Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Need help/advice about a girl I like but am slowly unliking.?

Ok theres this girl that I finally met one day.We talked and texted and I have been seeing her every weekend since I met her at her job.We hung out once so far at the mall.I get mixed signals from her and I am very confused.She works goes to school and plays a sport and is busy most of the time.I usually call or text her sometimes I get a response right away sometimes the next day.She rarely calls or texts me but she has and at very random times.I made the mistake of telling her how I feel that I like her and she told me she doesnt really want a boyfriend cause of school etc. and she just didnt want one at the moment.So we still talked and I still saw her as friends.Couple weeks later she told me its also not that she doesnt want to date but she cant cause of her mom.When we hung out she was trying on dresses and had me stand next to the dressing room so I could see her in the diff dresses.one night when I saw her at work another guy was up there that she knew and she went to talk to him he was flirting and grabbing her in a playful way.I guess I got mad but I didnt act it but apparently it showed cause when she came back to me she said I looked pissed she said dont worry bout him hes just a friend that she knew since she was little.From the looks of him thats what it seemed although i got the feeling he liked her.when i see her she always stares while I talk one night she made squinting faces as she looked at me and said she was just messing.She always tilts my hat up i asked her why she keeps messing with my hat and she said so she could see my eyes.she always hits me in the shoulder or kicks me in a flirty way I guess.Well the other night i left flowers on her car and a card.But I got no response.So the next day I texted her and she said she told my friend to tell me thank you and it was beautiful.I asked her and she wanted to hang out again when shes not grounded and she said yeah.I really like this girl but I feel Im pushing to hard so I have decided to give her space i texted her good night the other night and she said the same I havnt contacted her since.Tonight will be 2 days.Should I wait for her to contact me or should I give in and contact her.I wanna kno if theres even something between us.If theres not I just wanna know too so I can move on.I think im slowly losing feelings for her cause idk if she does like me and is playing games like girls do when they ask there friends what to do.Thanks for help.Let me know what to do and your idea on wether or not she likes me or just wants to be friends.Need help/advice about a girl I like but am slowly unliking.?
I get the impression from your story that what she told you is true. She is most likely simply not allowed to date. She flirts because it is natural. She probably does not know how to handle this situation because she is not susposed to date. I would say limit your contact to her to casual. If through time (and this may be a long haul) it may lead to something more. For now pray and live your life concentrating on your future. If it is God's will it will happen just pray and ask Him. Give all concerns to God and He will direct your path.

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