I need advice with this girl I love her so much?

Okay well here it goes... We dated way back and broke up for three months and are now dating again.. her mom had passes away in november and she was really spacey with me. after a few weeks it coole ddown and i was just trying to make her happy all the time.. she enver told me she didnt want to be left alone.. but i just want to see her happy and i give her everythign she wants.. Whatever she wants to do or wants to get il drive her to go get it. I am teachign her how to drive. But thi spast weekend she ditched me to go over to this girls house. Who made me and my gf break up before. Then she tried to hook up with me. Well everytime shes around this B**** we fight. And somehow we break up well she is thinking bout it but i do anything for her under the moon and stars. and she treats me like dirt sometimes but theres time when she makes everything so work it I dont know how to act towards her when shes with her bc all i think bout is loosing her and the girl is a hoe. i dnt lke itI need advice with this girl I love her so much?
well the girl is her friend and you need to understand that just tell her your feelings.I need advice with this girl I love her so much?
It does become a conflict when best friends do not allow space when two are in a relationship. Especially best friends influence so much on a person sometimes even more than a boyfriend when it comes to girls. The best thing to do is set it straight with your gf and tell her that her bf needs to respect your relationship and let your gf know to also know that her bf should be major priority.
your a mat!!! so let the next girl wipe her feet on you!! and hey get a life
Simply dont hang out with the friend that you dislike. go out with other friends instead or chill at home. Its good for couples to have time away from each other.





It seems your angry about what the friend did before but that anger of yours is the problem that will cause the split so get rid of it. Try give the evil friend another chance so then you wont be angry and your girl will admire you.





Tell your girl that this is what you plan on doing but ask her to do somthing for you - ask her to not allow the evil friend to talk bad about you behind your back because its not fair to do that to any one espicially you coz you are your girls much loved BF. i cant imagine your woman enjoying listening to her friend slating some one she loves any way unless she is a total head case. Tell your lady that you wont talk about the evil friend either. Fair is Fair.





If the evil one does come up in conversation you must handle things carfull so you dont get angry. Your anger will make your girl angry which is a fight which is a break up.





If your girl starts the anger... STOP Just say calmly; Babe you sound like your getting angry, do i really deserve this? she may answer yes or no, if its yes then just quietly leave saying to contact ya when she is more chilled. you'll feel alot better for it and you will have orevented an argument
For one thing, you can't make a person who's grieving happy. Give that up right now. You're efforts are only a turn-off because I'll bet you money she sees all of that as you pressuring her to be happy and she's not going to be for awhile.


As far as this hoe she hangs out with, she either has an abnormal amount of control over your gf or your gf is getting support and encouragement from her about already existing feelings about you. Either situation is toxic for you and there's not much you can do about it. To ask her to quit hanging out with her is impossible and she'll resent it, so I'd say take another break from her. YOU initiate it this time. Tell her you'll be there if she wants to talk, but since her life is in upheaval, you want to give her time to sort it out.
tel her friend to stay out of your relationship if you think shes effecting it. Tell your gf that if she ever has anything on her mind she can always talk to u no matter what
have you privately talked about your situation and how you feel with your girlfriend. I mean this 3rd party sounds like she is coming between you because of jealousy and people who are jealous love to bring down people on thier low pathetic level. so talk to her and tell her how you feel and if she dosent try and compromise with you then give her some space to think about what she is missing without you. I mean it may be hard but I`ve been there and if she cares about you she`ll do something about it. It dosent sound like shes such a good girlfriend in the first place if she lets her friends come between you and her.
She obviously admires and is influenced by this girl. Play nice with the girls freind. Give your love an over abundance of space, and go about your business. If her feelings for you are significant than nobody could tear her away from you. If they arent that strong than she wasn't the love of your life. If you say negative things about her freind to her than you WILL turn her off. If you smother her, she will run no matter what. Just leave her be. If I lost my mother I would be down and out for a few years at least. Good luck.
welll my bro! think about it, if the other girl has already!! tryed to break you two up in the psat then get with you then it just shows how shallow she is! the less relevence youu show to her exisitence on the face of this earth the more she will try to break you two up! some people are just too jelous to see others have what they can't. Just be patient and give your girl space, sit down and talk to her on a level! most girls have that friends come before boys policy! but if you show her that you are really concerned and ask her what she thinks about it then am sure you can come to and agreement :) she might even explain the reasons why the girl dislikes you, and you can fix up! but know that communitcation is the only way your ever going to find out! so talk to her as a human, as the love of your life, and show her how much she means to you!! ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS! good luck x
Talk to her seriously, without fighting. Keep your voice calm, but make sure she knows you are serious and that you are telling her because you care for her deeply.


If she is as great as you think she is, she will understand.





If this continues and you fight too often, you may have to break away. I know that's hard to do, but believe me, being free from all the upsetting things that happen between you two will be good for you.





Good luck and best wishes.
Maybe you should redirect your efforts to a diff. girl?