I NEED ADVICE WITH THIS GIRL ASAP.. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!?

We have talked on the phone every day/night for the past 3-4 months





but when I told her how I felt.. she told me cause this other guy said that he likes her, she doesn't like hurting or choosing, the drama cause she knows what it feels like to be hurt (she has been single for over a year now and her ex really hurt cuz he broke up with her for another girl and this new guy that told her he likes her, she use to like him but she said stuff like he turned into an ******* and its like he doesn't give up) .. basically she said that wants to cool things down (just end everything between me and this other guy) , I even said to her I know theres something there... Its not that I am not moving to fast or anything,When we talked about she did say she is confused and doesn't know she what wants.





we were talking and I said '; I should come visit you at work';... she said '; you could , but it would have to be on Sunday when I work in the morning cause it isn't early';... (every other time I said I should come see her at work she said no I don't like people visiting me at work.. this is the first time I asked her after I told her how I felt) was that an invite to ....yes visit me at work... I believe she does like me but doesn't want to hurt the other guy...taking things slow and waiting almost a month after we hang out a couple of more times to show her I am fun to be with and then tell her again...





From the day I told her how I feel she called me the next day and we talk everyday still...now she doesn't mind me visiting her at work..I am lost..Also before i told her how I felt, I was suppose to give her a bedtime story and we haven't found the the time to do so, but after I told her how I felt, I told her the bed time story has to do with her %26amp; I, and she still wants to hear it...(she knows its suppose to be a romantic bedtime story too)I NEED ADVICE WITH THIS GIRL ASAP.. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!?
well...she could like you that has maybe a 97% chance but that leaves a 3% chance that might mean she just needs a friend...i mean it really does sound like she likes you but just give it time...best of luck!





-JenaI NEED ADVICE WITH THIS GIRL ASAP.. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!?
It kinda sounds like she wants her cake and to eat it to. It might be that she likes the attention she gets from both you and the other guy and she doesn't want to give that up. Be wary because this situation is full of red-flags. She seems pretty ambiguous.
Look dude, i've been in the same kettle of fish


don't give up. if you really like her, i've made the mistake of letting the other guy win. show her she means alot to you.!


good luck
Take a slow advance on her and see where things go. Sounds like you got it all under control. Keep on trucking.
Dude, I dont really see your question, but I will say this, she obviously has chosen you so just go with the flow.
The best advice i have for you is don't give up. Keep trying!!! Hopefully she'll choose you! Good Luck!
she likes you alot...
YOU ANSWERED YO OWN QUESTION.. SHE LIKES YOU SHE JUST DOESNT WANT TO TAKE THINGS TOO FAST QUOTE ON EXACTLY WHAT YOU SAID ';I believe she does like me but doesn't want to hurt the other guy...taking things slow and waiting almost a month after we hang out a couple of more times to show her I am fun to be with and then tell her again...'; UN QUOTE THAT IS TRUE BE HAPPY SHE IS TALKING TO YOU MOST PEOPLE SHOVE THEM OFF WITH NO ATTENTION
just be there for her, she will figure out soon that your always gonna be there. and with her guy just leave him alone unless he does something to really hurt her. make her believe that you will do anything to make her happy and most of all dont give up on what you want loll
Quit wasting time, if you don't move in on her that other guy will, ask her out, take her on a nice date and see where the end of the night takes you, if your a nice guy you shouldn't be expecting anything at the end of the night but her company, go in for the kiss, if she pulls back ask her what the reason is, women are complex people, you think they want one thing but they might want the other, also from the sound of it it might be that your already in the friend zone, she might just be the kind of girl who needs that person to talk too, but you'll never know until she tells you how she feels about you, so make the move already and don't waste any more time. Women like a man that can take charge and explain how they feel, they don't like a floppy cock walking around that can't even explain himself in words
just give up dude. she's boinking the other guy, no doubt about that cause she used to like him... keep your options open, don't put your life on hold for one girl. i'm sure theres plenty of girls that would like to be more than a friend with a guy that would tell bedtime stories her at night.
Aw!


A bedtime story!


I'm happy for you, because she likes you (in my point of view)


she just wouldn't want to hurt the other guy. Specially since she called him an asshole to you, and now she's opening up to you, just the same way you've opened up to her.


I'd say she really likes you.


But don't ask her out until she confesses that she has feelings for you too.


Which will be soon, from all those hints shes leaving.


Once she replys after you tell her the bedtime story, that might be the time she's going to confess.


goodluck! :)