so here is the deal. There is this girl I work with at this job I started three weeks ago. At first I assumed she was gay just because of the way she dressed and what not. When we first worked together she never really said much about it other than leaving little hints. Then then next time I worked with her she flat out said it. I didnt really say much because i didnt want other coworkers to hear. So she didnt know i was gay too. Like the entire day she was like making a lot of jokes and kidding around with me. When I got off work she went on her lunch break and was in the back where I had to get my coat. While I was getting my things I told her that I was very gay haha. She asked how gay that was and I said one hundred percent. Then she she went further on to ask if I was a ';gold star'; (for everyone who knows what I'm talking about). I told her yes. The she commented on something about how's she's never had a goldstsr before and all I did was chuckle and say bye and left it at that. What should I do the next time we work together/ how should I act. Also, I'm not even sure if this chick is into me at all how can I tell. And I'm pretty sure she doesn't have a gf because she doesn't really talk about anyone but something was mentioned about going on a date with someone but it not ending well. So I would suppose she's just dating around?Advice about this girl...?
She was basically flirting with you. I think in normal circumstances she wouldn't come out and say she was gay, unless she was trying to leave it open in case you were interested - so you knew she was a lesbian as well.
It pretty much seems like she's interested, but the real question is are you interested in her? Figure that out before you lead her on and hurt her feelings.
I'm a goldstar, too. Not that that matters anyway.Advice about this girl...?
It seems the only question you didn't address is this:
How do *you* feel about her? if you like her, let it fly and try it. If you don't, she should catch on. Don't dig too deeply we always do that. let her spell it out since she's open enough to tell you first thing when she works with you.
If you like her, then ask her out but beware of office affairs--they usually do not end well. But yeah, she totally digs you.
Tell that slag that if she's f*cking with you, you'll f*ck her sh*t up and she'll god damn regret it! Then she'll know that you're not someone to jerk around.
Voodoo.
If you want her to ask you out, just act normal or show an interest in her. I would recommend simply asking her out. The worst thing that could happen is she'd say no.
Sounds like she's into you. Go for it.
do the stanky legg
Well if she says ';I've never had a gold star before'; then that means ';I want you';. How long have you been a lesbian? I know it's hard to tell when someone is flirting with you because you don't want to get your hopes up, but she definitely is. If you're going to be a lesbian, you have to learn to listen to what they're saying BETWEEN their words. Don't take everything this girl says at face value. Most of what she says will probably mean something else. This is an effective tool for talking about your homosexuality in front of straight people. They think you're having an innocent conversation when you're really talking about dating and sex. It's a lesbian defense mechanism. Lol. Anyway, long story short, go for it! She likes you.
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