Advice on a Girl Situation? Please Help Me!?

I have liked this girl for about three years. Within the last year we have become very good friends and a this point i am probably her best guy friend. We are at the point in our friendship were she feels like she can tell me anything. When we aren't talking i'm thinking about her. The problem is she likes another guy. This is will be the third guy i have seen her like in the last 7 months, and everyone of them i told her i didn't think was right for her for various reasons and none of the relationships lasted more than a month. whenever she was in a relationship i was always the one she talked to and complained about the guy. I always am there for her when she needs a ride or just needs a shoulder to lean on. I dont spend five minutes without thinking about her, and not a day goes buy when we don't talk. I can't sit buy any longer and watch her go out with another loser. What should i do. I want her to know how i feel but i don't want to ruin our friendship.Advice on a Girl Situation? Please Help Me!?
You gotta tell her how you feel man. Maybe shes feels she same way but be careful about how you do it, you dont wanna ruin the friendship!Advice on a Girl Situation? Please Help Me!?
Basically, you're in too deep, sorry. I've learned that if you like a girl, you let her know how you feel immediately. If she just wants to be friends, or at least that's her reason for rejecting you, then cut it off. Being around that person as a friend will only increase your attraction to her and cause emotional turmoil for yourself.





You want her as more than a friend, so let her know. Tell her, ';I can't hide my feelings anymore, I really like you.'; If she likes you, then GREAT, I congratulate you. If not, then move on, because it's obviously killing you now that she's ';just a friend,'; why prolong the suffering? The most spineless thing to do would be to just hold in your feelings and continue being her friend, because you're afraid that she might reject you and make the friendship awkward, and that there could always be the wishful thinking that won't extinguished by a solid rejection. Don't do that, please, you deserve what your heart desires, or at least, an answer for closure so you can start getting over it.





I sincerely wish you the best of luck, because I've been there. It killed me every second of being with her knowing that being friends is as close as we'll ever become. You will either become the happiest man you know or you will be extremely hurt and disappointed; that's part of life and you will get over it, however hard it might be.