says she don't think she can trust me because at times I don't answer my phone or I am in a bad service area so there for she thinks I am with another girl. She tells me she loves but has not gave me a chance to show her what kind of boy friend I can be since she hasn't met me. She gets mad if I do something like talk to another girl just as a friend and I don't think that is right since she won't meet me in person. She had put some pictures on her computer with her and friends and I thought it was to make me jealous so I added some girls to my yahoo messenger just to make her jealous. I did this thinking she would get mad and she would think she would loose me and that would make her want to meet me and get a dating realionship started. But instead she got mad and said I lied about talking to girls and I did not talk to them. So I said sorry and told her why I did it but she is still mad. So now she is mad and says she don't trust me and that she just wants to be friends and not meet well now she changed her mind said she will give me a week to prove I am trustworthy. I have not dated anyone in over a year and I have stopped doing alot of things just to talk to her on the phone. She lives about 30 mins from me so its not like we are hours away from each other. So how can I say I am sorry for adding them girls to make her jealous just so she would hurry and meet me?? Should I continue this with her or is she just playing games since she hasn't made an attempt to meet me in 12 months??I need some advice about a girl and how to say sorry?
Run!!!! This woman is so immature especially for 26 (sounds like she's 14).She obviously has some huge issues around trust and she's playing to many games.Cut her loose,say goodbye and enjoy life!I need some advice about a girl and how to say sorry?
You guys are playing games on each other and you're both too old to be playing like teenagers. She doesn't care about you, she's just messing with you (even if its subconscious on her part). Move on, there are better fish in the sea.
does her mum realy not want her to met you or is that an excuse. shes 26 she can make her own disissons..(sory for spelling mistakes) . tell you need to speak in person but arrange for yous to met in public and mayb for her to bring a friend ( that way she cant worry that your some stalker or rapeist) mayb ask her to bring her mum so yous can have a coffee together and once you win her mom over youl have her no bother
if she wont agree to meet you mayb you should move on as there is no point in wasting your love on somebody who wont return it. good luk
Ok, if she is 26 she shouldn't have to listen to her mother.
If she has never met you, then it's really childish to say she loves you.
If she doesn't want to meet you and start being a responsible adult then you should tell her you do not want to continue talking to her.bloom-
Run!!!! This woman is so immature especially for 26 (sounds like she's 14).She obviously has some huge issues around trust and she's playing to many games.Cut her loose,say goodbye and enjoy life!I need some advice about a girl and how to say sorry?
You guys are playing games on each other and you're both too old to be playing like teenagers. She doesn't care about you, she's just messing with you (even if its subconscious on her part). Move on, there are better fish in the sea.
does her mum realy not want her to met you or is that an excuse. shes 26 she can make her own disissons..(sory for spelling mistakes) . tell you need to speak in person but arrange for yous to met in public and mayb for her to bring a friend ( that way she cant worry that your some stalker or rapeist) mayb ask her to bring her mum so yous can have a coffee together and once you win her mom over youl have her no bother
if she wont agree to meet you mayb you should move on as there is no point in wasting your love on somebody who wont return it. good luk
Ok, if she is 26 she shouldn't have to listen to her mother.
If she has never met you, then it's really childish to say she loves you.
If she doesn't want to meet you and start being a responsible adult then you should tell her you do not want to continue talking to her.
I need some advice about a girl?
Hi guys,
What it is right, i went out with this girl a few years ago when i was about 20, she was a bit older than me, anyway i liked her a lot at the time but i messed things up really, anyway it was a few years ago now so I thought ill try and add her on facebook and see what she says.
Only problem is it looks like she's rejected my friend request, i felt a bit sad but thought i'll just leave it now, anyway i've been thinking again and thought sending her a message saying how i feel, how much i like her, things like that, what do you think girls? Would you be impressed if someone did that to you or will i just look like a bit of a stalker.
I need a yes or no answer of everyone who replies, whichever gets the most votes is what i'll doI need some advice about a girl?
i would do the same, sorry.I need some advice about a girl?
If she rejected you, leave her alone...she probably isn't interested and would be creeped out if you did that because she doesn't even like you enough to add you back...I'm sorry, I wouldn't do it. but good luck! You can do better than her.
What it is right, i went out with this girl a few years ago when i was about 20, she was a bit older than me, anyway i liked her a lot at the time but i messed things up really, anyway it was a few years ago now so I thought ill try and add her on facebook and see what she says.
Only problem is it looks like she's rejected my friend request, i felt a bit sad but thought i'll just leave it now, anyway i've been thinking again and thought sending her a message saying how i feel, how much i like her, things like that, what do you think girls? Would you be impressed if someone did that to you or will i just look like a bit of a stalker.
I need a yes or no answer of everyone who replies, whichever gets the most votes is what i'll doI need some advice about a girl?
i would do the same, sorry.I need some advice about a girl?
If she rejected you, leave her alone...she probably isn't interested and would be creeped out if you did that because she doesn't even like you enough to add you back...I'm sorry, I wouldn't do it. but good luck! You can do better than her.
Any advice about this girl?
Any advice about this girl?
About 5 months ago, I told this girl I liked her even though, back then, I had only known her for about 3 weeks, and she said that she just didn't want a relationship like that, that she was too selfish and that she felt she would only end up hurting the guy.
So I left it a few months, and tried to get over her. I still wanted to be her friend though. But then I realised that she's never had a boyfriend before, and I feel that maybe, just maybe she was telling the truth. She's the nicest girl I've ever met, and I haven't ever had as strong feelings for a girl as I have for her. I've never had had the courage to ask a girl to her face for her number, let alone call her, until I met this girl.
Recently, I've been spending more time with her as group, flirting a little bit, not too much, but then she sends me this really long email saying basically she hoped I didn't like her, begging me not to like her like that, saying that she just didn't want a boyfriend. She said that I was one of the nicest, sweetest guys and that there was plenty of far more beautiful girls out there. And I felt the best thing to do was to be completely honest with her, and so I told her how I liked her alot, but that I wasn't out there seeking a relationship with whoever. (I kind of felt that she thought I just simply wanted a girlfriend which isn't at all true.)
She replied and said she was very happy that I had been so honest with her. But didn't mention anything else about what I had said (about me liking her).
And since then, however, we've done a number of things together- we've had dinner twice, had lunch, gone for walks... just us two. (I have also never done anything like this with any other girls before.)
Should I completely give up and move on, or do you think I should keep trying? I do understand that if she really really really liked me, then yea, probably she would have said yes when I asked her... but what if she sort of likes me, but doesn't feel like she likes me enough? How many of you could say you really really really liked your significant other before you to were officially going out?
She's a very considerate girl, so I'm thinking that just maybe she's afraid that if she gets into a relationship with me, she might change her mind about whether she likes me and then end up hurting me?
If you guys think that I have a chance, any ideas of other things we could do together? Stuff that isn't too full on or too boyfriend-girlfriend style? Any ideas of how often I should meet up with her/call her? And most importantly, any ideas of how I can convince her she's not selfish, and that she could never hurt me?
About 5 months ago, I told this girl I liked her even though, back then, I had only known her for about 3 weeks, and she said that she just didn't want a relationship like that, that she was too selfish and that she felt she would only end up hurting the guy.
So I left it a few months, and tried to get over her. I still wanted to be her friend though. But then I realised that she's never had a boyfriend before, and I feel that maybe, just maybe she was telling the truth. She's the nicest girl I've ever met, and I haven't ever had as strong feelings for a girl as I have for her. I've never had had the courage to ask a girl to her face for her number, let alone call her, until I met this girl.
Recently, I've been spending more time with her as group, flirting a little bit, not too much, but then she sends me this really long email saying basically she hoped I didn't like her, begging me not to like her like that, saying that she just didn't want a boyfriend. She said that I was one of the nicest, sweetest guys and that there was plenty of far more beautiful girls out there. And I felt the best thing to do was to be completely honest with her, and so I told her how I liked her alot, but that I wasn't out there seeking a relationship with whoever. (I kind of felt that she thought I just simply wanted a girlfriend which isn't at all true.)
She replied and said she was very happy that I had been so honest with her. But didn't mention anything else about what I had said (about me liking her).
And since then, however, we've done a number of things together- we've had dinner twice, had lunch, gone for walks... just us two. (I have also never done anything like this with any other girls before.)
Should I completely give up and move on, or do you think I should keep trying? I do understand that if she really really really liked me, then yea, probably she would have said yes when I asked her... but what if she sort of likes me, but doesn't feel like she likes me enough? How many of you could say you really really really liked your significant other before you to were officially going out?
She's a very considerate girl, so I'm thinking that just maybe she's afraid that if she gets into a relationship with me, she might change her mind about whether she likes me and then end up hurting me?
If you guys think that I have a chance, any ideas of other things we could do together? Stuff that isn't too full on or too boyfriend-girlfriend style? Any ideas of how often I should meet up with her/call her? And most importantly, any ideas of how I can convince her she's not selfish, and that she could never hurt me?
I need some advice about a girl that i like?
i met this girl about a year ago and we really got along great and ever since then we've become closer and closer as friends
i like her, and i know she likes me because about 2 months ago we ended up getting drunk together and admitted that we liked eachother, and ended up cuddling on her couch watching movies
anyways, after that there was a death in my family and i kind of distanced myself from everyone for a while, including her
now i found out that shes dating this other guy
they started dating about a week ago
the one time that we all hung out together at her house, i caught her looking at me a few times, and anytime we'd have eye contact she'd get this kind of guilty sad look in her eyes and look to the ground or look away
id like to be more then friends with her, but i dont wanna get in the way of her current relationship cause the guy seems nice, and shes happy
i feel like this is all just bad timing and i missed my chance
any advice for me? what should i do?I need some advice about a girl that i like?
respect the girl enough to not try to date her or approach in any inappropriate manner. yeah, you like her, but like you said, she has a boyfriend right now. if u really like her, then you want what makes her happy, whether it hurts you or not. so don't be jealous and upset at the fact that she may have moved on. be happy for her and show it. respect her, her boyfriend, and her relationship. this should show her you have a great deal of maturity in dealing with the situation. your friendship should work out fine. just be there for her when you konw she needs it and never take advantage of her when she's vulnerable.I need some advice about a girl that i like?
Sorry to hear about the death in your family. You can get some really good dating advice at http://www.datingwar.com
if u kare 4 her ,let her be happy. remain friends with her because she might not likethe guy anymore and ul get lucky
i like her, and i know she likes me because about 2 months ago we ended up getting drunk together and admitted that we liked eachother, and ended up cuddling on her couch watching movies
anyways, after that there was a death in my family and i kind of distanced myself from everyone for a while, including her
now i found out that shes dating this other guy
they started dating about a week ago
the one time that we all hung out together at her house, i caught her looking at me a few times, and anytime we'd have eye contact she'd get this kind of guilty sad look in her eyes and look to the ground or look away
id like to be more then friends with her, but i dont wanna get in the way of her current relationship cause the guy seems nice, and shes happy
i feel like this is all just bad timing and i missed my chance
any advice for me? what should i do?I need some advice about a girl that i like?
respect the girl enough to not try to date her or approach in any inappropriate manner. yeah, you like her, but like you said, she has a boyfriend right now. if u really like her, then you want what makes her happy, whether it hurts you or not. so don't be jealous and upset at the fact that she may have moved on. be happy for her and show it. respect her, her boyfriend, and her relationship. this should show her you have a great deal of maturity in dealing with the situation. your friendship should work out fine. just be there for her when you konw she needs it and never take advantage of her when she's vulnerable.I need some advice about a girl that i like?
Sorry to hear about the death in your family. You can get some really good dating advice at http://www.datingwar.com
if u kare 4 her ,let her be happy. remain friends with her because she might not likethe guy anymore and ul get lucky
Need some good advice with this girl from church! 10 points?
Well, I have been going to this church for about 3 months. On my first day there in sunday school class, a girl came over and sat by me. She could have sat anywhere. She asked if this was my first time there and we exchanged names. She doesn't talk much and seems shy. She never really looks at you face to face, just out of the corner of her eye. Since then there has not been much conversation between us. She doesn't really talk to much of anyone. When we are in the service though she sits by her parents and seems very comfortable around them, looks them in the face etc.
Well here are my questions:
1) She wears a ring on each of her ring fingers, do they mean anything? She is in a singles sunday school class.
2) I'm 33. I don't know how old she is. She looks like she is maybe 22 max... but she looks like one of those people who will always look young. ( I have been told that I look about 6-8 years younger than I am). So maybe she is 25, 28 .. maybe 21? My question is: Is it alright to ask her out? Is it inapporopiate since I only see her at church?
Additional facts!
She has been going here for years.
It is a conservative baptist church.
She is VERY pretty, I might be aiming too high!Need some good advice with this girl from church! 10 points?
Well, Baptist or not, asking her out in the middle of a service would likely be inappropriate. You'll just have to find another place to talk. You say she attends a singles religious class? She is likely single no matter what rings there are on her fingers. This could be a simple opening for you to strike up a harmless conversation without getting into weird stuff too fast.
The problem with shyness is they tend not to give you much info to work with when you want to try and get to know them. It could be from many sources, but, the few shy people I can think of offhand each had situations where they were hurt in the past, so they do not open up easily.
Myself, I would sit next to her some Sunday before class and ask her, if she is single, why does she were her rings the way she does. You could then add on to it that you find it kind of awkward because you don't know if she is available or not.
This now will require her to respond and you have initiated a conversation! ^_^
Sadly, shyness still works against you here. She will 'clam up' once she answers, whatever her answer. So prepare for every possible response she could give you with something to continue things. The important thing is to LISTEN to what she says. It's the best place to bring your next question.
If you're lucky and plan it right, you will speak until your class starts, then you are sitting together quietly while you learn important religious matters. When these end, turn to her and tell her you've enjoyed speaking or somesuch. Tell her you hope to do it again.
Make your gettaway. You want her comfortable talking with you and shyness means she isn't used to talking with strangers for very long. No matter how great you are, this will likely be the case. So get away and look forward to next week!
Each week as something new and volunteer something easygoing from your own past. Until you know her better try to avoid dangerous subjects like religion, politics, and sex/love. You CAN talk about these things when you know her a little better, but, they tend to evoke powerful feeling and opinions and that is trouble to a fledgling relationship.
Before you know it,you will find out if she is the girl for you or not. At 33, I know you are a bit 'hurried', but speed always messes relationships up. I met my spouse at 30 and we married 5 years later although it felt like we were married much sooner than that. That soul-melding thing and all.
Also, this approach can give you a friend, even if she isn't the one for you. Hope this helps, I'll say a prayer that God finds joy for you both.Need some good advice with this girl from church! 10 points?
She sounds shifty to me buddy.
1) she goes to church
2) she goes to chruch
3) she goes to church on her own
4) she wont look you in the eye, so just what is she thinking when she talks to you
5) are you sure she isnt in a cult?
6) why are you single at 33? If you were good enough to pull a pretty girl, dont you think you would have done by now?
dude she likes you, asking her out to coffee after church is not really
asking her on a date.
If it makes her and her family more comfortable then ask the parents
if it is ok too, or invite them all to Coffee after church with you and some other parishioners you know.
Hmm.
If i were you, I'd ask her out.
Just for a drink or something.
Most churches have socials of some sort, so wait until the next one your church holds. Make sure you speak to her and her family and be friendly to them all. Chat to her on her own, if you get the chance, and if she becomes less shy, suggest having a coffee together some time. She does seem shy, but also does her best to be friendly, since she went out of her way to speak to you, when you were new.
Well here are my questions:
1) She wears a ring on each of her ring fingers, do they mean anything? She is in a singles sunday school class.
2) I'm 33. I don't know how old she is. She looks like she is maybe 22 max... but she looks like one of those people who will always look young. ( I have been told that I look about 6-8 years younger than I am). So maybe she is 25, 28 .. maybe 21? My question is: Is it alright to ask her out? Is it inapporopiate since I only see her at church?
Additional facts!
She has been going here for years.
It is a conservative baptist church.
She is VERY pretty, I might be aiming too high!Need some good advice with this girl from church! 10 points?
Well, Baptist or not, asking her out in the middle of a service would likely be inappropriate. You'll just have to find another place to talk. You say she attends a singles religious class? She is likely single no matter what rings there are on her fingers. This could be a simple opening for you to strike up a harmless conversation without getting into weird stuff too fast.
The problem with shyness is they tend not to give you much info to work with when you want to try and get to know them. It could be from many sources, but, the few shy people I can think of offhand each had situations where they were hurt in the past, so they do not open up easily.
Myself, I would sit next to her some Sunday before class and ask her, if she is single, why does she were her rings the way she does. You could then add on to it that you find it kind of awkward because you don't know if she is available or not.
This now will require her to respond and you have initiated a conversation! ^_^
Sadly, shyness still works against you here. She will 'clam up' once she answers, whatever her answer. So prepare for every possible response she could give you with something to continue things. The important thing is to LISTEN to what she says. It's the best place to bring your next question.
If you're lucky and plan it right, you will speak until your class starts, then you are sitting together quietly while you learn important religious matters. When these end, turn to her and tell her you've enjoyed speaking or somesuch. Tell her you hope to do it again.
Make your gettaway. You want her comfortable talking with you and shyness means she isn't used to talking with strangers for very long. No matter how great you are, this will likely be the case. So get away and look forward to next week!
Each week as something new and volunteer something easygoing from your own past. Until you know her better try to avoid dangerous subjects like religion, politics, and sex/love. You CAN talk about these things when you know her a little better, but, they tend to evoke powerful feeling and opinions and that is trouble to a fledgling relationship.
Before you know it,you will find out if she is the girl for you or not. At 33, I know you are a bit 'hurried', but speed always messes relationships up. I met my spouse at 30 and we married 5 years later although it felt like we were married much sooner than that. That soul-melding thing and all.
Also, this approach can give you a friend, even if she isn't the one for you. Hope this helps, I'll say a prayer that God finds joy for you both.Need some good advice with this girl from church! 10 points?
She sounds shifty to me buddy.
1) she goes to church
2) she goes to chruch
3) she goes to church on her own
4) she wont look you in the eye, so just what is she thinking when she talks to you
5) are you sure she isnt in a cult?
6) why are you single at 33? If you were good enough to pull a pretty girl, dont you think you would have done by now?
dude she likes you, asking her out to coffee after church is not really
asking her on a date.
If it makes her and her family more comfortable then ask the parents
if it is ok too, or invite them all to Coffee after church with you and some other parishioners you know.
Hmm.
If i were you, I'd ask her out.
Just for a drink or something.
Most churches have socials of some sort, so wait until the next one your church holds. Make sure you speak to her and her family and be friendly to them all. Chat to her on her own, if you get the chance, and if she becomes less shy, suggest having a coffee together some time. She does seem shy, but also does her best to be friendly, since she went out of her way to speak to you, when you were new.
Need some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?
Well, I have been going to this church for about 3 months. On my first day there in sunday school class, a girl came over and sat by me. She could have sat anywhere. She asked if this was my first time there and we exchanged names (first names, I still don't know her last name). Since then there has not been much conversation between us. She doesn't really talk to much of anyone, and seems shy. She never really looks at you face to face, just out of the corner of her eye, and she is brief when someone asks her something... never carries a conversation. When we are in the service though she sits by her parents and seems very comfortable around them, looks them in the face, chats and laughs with them, etc.
Well here are my questions:
1) She wears a ring on each of her ring fingers, do they mean anything? If she has a BF would he sit near her or go to the same church? She is in a singles sunday school class.
2) I'm 33. I don't know how old she is. She looks like she is maybe 22 max... but she looks like one of those people who will always look young. ( I have been told that I look about 6-8 years younger than I am). So maybe she is 25, 28 .. maybe 21? My question is: Is it alright to ask her out? Is it inapporopiate since I only see her at church? How do I ask how old she is? And at 33 how young is too young?
I don't know how to go about asking her out... how to get her alone? How well do I need to know her, before I ask her?
Any help will be very much apprieciated. Best answer 10 points!
Additional facts!
She has been going here for years.
She is going to college for teaching (in her 3rd or 4th term)
It is a conservative baptist church.
I don't want to come across as a creep or a bother!
Best answer 10 points!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?br>
She is VERY pretty, I might be aiming too high!Need some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?
Ask her parents if you could go out with her ROFL.
No but seriously just get to know her a little bit better. You could maybe talk to her parents start a conversation with them. Try to let them know who type of person you are. Win the parents over then the girl XDNeed some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?
Good sound advice there. The key to so many priest's love affairs revealed. Win the parents over, then the child (and yes, I do mean child) :-P
Well here are my questions:
1) She wears a ring on each of her ring fingers, do they mean anything? If she has a BF would he sit near her or go to the same church? She is in a singles sunday school class.
2) I'm 33. I don't know how old she is. She looks like she is maybe 22 max... but she looks like one of those people who will always look young. ( I have been told that I look about 6-8 years younger than I am). So maybe she is 25, 28 .. maybe 21? My question is: Is it alright to ask her out? Is it inapporopiate since I only see her at church? How do I ask how old she is? And at 33 how young is too young?
I don't know how to go about asking her out... how to get her alone? How well do I need to know her, before I ask her?
Any help will be very much apprieciated. Best answer 10 points!
Additional facts!
She has been going here for years.
She is going to college for teaching (in her 3rd or 4th term)
It is a conservative baptist church.
I don't want to come across as a creep or a bother!
Best answer 10 points!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?br>
She is VERY pretty, I might be aiming too high!Need some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?
Ask her parents if you could go out with her ROFL.
No but seriously just get to know her a little bit better. You could maybe talk to her parents start a conversation with them. Try to let them know who type of person you are. Win the parents over then the girl XDNeed some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?
Good sound advice there. The key to so many priest's love affairs revealed. Win the parents over, then the child (and yes, I do mean child) :-P
I need some advice about this girl...?
Ive been dating this girl for two years. I care about her still but i think she is only with me because of the physical stuff. We've been talking about breaking up but I think she is scared to dump me. I still care about her a lot but i don't think she does...She never wants to spend time with me if we are not doing physical stuff and she has only met my parents 3 times...I'm 18 and i still live at home..I want this to work out but i don't think she does...I don't want to dump her because it would be too hard for me to see her with another guy...I need some advice about this girl...?
That's kinda what happened to me she was hella stingy for a while then she called and broke up with me we put everything on the table like what bothered us and now we are kinda talking again just asl if you can take a break to get your **** together and think about somethingsI need some advice about this girl...?
would you be happy being with her and not getting anywhere.? it doesn't sound like the relationship is gonna work out if she just likes you for the physical stuff and doesnt hang out with you. try to talk to her more and hang out and see if you can get her to like you or.. you may meet someone else who is perfect for you and likes you for you and then you will fall out of love with her and not care anymore. just give it some time.bloom-
That's kinda what happened to me she was hella stingy for a while then she called and broke up with me we put everything on the table like what bothered us and now we are kinda talking again just asl if you can take a break to get your **** together and think about somethingsI need some advice about this girl...?
would you be happy being with her and not getting anywhere.? it doesn't sound like the relationship is gonna work out if she just likes you for the physical stuff and doesnt hang out with you. try to talk to her more and hang out and see if you can get her to like you or.. you may meet someone else who is perfect for you and likes you for you and then you will fall out of love with her and not care anymore. just give it some time.
I need your advice.. does this girl like me? she has known me 4 a few months since i frequent where she works?
about 10 days ago i was eating breakfast at a diner down the street from me. i drive my scooter down there bc its so close. i ride a scooter bc im handicap but i can walk %26amp; i am independent. i ride it for when i dont walk short distances.
anyway, i ordered what i usually do %26amp; it was kinda dead so the waitress sits down for a couple mins. we small talk %26amp; we know each other bc im a regular. she got up %26amp; went to the kitchen %26amp; when she went by me next time she grabbed my forearm. i just kinda brshed that off but she did it again few mins later. shes didnt squeeze it hard but put her hand around my bicep. it was noticeable since it was the second time she did it. shes around my age im 26 shes 24. i was sure to say goodbye to her when i left
3 days later i go sit where i usually sit order what i usually order %26amp;she waits on me. we talked bout her roomate shes about to kick out %26amp; when i left she initiated a hug.
on saturday, shes was real busy, but she calls me baby %26amp; babe when she saw me.I need your advice.. does this girl like me? she has known me 4 a few months since i frequent where she works?
she really seems to be interested in you :)I need your advice.. does this girl like me? she has known me 4 a few months since i frequent where she works?
I think you are over analyzing the situation. Yes she likes you.. how much is not clear. She obviously makes an effort to talk to you every time you are around. But, you are right, she is a waitress, who knows what her true motive is unless you ask her out. Try it.. the only thing you will lose is your diner.
anyway, i ordered what i usually do %26amp; it was kinda dead so the waitress sits down for a couple mins. we small talk %26amp; we know each other bc im a regular. she got up %26amp; went to the kitchen %26amp; when she went by me next time she grabbed my forearm. i just kinda brshed that off but she did it again few mins later. shes didnt squeeze it hard but put her hand around my bicep. it was noticeable since it was the second time she did it. shes around my age im 26 shes 24. i was sure to say goodbye to her when i left
3 days later i go sit where i usually sit order what i usually order %26amp;she waits on me. we talked bout her roomate shes about to kick out %26amp; when i left she initiated a hug.
on saturday, shes was real busy, but she calls me baby %26amp; babe when she saw me.I need your advice.. does this girl like me? she has known me 4 a few months since i frequent where she works?
she really seems to be interested in you :)I need your advice.. does this girl like me? she has known me 4 a few months since i frequent where she works?
I think you are over analyzing the situation. Yes she likes you.. how much is not clear. She obviously makes an effort to talk to you every time you are around. But, you are right, she is a waitress, who knows what her true motive is unless you ask her out. Try it.. the only thing you will lose is your diner.
REALLY need some advice about a girl.?
So lets get down to business.
I've known this girl for 3 years now. We're currently high school juniors, so that means we met freshman year. We were pretty good friends until she got a boyfriend and become rather distant and started hanging out with his friends instead (usually how it is, isn't it?)
Now they broke up half a year ago, and so she started hanging out and talking to us (our group) more.
So now i feel like I'm starting to fall for her, but i don't know what to do because we were and now we are good friends.
But the thing is, i think I'm in the friend zone, even though i have the biggest hunch that shes flirts with me a lot.
To make matter worse, she went out with a few guys during our renewed friendship.
My dilemma:
1) Am i right to believe that shes a bit into me
2) does her going out with other guys tell me that shes not interested
3) what do i do, do i tell her where i stand?
Thanks
So heres a couple things she does:
1) when im at her locker, she would use her shoulder and lightly push mine. Kind of in a ';go away'; type of thing.
2) after she puts on lip gloss, she would wipe the residue onto my cheek
3) this one time, when we were on the bus and it made a sudden stop, she held onto my arm rather than the pole and didn't let go until i got off 5 minutes later
4) whenever i try to enter her conversations she would tell me to ';go away'; in a whiny type of tone. (are they talking about me?)
5) she would smile and her eyes would widen when we pass each other in the halls.
6) she would also say ';you're such a loser';, and ';you're so weird'; in a joking type of way whenever i do stupid/funny stuff.REALLY need some advice about a girl.?
I am a girl, so therefore I kno how they act when they like a guy. She likes u, i do things like this all the time when I like a guy. Just talk to her and be like I really like u and I was wondering if u wanted to go do sumn me and u together, she'll say yes, trust me.REALLY need some advice about a girl.?
Its hard to tell. If she asks your opinion about the guys she dates, you're in the friend zone. Maybe she really appreciates your friendship and is afraid of ruining it by asking you out.
I think that if you're good friends, then you have nothing to lose by giving it a shot.
I'm not sure how much this will help but I've been in a situation similar to this girl you're talking about. When I started hanging out with my real friends again, I was really interested in my best guy friend. I would go out with alot of guys during our renewed friendship too because I was trying to find a substitute for him, thinking he'd never go for me after I'd ditched him and the rest of our friends for some guy. That guy is my boyfriend now and although I don't know if this girl thinks the same way, I'm just letting you know how it was for someone in a similar position to her's. Hope this helps, even just a little bit!
I have friends that are girls and they do all those things to me too besides the lip gloss thing.
You can always ask her out as friends and try to see if you guys can be more than friends. If she rejects you things will be a lil akward for a few months but she will get over it easily and things will be the same (happened with).
talk to her and subtly bring up that you like her or just hint it
if she is a smart girl she will pick up what your saying and if it turns out she doesnt like you then it wont be too awkward
I've known this girl for 3 years now. We're currently high school juniors, so that means we met freshman year. We were pretty good friends until she got a boyfriend and become rather distant and started hanging out with his friends instead (usually how it is, isn't it?)
Now they broke up half a year ago, and so she started hanging out and talking to us (our group) more.
So now i feel like I'm starting to fall for her, but i don't know what to do because we were and now we are good friends.
But the thing is, i think I'm in the friend zone, even though i have the biggest hunch that shes flirts with me a lot.
To make matter worse, she went out with a few guys during our renewed friendship.
My dilemma:
1) Am i right to believe that shes a bit into me
2) does her going out with other guys tell me that shes not interested
3) what do i do, do i tell her where i stand?
Thanks
So heres a couple things she does:
1) when im at her locker, she would use her shoulder and lightly push mine. Kind of in a ';go away'; type of thing.
2) after she puts on lip gloss, she would wipe the residue onto my cheek
3) this one time, when we were on the bus and it made a sudden stop, she held onto my arm rather than the pole and didn't let go until i got off 5 minutes later
4) whenever i try to enter her conversations she would tell me to ';go away'; in a whiny type of tone. (are they talking about me?)
5) she would smile and her eyes would widen when we pass each other in the halls.
6) she would also say ';you're such a loser';, and ';you're so weird'; in a joking type of way whenever i do stupid/funny stuff.REALLY need some advice about a girl.?
I am a girl, so therefore I kno how they act when they like a guy. She likes u, i do things like this all the time when I like a guy. Just talk to her and be like I really like u and I was wondering if u wanted to go do sumn me and u together, she'll say yes, trust me.REALLY need some advice about a girl.?
Its hard to tell. If she asks your opinion about the guys she dates, you're in the friend zone. Maybe she really appreciates your friendship and is afraid of ruining it by asking you out.
I think that if you're good friends, then you have nothing to lose by giving it a shot.
I'm not sure how much this will help but I've been in a situation similar to this girl you're talking about. When I started hanging out with my real friends again, I was really interested in my best guy friend. I would go out with alot of guys during our renewed friendship too because I was trying to find a substitute for him, thinking he'd never go for me after I'd ditched him and the rest of our friends for some guy. That guy is my boyfriend now and although I don't know if this girl thinks the same way, I'm just letting you know how it was for someone in a similar position to her's. Hope this helps, even just a little bit!
I have friends that are girls and they do all those things to me too besides the lip gloss thing.
You can always ask her out as friends and try to see if you guys can be more than friends. If she rejects you things will be a lil akward for a few months but she will get over it easily and things will be the same (happened with).
talk to her and subtly bring up that you like her or just hint it
if she is a smart girl she will pick up what your saying and if it turns out she doesnt like you then it wont be too awkward
Need some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?
Well, I have been going to this church for about 3 months. On my first day there in sunday school class, a girl came over and sat by me. She could have sat anywhere. She asked if this was my first time there and we exchanged names (first names, I still don't know her last name). Since then there has not been much conversation between us. She doesn't really talk to much of anyone, and seems shy. She never really looks at you face to face, just out of the corner of her eye, and she is brief when someone asks her something... never carries a conversation. When we are in the service though she sits by her parents and seems very comfortable around them, looks them in the face, chats and laughs with them, etc.
Well here are my questions:
1) She wears a ring on each of her ring fingers, do they mean anything? If she has a BF would he sit near her? She is in a singles sunday school class.
2) I'm 33. I don't know how old she is. She looks like she is maybe 22 max... but she looks like one of those people who will always look young. ( I have been told that I look about 6-8 years younger than I am). So maybe she is 25, 28 .. maybe 21? My question is: Is it alright to ask her out? Is it inapporopiate since I only see her at church? And at 33 how young is too young?
I don't know how to go about asking her out... how to get her alone? How well do I need to know her, before I ask her?
Any help will be very much apprieciated. Best answer 10 points!
Additional facts!
She has been going here for years.
She is going to college for teaching (in her 3rd or 4th term)
It is a conservative baptist church.
I don't want to come across as a creep or a bother!
She is VERY pretty, I might be aiming too high!Need some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?
The rings confuse me, both on her ring fingers you say, very strange. I think she's done that on purpose, perhaps not because she's married though, just she's trying to make a statement.
She's been going there for years, you haven't. You do need to get to know her a decent bit, certainly before you even consider 'asking her out' you need to befriend her, okay she's nervous but you've gotta get her to talk to you and visa versa. And I think that even if she isn't looking for anyone special, you'd be in the right if you tried to show her you at least wanna be friends with her.
And if she doesn't wanna talk to you directly, try befriending her parents and the people she does talk to, that might encourage her to talk.
Whatever you do, don't push it. 'Getting hooked' isn't necessarily your 'destiny', there's lots of other things to be getting along with as a Christian!Need some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?
Well, if she wears a ring on each of her ring fingers, it could mean something. But then again, it doesn't have to. Maybe she just likes wearing rings on her ring fingers. And if she's around her 20s, I guess it is alright to ask her out as long as she's not a minor. And I don't think that it's inappropriate, but well... If you happen to like her, you can ask her out. Just be brave and ask her if you can talk to her alone or something. :) And good luck~
well buddy i go with ur last line
she is VERY pretty , u might be aiming 2 high
common man the world is full of women, %26amp; u know what every woman is beautiful 'coz she is a woman
she exchanged names as she might have found u new 2 the place %26amp; u said she wears a ring i both hands that means she is 100% commited 2 some1
now it is beautiful but b4 this gets ugly get out of it
after class maybe make some idle chat and ask her what she does in her spare time or talk about the lesson, than ask if shes meeting her some friends or boyfriend (or if she has any friends or a boyfriend that is interested in your lessons) after the lesson cause than she would probobaly say whether she has a boyfriend or not, and if your 33 maybe younger than 24 would be to young if your looking for something serious but hey if shes a church girl i doubt she would mess around
btw the rings might be like a purity or chastity ring
Well here are my questions:
1) She wears a ring on each of her ring fingers, do they mean anything? If she has a BF would he sit near her? She is in a singles sunday school class.
2) I'm 33. I don't know how old she is. She looks like she is maybe 22 max... but she looks like one of those people who will always look young. ( I have been told that I look about 6-8 years younger than I am). So maybe she is 25, 28 .. maybe 21? My question is: Is it alright to ask her out? Is it inapporopiate since I only see her at church? And at 33 how young is too young?
I don't know how to go about asking her out... how to get her alone? How well do I need to know her, before I ask her?
Any help will be very much apprieciated. Best answer 10 points!
Additional facts!
She has been going here for years.
She is going to college for teaching (in her 3rd or 4th term)
It is a conservative baptist church.
I don't want to come across as a creep or a bother!
She is VERY pretty, I might be aiming too high!Need some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?
The rings confuse me, both on her ring fingers you say, very strange. I think she's done that on purpose, perhaps not because she's married though, just she's trying to make a statement.
She's been going there for years, you haven't. You do need to get to know her a decent bit, certainly before you even consider 'asking her out' you need to befriend her, okay she's nervous but you've gotta get her to talk to you and visa versa. And I think that even if she isn't looking for anyone special, you'd be in the right if you tried to show her you at least wanna be friends with her.
And if she doesn't wanna talk to you directly, try befriending her parents and the people she does talk to, that might encourage her to talk.
Whatever you do, don't push it. 'Getting hooked' isn't necessarily your 'destiny', there's lots of other things to be getting along with as a Christian!Need some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?
Well, if she wears a ring on each of her ring fingers, it could mean something. But then again, it doesn't have to. Maybe she just likes wearing rings on her ring fingers. And if she's around her 20s, I guess it is alright to ask her out as long as she's not a minor. And I don't think that it's inappropriate, but well... If you happen to like her, you can ask her out. Just be brave and ask her if you can talk to her alone or something. :) And good luck~
well buddy i go with ur last line
she is VERY pretty , u might be aiming 2 high
common man the world is full of women, %26amp; u know what every woman is beautiful 'coz she is a woman
she exchanged names as she might have found u new 2 the place %26amp; u said she wears a ring i both hands that means she is 100% commited 2 some1
now it is beautiful but b4 this gets ugly get out of it
after class maybe make some idle chat and ask her what she does in her spare time or talk about the lesson, than ask if shes meeting her some friends or boyfriend (or if she has any friends or a boyfriend that is interested in your lessons) after the lesson cause than she would probobaly say whether she has a boyfriend or not, and if your 33 maybe younger than 24 would be to young if your looking for something serious but hey if shes a church girl i doubt she would mess around
btw the rings might be like a purity or chastity ring
I need your advice.. does this girl like me? she has known me 4 a few months since i frequent where she works
about 10 days ago i was eating breakfast at a diner down the street from me. i drive my scooter down there bc its so close. i ride a scooter bc im handicap but i can walk %26amp; i am independent. i ride it for when i dont walk short distances.
anyway, i ordered what i usually do %26amp; it was kinda dead so the waitress sits down for a couple mins. we small talk %26amp; we know each other bc im a regular. she got up %26amp; went to the kitchen %26amp; when she went by me next time she grabbed my forearm. i just kinda brshed that off but she did it again few mins later. shes didnt squeeze it hard but put her hand around my bicep. it was noticeable since it was the second time she did it. shes around my age im 26 shes 24. i was sure to say goodbye to her when i left
3 days later i go sit where i usually sit order what i usually order %26amp;she waits on me. we talked bout her roomate shes about to kick out %26amp; when i left she initiated a hug.
today, shes was real busy, but she calls me baby %26amp; babe when she saw me.I need your advice.. does this girl like me? she has known me 4 a few months since i frequent where she works
Waitresses are tough to figure out if they are actually interested or not , by what you say it sounds like she is but I usually pay attention to how she treats other regular guys that go in the same place , when I see her sitting by them and touching or grabbing them I just figure that is her nature , but if she shows more attention to you than the others there is a good chance she is interested...I need your advice.. does this girl like me? she has known me 4 a few months since i frequent where she works
yea it sounds like shes like u to me,maybe the next time she'll tell u that she likes u who knows
There's a book that came out some years ago,,Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus...what I mean is, women may act a certain way, but totally have something else on their mind..I'm a woman myself, and from your note, your lady crush sounds a lot like me..I'm touchy feely, I use the words babe, and baby often, but honestly, I mean nothing by the touchs, or the endearment name of the ';baby'; and ';babes'; ...She could call you sweetie next, or darling..Honestly, it just means that she's extremely sweet, and she's touchy feely..Men take these gestures like, ';oh that girl wants me';..but it's not really that, its that that particular woman just happens to be friendly, respectful, and just down to earth..She may just like the converstations, and just likes that your friendly as well..I mean come on, people can be down right rude, and not nice, so when you do meet someone who is nice, friendly, and easy to talk too, it's just refreshing...You said you gave her the number, has she called yet? This would be the greatest sign, that YES this waitress is definitely interested me..The words have to be spoken..and nothing to do with anything, but I have a boyfriend, but yet, the way you described the waitress's gestures and comments, is what I say to everyone, that's just me...Good luck babe :)
anyway, i ordered what i usually do %26amp; it was kinda dead so the waitress sits down for a couple mins. we small talk %26amp; we know each other bc im a regular. she got up %26amp; went to the kitchen %26amp; when she went by me next time she grabbed my forearm. i just kinda brshed that off but she did it again few mins later. shes didnt squeeze it hard but put her hand around my bicep. it was noticeable since it was the second time she did it. shes around my age im 26 shes 24. i was sure to say goodbye to her when i left
3 days later i go sit where i usually sit order what i usually order %26amp;she waits on me. we talked bout her roomate shes about to kick out %26amp; when i left she initiated a hug.
today, shes was real busy, but she calls me baby %26amp; babe when she saw me.I need your advice.. does this girl like me? she has known me 4 a few months since i frequent where she works
Waitresses are tough to figure out if they are actually interested or not , by what you say it sounds like she is but I usually pay attention to how she treats other regular guys that go in the same place , when I see her sitting by them and touching or grabbing them I just figure that is her nature , but if she shows more attention to you than the others there is a good chance she is interested...I need your advice.. does this girl like me? she has known me 4 a few months since i frequent where she works
yea it sounds like shes like u to me,maybe the next time she'll tell u that she likes u who knows
There's a book that came out some years ago,,Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus...what I mean is, women may act a certain way, but totally have something else on their mind..I'm a woman myself, and from your note, your lady crush sounds a lot like me..I'm touchy feely, I use the words babe, and baby often, but honestly, I mean nothing by the touchs, or the endearment name of the ';baby'; and ';babes'; ...She could call you sweetie next, or darling..Honestly, it just means that she's extremely sweet, and she's touchy feely..Men take these gestures like, ';oh that girl wants me';..but it's not really that, its that that particular woman just happens to be friendly, respectful, and just down to earth..She may just like the converstations, and just likes that your friendly as well..I mean come on, people can be down right rude, and not nice, so when you do meet someone who is nice, friendly, and easy to talk too, it's just refreshing...You said you gave her the number, has she called yet? This would be the greatest sign, that YES this waitress is definitely interested me..The words have to be spoken..and nothing to do with anything, but I have a boyfriend, but yet, the way you described the waitress's gestures and comments, is what I say to everyone, that's just me...Good luck babe :)
I need your advice.. does this girl like me? she has known me 4 a few months since i frequent where she works?
about 10 days ago i was eating breakfast at a diner down the street from me. i drive my scooter down there bc its so close. i ride a scooter bc im handicap but i can walk %26amp; i am independent. i ride it for when i dont walk short distances.
anyway, i ordered what i usually do %26amp; it was kinda dead so the waitress sits down for a couple mins. we small talk %26amp; we know each other bc im a regular. she got up %26amp; went to the kitchen %26amp; when she went by me next time she grabbed my forearm. i just kinda brshed that off but she did it again few mins later. shes didnt squeeze it hard but put her hand around my bicep. it was noticeable since it was the second time she did it. shes around my age im 26 shes 24. i was sure to say goodbye to her when i left
3 days later i go sit where i usually sit order what i usually order %26amp;she waits on me. we talked bout her roomate shes about to kick out %26amp; when i left she initiated a hug.
on saturday, shes was real busy, but she calls me baby %26amp; babe when she saw me.I need your advice.. does this girl like me? she has known me 4 a few months since i frequent where she works?
sounds like she likes you and is flirting with you but it seems like she's waiting for you to make the first move. Go ahead and ask her out on a date. That's just what she's waiting for.
anyway, i ordered what i usually do %26amp; it was kinda dead so the waitress sits down for a couple mins. we small talk %26amp; we know each other bc im a regular. she got up %26amp; went to the kitchen %26amp; when she went by me next time she grabbed my forearm. i just kinda brshed that off but she did it again few mins later. shes didnt squeeze it hard but put her hand around my bicep. it was noticeable since it was the second time she did it. shes around my age im 26 shes 24. i was sure to say goodbye to her when i left
3 days later i go sit where i usually sit order what i usually order %26amp;she waits on me. we talked bout her roomate shes about to kick out %26amp; when i left she initiated a hug.
on saturday, shes was real busy, but she calls me baby %26amp; babe when she saw me.I need your advice.. does this girl like me? she has known me 4 a few months since i frequent where she works?
sounds like she likes you and is flirting with you but it seems like she's waiting for you to make the first move. Go ahead and ask her out on a date. That's just what she's waiting for.
My friend needs advice on a girl!!! HELP?
ok so my friend he told me this and i dont really know how to respond...
so there is this girl.
i have liked her for over a year.
and she comes down here to see her dad sometimes.
so i see her.
and yeah we have hurt each other quite a bit on both sides.
shell problly say it was all me idk.
and i was going to ask her out this time.
but her best friend alex... liek their not togeather but they pretty much are.
and i was like ouch.... and i kissed her and **** so i dug myself in pretty bad.
and i was going to ask her out last night.
but yeah her and alex flirt all the time.
so i didnt.
and i asked someone else what i should do and they said i should still ask her out.
and idk what to do.
thats the summary sorta
Let me know thankyou =DMy friend needs advice on a girl!!! HELP?
He'll always regret it if he doesnt let her know how he feels. Even if she doesnt feel the same way, the worse that could happen is she turns him down, but at least he wouldnt have to worry about what could have been. You only get one life, make it count, dont have regrets.bloom-
so there is this girl.
i have liked her for over a year.
and she comes down here to see her dad sometimes.
so i see her.
and yeah we have hurt each other quite a bit on both sides.
shell problly say it was all me idk.
and i was going to ask her out this time.
but her best friend alex... liek their not togeather but they pretty much are.
and i was like ouch.... and i kissed her and **** so i dug myself in pretty bad.
and i was going to ask her out last night.
but yeah her and alex flirt all the time.
so i didnt.
and i asked someone else what i should do and they said i should still ask her out.
and idk what to do.
thats the summary sorta
Let me know thankyou =DMy friend needs advice on a girl!!! HELP?
He'll always regret it if he doesnt let her know how he feels. Even if she doesnt feel the same way, the worse that could happen is she turns him down, but at least he wouldnt have to worry about what could have been. You only get one life, make it count, dont have regrets.
I need some advice on this girl. Help?
Well, I met her in September and we've become good friends. And I have had a HUGE crush on her. But, sometimes it seems like she's flirting with me or ignoring me. For example, at almost everything I say she laughs at when I'm trying to be funny even when it's not supposed to be. I know she doesn't like me, cause she's talked to me about who she likes. And then an example of ignoring me is after school is when she gives everyone a hug goodbye but not me. I don't care about the hug, but she doesn't even look at me when she leaves. The last time I went in to give her a hug, she backed away and left. And also, what should I do to be better friends with to maybe eventually turn into a relationship? Also, what should I do to let her know I really care? Any advice would help. By the way, she knows I like her.I need some advice on this girl. Help?
Wow, sounds like she likes you! Laughs at stuff that's not even funny. She may not hug you because she likes you so she feels weird hugging you and she talks about who she likes because that's what we do. She wants a reaction out of you. Hey, yes I could be wrong, but if I am right she wants to hear you comment back like, ';Oh, and the whole time I thought you wanted to date me!!'; and just start laughing as if it were a joke.I need some advice on this girl. Help?
Maybe she see's that you are really serious about her when she's not serious about you. In order for you to be in a relationship with this girl you will have to start out as being friends with her, then on to being good friends with her, then mayber yall will be more than friends.
If you want to make friends with her dont show her that your intrested her. Just be a cool person that someone will love to hang out with.
your statement[s] are confusing to me- if you are friends, why wouldn't she hug you? i think you shoud not fixate on this girl... perhaps you should explain your feelings in detail. good luck
Just let off a little and agree with her conversations she may not like you now but she may like you in the future so dont make it akward now.
i agree with Jen. move on to someone who deserves you.
just go with it ask her to the movies and then just talk to her see if she cares
im going through the same thing but i would be the girl
i like this guy
but im waiting for him to make the move
but im going to play hard to get
just to see how bad he wants me
so flirt with her
for a while
so you dont rush into things
and kinda of loose your game
and creep her out by asking her out too soon
then when she gets the idea that you wanna go out
( btw she'll get the hints if you flirt with her not in a friend way by making her laugh stuff not enough hints)
then you ask her out when you feel the time is right
well maybe that is just it. She knows you like her and she doesnt want to give you the wrong impression..... if she cant act nice as to even saying goodbye to you after class, then forget it. She isnt worth it, seems to be a little rude and stuck up...Find some one that is worth having as a friend.
ok i think if she's telling you about somebody she likes then she probably doesnt like you that way,but you can change that if you take a chance and tell her your true feelings..i know its scary but if u like her enough she will end up liking you back. and maybe sombody told her somthing about you thats not true maybe do some investigating best of luck!
The last sentence is why she doesn't hug you- she doesn't wish to encourage those feelings. Obviously she has to feel a little awkward whenever she is around you, knowing that you like her. She can't give you her full attention or make you feel too much like she cares about you.
She probably already knows that you care about her in a way that transcends friendship, so you probably don't need to mention anything, just be there for he when she needs it; good times or bad.
dude this is weird, im in the exact same situation... well what i am doing is every time i see her i dont act like i like her. just stay cool and dont say anything dumb. hope it helps
Maybe you should try mentioning your interactions with other females. Make sure she sees you with other females... that might raise her curiosity. Don't force yourself on her. That's a turn off.
When she laughs at your jokes, she feels comfortable being around you. she probably feels less stess. When she gives everyone else a hug and not you, she probably wants u to be jealous. also when she talks about someone else that she likes, she probably only wants you to be a little jealous. For now, just be good friends, then maybe later, there could be something else.
Well.. maybe the reason she's been acting strange to u is cuz she's SCARED of u... Maybe she just wanted to be friends, and she needs time to get used to the fact that u like her.... If you REALLY like her, give her some time, be funny, go on GROUP dates, and later, she will appreciate what a GREAT friend you are OK????????????
Talk to her to build your relationship. Thats what I did and I was just asked to the school dance by my best friend for 12 years! I thought the same thing... he doesnt like me but i am totally in LOVE with him and now we are practically going out! Try it and see if it works, but the only advice i can give you is to be a really good friend and dont act like you are in love with her... act as a friend! She will respect you for always being there for her and she might even end up liking you! Just be yourself and go with it! GOOD LUCK!!
read what you just wrot and I think you just helped yourself.. #1) check out her body language-not good;#2) may be this should be (1) when she talks of someone else you know you've lost.. retreat while you've still got your dignity..
kick her in her balls
U should take her at a place which she loves. Talk to her very nicely, in a good mood. And then be very frank and tell her whatever you observed, and ask her reason of her behavior, or any mistake that you have been done. If she will be true, she would for sure tell you everything she felt. This works. So, GOOD LUCK.
Some people laugh as more of a nervous habit than actually purposely laughing at something/someone.
You're the one who doesn't get hugged, because she wants to do more than hug you. You're special. She doesn't see you the way she sees her hug friends that she'll totally forget in a few years.
Ask her out on a date.
you sound like a good guy...
shes too conceited...
Its her loss...
I have a lot of friends with the same problem.
I am going to be honest, so im not trying to be mean but i know it's going to sound that way, so sorry ahead of time,
But you just have to find someone else...
Either she doesn't want to lead you on, or shes playing hard to get. You should have gone for the hard to get too, keep them guessing. My advice would be just to let it ride out, like, wait and see what happens, if she likes you then something will happen, thats just what happens when a guy and a grl like each other
When girls like a guy they will laugh at everything he says because she is trying to get on his good side ,but sometimes girls don't know what else to do,but laugh if they don't know what to say or are embarrassed etc. Also when she backs away to not give you a hug it just might be that she just doesn't feel comfortable giving you a hug quite then. It takes girls a pretty long time to warm up to someone if they are shy. Just give her, her space and go from there.
Wow, sounds like she likes you! Laughs at stuff that's not even funny. She may not hug you because she likes you so she feels weird hugging you and she talks about who she likes because that's what we do. She wants a reaction out of you. Hey, yes I could be wrong, but if I am right she wants to hear you comment back like, ';Oh, and the whole time I thought you wanted to date me!!'; and just start laughing as if it were a joke.I need some advice on this girl. Help?
Maybe she see's that you are really serious about her when she's not serious about you. In order for you to be in a relationship with this girl you will have to start out as being friends with her, then on to being good friends with her, then mayber yall will be more than friends.
If you want to make friends with her dont show her that your intrested her. Just be a cool person that someone will love to hang out with.
your statement[s] are confusing to me- if you are friends, why wouldn't she hug you? i think you shoud not fixate on this girl... perhaps you should explain your feelings in detail. good luck
Just let off a little and agree with her conversations she may not like you now but she may like you in the future so dont make it akward now.
i agree with Jen. move on to someone who deserves you.
just go with it ask her to the movies and then just talk to her see if she cares
im going through the same thing but i would be the girl
i like this guy
but im waiting for him to make the move
but im going to play hard to get
just to see how bad he wants me
so flirt with her
for a while
so you dont rush into things
and kinda of loose your game
and creep her out by asking her out too soon
then when she gets the idea that you wanna go out
( btw she'll get the hints if you flirt with her not in a friend way by making her laugh stuff not enough hints)
then you ask her out when you feel the time is right
well maybe that is just it. She knows you like her and she doesnt want to give you the wrong impression..... if she cant act nice as to even saying goodbye to you after class, then forget it. She isnt worth it, seems to be a little rude and stuck up...Find some one that is worth having as a friend.
ok i think if she's telling you about somebody she likes then she probably doesnt like you that way,but you can change that if you take a chance and tell her your true feelings..i know its scary but if u like her enough she will end up liking you back. and maybe sombody told her somthing about you thats not true maybe do some investigating best of luck!
The last sentence is why she doesn't hug you- she doesn't wish to encourage those feelings. Obviously she has to feel a little awkward whenever she is around you, knowing that you like her. She can't give you her full attention or make you feel too much like she cares about you.
She probably already knows that you care about her in a way that transcends friendship, so you probably don't need to mention anything, just be there for he when she needs it; good times or bad.
dude this is weird, im in the exact same situation... well what i am doing is every time i see her i dont act like i like her. just stay cool and dont say anything dumb. hope it helps
Maybe you should try mentioning your interactions with other females. Make sure she sees you with other females... that might raise her curiosity. Don't force yourself on her. That's a turn off.
When she laughs at your jokes, she feels comfortable being around you. she probably feels less stess. When she gives everyone else a hug and not you, she probably wants u to be jealous. also when she talks about someone else that she likes, she probably only wants you to be a little jealous. For now, just be good friends, then maybe later, there could be something else.
Well.. maybe the reason she's been acting strange to u is cuz she's SCARED of u... Maybe she just wanted to be friends, and she needs time to get used to the fact that u like her.... If you REALLY like her, give her some time, be funny, go on GROUP dates, and later, she will appreciate what a GREAT friend you are OK????????????
Talk to her to build your relationship. Thats what I did and I was just asked to the school dance by my best friend for 12 years! I thought the same thing... he doesnt like me but i am totally in LOVE with him and now we are practically going out! Try it and see if it works, but the only advice i can give you is to be a really good friend and dont act like you are in love with her... act as a friend! She will respect you for always being there for her and she might even end up liking you! Just be yourself and go with it! GOOD LUCK!!
read what you just wrot and I think you just helped yourself.. #1) check out her body language-not good;#2) may be this should be (1) when she talks of someone else you know you've lost.. retreat while you've still got your dignity..
kick her in her balls
U should take her at a place which she loves. Talk to her very nicely, in a good mood. And then be very frank and tell her whatever you observed, and ask her reason of her behavior, or any mistake that you have been done. If she will be true, she would for sure tell you everything she felt. This works. So, GOOD LUCK.
Some people laugh as more of a nervous habit than actually purposely laughing at something/someone.
You're the one who doesn't get hugged, because she wants to do more than hug you. You're special. She doesn't see you the way she sees her hug friends that she'll totally forget in a few years.
Ask her out on a date.
you sound like a good guy...
shes too conceited...
Its her loss...
I have a lot of friends with the same problem.
I am going to be honest, so im not trying to be mean but i know it's going to sound that way, so sorry ahead of time,
But you just have to find someone else...
Either she doesn't want to lead you on, or shes playing hard to get. You should have gone for the hard to get too, keep them guessing. My advice would be just to let it ride out, like, wait and see what happens, if she likes you then something will happen, thats just what happens when a guy and a grl like each other
When girls like a guy they will laugh at everything he says because she is trying to get on his good side ,but sometimes girls don't know what else to do,but laugh if they don't know what to say or are embarrassed etc. Also when she backs away to not give you a hug it just might be that she just doesn't feel comfortable giving you a hug quite then. It takes girls a pretty long time to warm up to someone if they are shy. Just give her, her space and go from there.
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