I need some Advice about this girl!!!HELP?

ok,, there was one girl in my swimming class, i catched her staring at me all the time, and she always smile to me and sometime try to swim close to me, and many times she try to touch me with her body.but she never talk to me. well i think she likes me too, but i just a ****** SHY boy, u know..i hate myself being like that. everytime when there is a pretty girl try to get close to me i feel very ****** nervouse and SHY. But i really really really want to start a Conversation with this girl in my swimming class, but i just so scare, i dont know why, i started to hate myself a lot becasue i will loose another chance if i still like that. i need some help to overcome my fear. can anyone tell me what to do, how can i build up my confident,





any girls here pleases tell me what was this girl in my swimiming class thinking about? does she like me?





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SOoOO ADORABLE! Say hi and start talking about swimming aske her how long has she been swimming for, how does she like it? Has she been to competitions. I mean you already have one concrete thing in common. You cannot mess it up. SHE LIKES YOU. Go up to her and ask if she would like to practice together or something. She's most likely just waiting for you to initiate. Please dont let her pass by. Tomorrow atleast say hi to her and smile. If you cant start a conversation atleast say hi...it's rare for ppl to neglect a hi. Just say hi as you are walking next to her.





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well step one you need to try to talk to her and i know this is hard i was like you once you cant just ask if she likes you you need to build a friendship just go up and talk to her man god has no pity for a coward and you will be stuck in this situation otherwise find a common ground that you can both speak about such as swimming and then after a little while ask her if she owuld like to hang out sometime out of swim class
i think she is totally into you. you need to talk to her and get to know her first. it doesnt have to be a relationship at first but instead a friendship. just go up to her and start talkin bout what your interested in or ask her questions. dont think of her as a girl but as another person. youll miss out on A LOT of opportunities in life if you keep it up. believe me it gets easier the more you do it.
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Don't swear around girls... sorry, i just noted that you did that. Girls are major flirts and we normally don't know when a guy's into us. Talk to her about her life- we love to talk about ourselves normally. Ask what kinds of music she likes and listen to that music. Now you have something to talk about with her! You shouldn't talk about swimming, since it could go nowhere whatsoever. I hope this helps, bud!
Yes :) she likes you! Next time she swims by you/touches you, tell her you like her bathing suit or something...but don't be creepy about it. Complementing is always a plus...Maybe after that just start of with a simple convo like the swimming class itself. Just be like...eh you like this class? IDK thats what I would do (as a shy person myself) to start talking to a guy.
first of all DONT SHOW OFF!! thats the last thing a girl wants! lol! ummmm try to just put urself out ther, trust me i kno its annoying wen ppls dont understand and just say ';get out ther'; but i used to be ultra shy too and ppl kept sayin s h i t like dat!! but really u just gotta get out ther and be urself! thats wat i like in a guy, hope i helped!
its simple, just start off asking for her name, ';what's ur name?'; she tells you, then be like, '; im ********* nice to meet you.'; after that your free to ask whatever. just start talking about things thats going on around you. no need to be shy. if she acts like she doesnt want to speak, dont give her the time and day.
okay im a gurl...i think...that gurl is either a whore or she likes u work up some courage and talk to her next time u see her...how old are u?... well yeah talk to her and get to know her if you like her and she likes you than there ya go hope this helps shy boii!!
i am a girl so i think i can help you.Ok soo if she smiles alot and stares at you then she probaly likes you.Has she ever flirted with you?The best thing to do is say hi and see where it takes you.Try making conversation.
well, i can't tell you that she likes you, but i do know that you'll never have a chance with her if you don't overcome your shyness. girls love it when you go out of your way to talk to her. :)
practice talking to other girls that you dont have an interest in a school you could do 20 a day or more girls you dont know girls you know whatever then youll feel better about striking a convo with the girl in question
That;s adorable shy guys are cuties. Yeah she likes you. Just be like '; you're a good swimmer.'; :)) you can;t mess it up with complimentss. :DD


Goood luckk Hunny.
i think you should say hey


and then she'll talk to you


she is probably shy as well





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You just need to overlook the fact of how beautiful she is and find out who she is on the inside.
Alright man, first. Next time she comes up to you and touches you, touch her back. And if she smiles let her take control and it'll be amazing form then on.
if she comes near you, say hi and ask her how is her day going. just strike up a simple conversation. and you'll get somewhere from there.
just start with a hello
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yeah, i think she does like you. go up and talk to her. and if your really shy, when you catch her looking at you, smile at her.


go up to her and say hi, from there the conversation will flow.


you could start a conversation about swimming maybe or something.


compliment her on something. she would really like that.





you could also ask an open- ended question. if you ask a question that just requires a yes or no the conversation wont flow and it will end quite fast.





act quickly when you see her looking at you. if you take too long you may start to loose your courage. don't think about what your going to say or what your going to do. that would really make you lose your courage faster.





if you stay shy you will miss some really good chances in life. :)





hope this helps you. good luck. :-D
you have nothing to lose by making a fool of yourself, if thats what you're afraid of then just go out on a limb and be yourself the worst that could happen is shes not into you but from her behavior i think shes into you just stop asking yourself what if i say something stupid , what would this world be if everybody was so serious all the time just play along with her and start some conversation , ask her what she likes to do , what her fav color is even if its monotonous and you really dont give a rats *** either way just keep the mouth moving, i used to be like this and i regret every moment of it ive missed out on some pretty good girls because of my awkwardness of myself





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okay. if your a shy guys, then just start out talking to her. Take a deep breath before approaching her. If you feel like you dont have any confidence, FAKE IT. soon enough, your brain will forget about the awkwardness and you will start to relax. try being her friend first. you dont necessarily need to be flirty right from the get go. just introduce yourself, it will open the door for future possibilities. Just have a general conversation:





Guy: Hey, i always see you here. You're a great swimmer. how long have you been swimming?





Girl: a couple months/years/etc.





Guy: Oh, really. thats cool. do you do any other sports (surf, play beach volleyball, etc)





just keep it casual, make sure you get her name so next time you see her you can say ';Hi'; to her and mention her name (eg. ';Hi Daisy';) She will feel more comfortable and that you actually listen and remember what she says (: