Sunday, December 27, 2009

Help i need advice on this girl i will thank you?

She dated drug addict. Who will hit her, mistreat her, control her. Shes also tried the drugs before. Every time she brakes up he will come crying to her, and she will take him back.





I told her about my feelings and she flipped. Later she tells me ';i got feelings for you';. So we end up messing around, also she end up messing around with my cousin. Then she started playing games like not answer my txts and stuff which hurt me very bad.





For her birthday i sent her a gift card, and flowers and a card saying how much i cared for her.





For valentines day i sent her 2 dozens of roses, big balloons, teddy bear, and chocolates.





While he did'nt give her a squat at all.





Later she tells me she lost her virginity to the drugi. Which then i said forget this all of this is just stupid. I stop talking to her now, because all she is doing is hurting me. Now i changed my #, but she is still looking for me thru my moms cell but i em ignoring her,





Plus her sister is 17 and pregnant, and she is 15 and sneaks out every night to go sleep over at the drugis house.





Everybody told me they are sluts is this true?, and did i do the right thing?Help i need advice on this girl i will thank you?
Ya u r doing d right thing.Help i need advice on this girl i will thank you?
stay away from this girl shes a player and messed up this girl is not getting what she needs at home and she is just going to use you so its good that you ended this now most girls that sleep around have the need to feel loved and this guy she is with is no good like I said you were really super sweet to treat her really good like she should be treated but she turned her back on you and this is really sad
Hi brother dont ever regreat for doing this coz u have done a right thing.hope u r above 18 as u said the girl is just 15.In dis little age she has messed up her life y do u want her in ur life and end up ur life in a great mess.be happy and wait for the girl whom god has created only for u.
hate seeing people tagged by a name, move on from her and find someone else for you, yes, but don't trash her name just because it didn't work out the way you had hoped, remember you liked her for a reason once,
Your English is worse than 2nd grade, don't go out with someone as old as 15, go out with a retard.
Ignore her and go on with your life.
Do the thing that you feel right with. Its your life and I wish for the best.
You have done the right thing. This girl needs to get her life sorted out, and I think that it's best you don't get involved with that. If she really cared about you she wouldn't hurt you by going back with the druggie or by messing around with your cousin. She needs to learn that sleeping around and messing around with other people makes her look like a whore. She's hurt you, and you've responded by ignoring her, which is good. When she realizes that you are worth being with she will sort everything out and come back to you when she's ready to love you properly and kindly.
I think that you did the right thing of not talking to her anymore. I don't know if you should turn her in though since it sounds like she really does need the help for physical an mental therapy. If she's going to get with you then leave you for someone you're saving her from then you don't need that. She's probably trying to get a hold of you for either sympathy from you or because she feels guilty of what she did. If she said that she lost her virginity in a way like she was ashamed to tell you then maybe she does feel guilty. But if she said it in a way that she was proud of it then she most likely just used you.





I'm not too sure about the whole slut thing. People may or may not know what they are doing while on the drugs that they take so I cannot say. But other than that, you did the right thing. If you do decide to talk to her again then just say that you two can only be friends. Say that you want to help her because what she's doing isn't good for her, it isn't healthy and because most of all you care about her.








Hope all goes well for you :)

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