I NEED advice from Truthful GIRL !!!!!?

Listen to my story, I work at a gym and I met this girl. I have known her for about half a year. Every time I see her, we talk and we flirt. This happens every time I see her. When I see her, I always give her hug or get into little playful fights. She seems to love the attention I give her, because she always giggles, when I tickle her or when I am playing around. Every day when I come home from work, very same day we talk on msn all night(hour). Plus, every time I talk to her, I make it pretty obvious that I have a thing for her. I always rub my foot on her foot and etc….


So I eventually got the courage to ask her out. I was talking to her on msn like usually, and slowly got to the topic of me taking her out. She said “NO” too me, and I was kind of in shock. She didn’t say why, but she carried on with different topics. First time I ask her out that day, she pause and carried on with different topic. Second time ask her out that night, she avoiding my answer. So finally, I said, in nice gesture “Guess you are busy” and then she finally said “I am sick, don’t want to go out” and she went “lol and ask me “how it felt to be rejected.” Now I am just kind of heartbroken now. I know she doesn’t have boyfriend. I really like this girl. Does she really like me, or she playing hard to get? Was it the fact that I ask her out on msn? Do I even have shot with this girl? I am sooo confuse!I NEED advice from Truthful GIRL !!!!!?
She is either playing hard to get or just wants to be friends. Talk to her.I NEED advice from Truthful GIRL !!!!!?
trust me...shes just not that into you


some girls just like the attentions from guys...they will flirt with you


but that doesn't mean they will go out with you...





or she also may have just been extra friendly





if a girl really liked you...she wouldn't play hard to get...she wouldn't take the chance of loosing you..





sorry ..but don't waste your time...just move on
ouch! thats harsh. she doesnt care about you shes stringing you along. she seems to be one of those girls who likes attention but not settling down. she is a flirt and wants everyones attention. dont trust her
It doesnt really hit me, but you should try flirting with another girl to see if she does like you or not.


if she keeps staring, when you and the other girl are talking then she does.
yeah i think she likes u..but she needs assurance u r not just flirting..take care of herr make her feel special definetly she will come out with you...good luck
my opinion that you are just friends nothing more and she doesn't any thing more
Pass her by! If she is good enought to flirt with but,not to date. Sure she lkes all the attention.but she is leading you on.She is teasing you.could be she is trying to get some ones attention and she want to look hot and a player.Look around and see who is watching. Could be another female. Dump her now. Show no intrest.It makes you more desireable.Do not be avaible to her for talking.tell her you have a date. That will get her.
Think about how she feels. She may have recently broken up with a boyfriend and doesn't want to rush into another relationship. Have you tried asking her out in person? she may feel differently in a couple of months. Think of the possibilities of why she is avoiding your answer:


family problems


recent break up


friend problems





The other possibility is that she just wants to be friends and nothing more, on the other hand she might be playing with you and winding you around her little finger. Confront her and ask what her problem is. If she isn't the type of girl who likes to be confronted, don't do it.


Good Luck x
Ok I'm going to be truthful...she may just like the attention. I know quite a few of my good girl friends are that way (I'm a girl too, but I just don't play that way...it's quite frankly immature).





Some girls just like the attention they continuously get because it makes them feel better. She may just see you as a good friend and doesnt want to ruin the friendship you guys have going on.





BUT You can always try asking her out face to face. That way you'll at least be able to see the reaction on her face. Asking people out/talking in general thru MSN or AIM or whatever never gives you an idea what the person is really feeling.





Hope this helps! And don't be heartbroken for too long!