Need some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?

Well, I have met this girl at church and I really like her! The problem is This.... A) I'm 33 and she is probably about 23 max... I'm not sure. B) she is very shy %26amp; never carries a conversation. I'm kind of on the shy side too. She sits by her parents at church and it's hard to get her alone. Is it ok to ask her out for dinner or coffee? How do I do it? in the hall? when she is with her parents? When and how?





I don't want her to think that I'm just another guy on the prowl because she is pretty. I'm not looking for a quick relationship... just something to build a foundation on!





Additional facts:


It's a conservative baptist church


Her parents look like they are in their late 50's or early 60's


We are both in the same sunday school class, but rarely get to sit together.


I was baptized today, JUST saved, will she think me too spiritually immature?


BTW she has nothing to do with my relationship with Jesus... That is rock solid!!





Best answer 10 pointsNeed some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?
Don't hit on a woman at least 10 years younger than you, who goes to the same church you do. She sounds like she's just being polite. If you ask her out and she rejects you, you will still need to face her (and her parents) in church every week.Need some expert advice with this girl from church! !!!10 points?
Why not ask the father for permission to date her? I know that may sound a little scary, but that is the proper way to do things. You'll have to face him eventually so why not right from the get-go. If he's a Christian man he will appreciate your honor and respect and she should also. And no doubt God will bless you for your actions.
pay attention; you ARE too spiritually immature. I know you are probably at that stage where it feels like you are glow in the dark because you are so filled with the Holy Spirit, but you haven't matured in your faith enough yet. Don't do it yet. Relationships that are not CENTERED on God have no chance. You need to spend a lot more time growing in your faith yet. i'm sorry if that's not what you want to hear.
Speak with the father and invite them all to coffee; the conversation will be blessed as you are recently baptized..welcome to the Family of God :]
Ask to speak to her father. When you do ask him for permission to ask his daughter out for dinner. If he gives it, then ask her ;) Good luck!
hm... and u r 33 and you both are shy. read single and dating novels on yahoo answers. maybe u find ur answer there... maybe
Go for it [:
what makes you think a 23 year old girl would look at you?