I need advice with this girl!!!?

i was taking to this girl for awhile,she is single and so am i she was dating this other guy but i kept fighting 4 her we went out again after i saw her with the other guy she was with.. we met at a bar and started talking at the end of the night we were flirting and kissing i like her and she likes me. she said that it was just bad timeing.she said we should just be better as friends but that she still liked me and that we should still hangout.i told her that we should be friends that i rather have her as a friend then not have her at all!! and she got really happy..i mean do you think that i still have a shot with her and is that good that she said we should be friends and still hangout??? i really need some advice i really like herI need advice with this girl!!!?
If you like her chill with her. Maybe it will happen when the time is better.I need advice with this girl!!!?
it sounds like you like her and she likes you :)


u just need to ask her where you stand in the situation weather she would like to go out with you or its jsut not going to happen at all any time soon.


i know what its like to be in that situation and it makes you feel uncomftabe sometimes for the girl so just re assure her and make her feel like she is the only 1 in the world that matters and shell realise how much you mean to her x:)
Yes you do but you have to play it smart...Be there for her when the other guy hurts her and and just comfort her and try to be as close as you can with her and when you see the opening then take it..But dont get to close to the point where she considers you like a brother or anything...just close enough to where you know whats going on with her and you can be there..Good luck make it happend!
be her friend.... because when she breaks up with the other dude she's going to need a shoulder to cry on, you'll be there for her. when she talks it out, you'll be there for her. HE WONT ... she'll realize she liked you all along, but was just scared to admit it because she was seeing someone else. hang in there. here heart will go down the right path soon enough
I am a girl and I can't do anything until I have complete trust in the other. Wait until she feel 100% comfortable with you. Since she already likes you, you can still flirt and when she feels comfortable you'll know. Don't worry she likes you but she's not ready.
try going out with some other girll.... girls sometimes dont care for the guy until they see them with somebody.... and since she is dating she si thinking she can have you whenever she wants and still have a bf.. dont be use and if she dont care that you are dating then just be friends and move on...
You're in the friend zone. You have zero chance with this girl now. You should have said ';it's either him or me';, and if she chose him you should have just walked away and found another girl.
Go to a bar or restaurant with her again. Slip some strong sedatives that dissolve well into her drink. Then go to town on her unconscious body. Giggidy.
When you said you'd rather be friends than nothing, she put you in the friend-zone. You'll never have a chance with her now =/





Just get her drunk or something then **** her in the *** :)
make it or break it


cause the girl won't take baby!





aka.. just tell her straight out that you really really like her and you want to go out. ta da. no more friend zone. :D
hmmm... friends with benefits? hahaha! i'm just kidding man... yeah i think you still have a shot with her... just wait... everything will work out fine eventually..
sorry, but, you need to put some more dots into this thing. i can barely understand what you are saying.
Give her some more time
Wait and see. I think its a 50/50
try to hang out with her,
maybe if you tell her how you really feel...she will give you a chance
o.k. so if you're old enough to be at a bar then I'm gonna lay out the way a girl / women thinks at the age of 21+ when it comes to men and whether they're ';boyfriend / husband'; material.





1. Does he have job?


2. Is his job stable and can he grow with the job to be able to support a family in the future?


3. (if you're still in college) what sort of major is he's going for and will it be able to ';provide'; for a family in the future?


4. Does he have his own apt / house or still living at home with mommy?


5. Does he have a good personality


5. Is he attractive





All of these are in that order. Women are more interested in whether you can possibly, in the future, support a family. Seriously, i'm not kidding. If she has placed you in the ';friend'; category it's either b/c...she doesn't think you're stable, financially, right now to be a good candidate for a boyfriend then husband down the road. She probably finds you attractive hence the making out, but she feels that maybe you're just a bit on the immature side as in not ready for a serious relationship that will end in marriage. So what she's doing is keeping you around with the ';friends'; ploy to see if eventually you'll start to be shape into more serious boyfriend material. and if you decide to stay stagnant and not move forward with a career and being financial stable...well no harm done to her b/c you two were ';just friends';.





Welcome to the adult world kid. Basically, you're a back up plan.
How long is her other relationship ago?





Well it was like this by me, I had a long term relationship and then I met this guy I really liked but I didn't want a new relationship because the wound from the old relationship was still fresh and you still have strong feelings for the other person even if you broke up. And depending how she broke up and could still hurt her much..





Anyways if she wants to be friends, just be there for her, talk to her, ask her what's bothering her and maybe she'll fall in deep love with you, and maybe you'll be the healer for the old wound and you'll be her nr 1 prince :)