Need some advice on this girl? Females please?

There is this girl I really used to like but her mixed signals really confused me...





Its been about 13 months since i've known her and things start getting good between us and stuff and I just back off a bit not to seem desperate or needy and its like she completely backs off. Like she stops talking to me doesnt call or anything. Then I keep thinking she doesn't care or she would have contacted me so I just leave it but eventually contact her again weeks later and she acts weird and gives one word answers and then its like i have to break her out of her shell all over again and things get good again and I just back off a little to see if she would get back to me and same thing again.. its happened 3 times already and yeah I've basically given up with her but I just want to know why she does this...Need some advice on this girl? Females please?
she probably just forgets about you for a while and wonders why your talking to her again.


Everytime you talk to her she is being reminded how much you guys click.


Sometimes you just need a good topic to get a good conversation going.Need some advice on this girl? Females please?
well its been long enough shes prolly wondering if your


even interested.That is if u still are or not.


you need to make your move and soon.





if you keep playing this like a game to see who talks


first then its always going to be weird.


her confidence is probably shot.





try to keep contact between you to as often as possible.


shes probably really shy,


I know, i'm this way too sometimes.





so just keep trying and see where it goes maybe even ask her why she does what she does. that's an easier way to get your answers.


good luck hope i helped a little.


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Stop backing off all the time, this is frustrating! And if it keeps going good it's meant to be, your not desperate you already proven your point but if you keep this up you will be.
i think she has any relation with someone or any family problems orsomething is there she dose not like u or your habbits or your family 0r ur status ,like.
if you like her, let her KNOW! the way you are acting so she doesn't think you're desperate or needy, well that's probably exactly what she is doing too when you stop talking to her. you better stop that now or else you're gonna lose this girl for good. i know i won't wait around for a guy if he doesn't show me he's really into me..someone else will come a long and show me they care and then the last guy is a goner
If you like her.. ask her out and break the awkwardness!





You have to get past the wall of silence, etc..





Yo obviously like eachother. I deliberately ignore the guy i like sometimes, i don't want to or mean to, i just do. It's like force of habit. It's so weird.





So she likes you .. you know it!
Maybe she doesn't want to seem desperate, but probably she needs you to get really close to her and ask her why communication is the source of all relationships. You need to talk! Maybe shes your soulmate, its not bad to get to know someone
stop backing off!!!! i do that to this guy taht used to tok ot me...and now i dont give a sh** about him
wow it almost seems like i am her. this is going on with me and I am in 8th grade. What i do is try to start stupid conversations and then just call. It is way better then text
It seems that when you start to get close and things are going good, you back off. Are you afraid to commit more? Seems like a yo-yo. She is probably as confused as you are and unsure what your intentions are and doesn't understand why you back off when things are going so well. Maybe you should consider stop with backing off so much. Girls don't understand somethings when we aren't to sure why it is happening. Let it go on. Don't back off... That show's or well would to me that you are afraid and scared to go past that. Just let it flow naturally and you will probably get farther then you are now.


Good luck.
don't give up on her... sounds like she has some shyness issues. She wants you to make all the moves because either she's too scared or doesn''t know how to say or do what she's feeling. I'm like this too, so i know. If you are still interested, just don't worry about seeming needy, because chances are, she would like that. She would feel needed, and open up more most likely
Sounds like a Grade-A commitment problem.





Listen to my words very carefully: You have to leave her alone.





I'm serious. You excuses are irrelevant, because trust me- she does not want to be contacted, otherwise she would have done something about it.





You have two choices right now, and neither of them look very pretty. You can either give her plenty of space and don't contact her [under any conditions. Nothing. Nada. I know it's difficult. I know it is. But you have to try. Don't let yourself make up any excuses], or you can just talk to her about it. Straight out. Don't even cushion it. Just get the point out there and see how she responds. Tell her that you want honesty, and if she doesn't want the same things you do, then you ultimately have your answer and she has hers.





Good luck. =]
i have the same problem except it is the opposite for me I think you need to tell the girl how you really feel about her and just be strong because there is always the possibility of rejection..