FEMALES NEED ADVICE. confused bouta girl?

she said she likes me and i told her that i like her. she told me last night she WANTS to b in a relationship but doesnt want to rush things. we both hangout almost everyday n wen we do its always fun cuz we flirt a lot. we talk almost every night till 3am. we have kissed b4 first time we kiseed i was bout 2 leave then she pulled me 4 another kiss. second was when sh was pretty drunk n we made out for 15 minutes. she told me that all her 3 ex bfs were all from this year! n i was shocked, but she said they were all a$$holes. why would she not jump into a relationship if we're almost perfect? is she jus being cautious n not b hurt emotionally or mebe shes second guessing me? is she keeping her eyes open 4 someone else? i kinda feel like shes playin me





lastly i kno that she has broken up w/ her last ex b/c of her last ex ex. mebe about 3x she tried breakin 2 get w/ him. iuno if i should continue 2 pursue herFEMALES NEED ADVICE. confused bouta girl?
Either one of two options..





She's either playing you and just wanting to just keep her options open. Judging that she's had 3 ex's, just in one year, kind of makes me think she's using you.





The second option is maybe she wasn't lying about her ex's being jerks and is really just afraid of being hurt again.





You should talk to her about it.. see if you can figure out why she's not okay with having a relationship right now. Don't rush her into anything, let her take her time if she needs it. If you really like her, she'll be worth the wait =)FEMALES NEED ADVICE. confused bouta girl?
Well if she doesn't want to rush it, then listen to her. If you rush it, she may end up breaking up with you like her last ex. If you truly want to be with her, you'll wait. Try to make sure she isn't playing you, but it doesn't sound like she is. Just try to go slow. Maybe you don't need to date yet but be there for each other. Let people know you are a ';thing';
same thing with me..


like you mentioned she has had her heart broken 3times.... it might b wonderfull with you guys now...but when it comes official things change to be more deeper and thats something shes afraid of, she doesnt want her heart broken by her best friend ....so she just might want u as a friend now..just give her time she'll come around, show her dat with you is different
she might be afraid that it'll end up like it did with her exes. just keep hanging out with her,%26amp;let her move at her own pace. if you do kiss again,%26amp;keep flirting,%26amp;she still doesnt ask you out after a few more weeks,talk to her about it. ask her if shes really into this.
i dont htink she is playing you. liek she said she has had 3 ex boyfriends this yr which means she doesnt wanna mess this one up and wants to take it slower. respect her and wait for her and wait till she is ready to be in a relationship.
okay well if i was you when she said i want to be in a relationship i would've asked her whats stopping us. I think it's kind of cutie how yall stay up all night on the phone that's real cutie.


And it's kind of clear that the reason she doesn't want to rush is because she's scarced of hurt break (that **** hurts like hell).


but you should read her if you think she doesn't need you in her like then leave or ask her if your a little to much for her right now. but you can some times tell what we are thinking.....