Friday, April 30, 2010

PLEASE HELP!!! I need Advice about a girl.?

ok. So there is this girl i really really really like.





She is 15 and can't go out with anyone til she is 16. We have been good friends for years. She is not a girly-girl.





She always claims she doesn't like anyone at all. Do you really think that is possible?


She's one of my best friends. so if you have ever had an experience Dating a good friend, will you tell me how it ultimatly turned out?


I know it can be a risk do date a good friend, but i think it would be worth it...i just need a second (or a lot) opinion.





Thanks


-hoot-PLEASE HELP!!! I need Advice about a girl.?
I would just not ';go out'; with her...go on some dates and have fun with her but dont treat it like you are going out...also you will know pretty fast if she likes you back and if she doesn't than friends is the best thing that you could be

Do you have any advice for the girl in this love letter?

I鈥檓 hurting; trying to fix my broken heart and move on to go back to being jus friends and jus forget bout how thing were, how truly happy I was with him mostly how I took him for granted but Its like a puzzle of 01042007 pieces and I haven鈥檛 found any pieces that goes together [and yes that鈥檚 our anniversary]. You see I love him so much and no one else nearly as much. And I was so scare of that feeling. I felt like at even given moment he was going to pull the carpet from under me so I kept blocking him out, constantly accusing him of doing me wrong. When the only person doing wrong was me, and that was not trusting him with my heart. One day I realize my mistake and how much I really loved him I never felt love like this so strong so I needed to confess to him. Only I didn鈥檛 know where to start and when I did things came out soo0 wrong thus resulted in him breaking up with me. Seeing him now is like a slap in my face. For being so insecure with our relationship. I wish he would give me a second change. I just want to be in his arms again knowing I am his and Do you have any advice for the girl in this love letter?
Wow, how deep is this? Very, very thoughtful. Tell the girl to check her spelling. Then tell her to tell the guy she loves him. Before its' too late. Otherwise, she may regret it for the rest of her life. She'll always wonder what if? She has to learn to trust him, and others. Do you have any advice for the girl in this love letter?
I'm sorry he said no, but if it's meant to be I hope it happens for you. You should think about focusing on writing as a career. Really great letter. Good luck to you, okay?

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Read the book or watch the seminar ';Love %26amp; Respect'; . The DVD seminar is funny and enlightening...it says that it is for married folks but it is helpful for anybody. :)





http://www.loveandrespect.com/





I think you will find some tips on how to woe him back to you.
Write him a letter. you can express yourself that way. Reread it the next day to make sure it comes right.
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  • Weird Breakup. Need some advice. Is this girl just unsure or what? Help?

    Me and this girl are dating for 3 months. All of a sudden she says that she feels its not going anywhere. BUT she calls me and texts me like we are still dating. Today she texts me twice and calls me and I didn’t respond until an hour later and she thinks I am ignoring her. Is this a game???? I really like her and i felt we really never got to know eachother well enough. We clicked very very well. Had sex 2 times and enjoyed each other company. Anyone have any life experiences to share etc.. I am 30 she 26. Any advice or anything .. PLEASE. Could she just be thinking of still being with me as a boyfriend? Read latest detail below.Weird Breakup. Need some advice. Is this girl just unsure or what? Help?
    Okay, to everyone that says she is young and is scared to commit because she is so young, SHE IS 26!! the national average age for women getting married is 25! She is not too young, I am 26 (almost 27) and I have been married for almost 7 years! My hubby and I went through 3 years of college together and both graduated (debt free) and now have 3 kids, a house that we built together, and both vehicles are paid for, SHE IS NOT TOO YOUNG!





    That being said, she could still be nervous, not because of age but because she might be falling in love and be nervous, it is a big commitment. I broke up with my husband after he bought my ring, but before he proposed, I was scared, (and I actually was young, only 19 at the time) but then I just missed him so terribly, we weren't officially together, but we spent all our time together, still kissed (we waited till marriage for sex), eventually I realized that I really was in love with him, being with him brought me more happiness than anything else in my life, so once I got my anxiety and fear under control we got engaged and married. I am so glad he waited for me to figure out my feelings, he is amazing and I fall deeper in love with him everyday, in fact I still get butterflies when he kisses me, and its bee 7 years!!!Weird Breakup. Need some advice. Is this girl just unsure or what? Help?
    Well, i think she wants to drive you crazy and she is getting what she wants.Well , i think she needs your attetion, maybe you are not giving her enough.Sometimes she wants you and sometimes she thinks she deserve more.Are you giving attetion enough???
    Are you sure you were not the rebound guy, and now you are the back up guy.................she is young and probably does not want anything serious. If you really think you guys can have something and ya really like her, have a serious conversation about this with her. Good Luck
    Okay man. She's insecure. You can 't fix that. She would have to. Dump her and move on. Three months is nothing. Date more than one girl, too. Keep your options open.
    Take the cues from her actions not from her words...and just enjoy the time if this is what you want...try again to make love to her and you'll see...
    she just wants to mess with others guys, and then when u find out about it, she can say, ';were not together'; u know like a duh!
    confront her and ask her.


    if it seems she just wants to flirt so be it - move on





    otherwise get bak together.
    She's still dating you. Don't worry about it.
    wtf??? how many times r u gna post this? isnt 152 times enuf??
    Don't be confused - she's just playing you - using you for companionship until she gets what she wants from the other guy in her life - because there is one. Every time you speak/ text her just keep repeating these words to yourself: she just wants to be friends. In fact, it's great that you're trying not to be available to her every whim.





    Don't play into her silly games - you are too grown for this - get what you can while you can, but don't delude yourself until she says otherwise. In the meantime, find someone else to occupy your time so you'll stop obsessing about this chick.
    This is a girl who wants her cake and to eat it too. She's got you on her string. If she doesn't have a guy on her role call for the day...you're the one she runs to.


    If she holds the trump card and can wheel you in when her dance list is empty for the day...you're a sucker.


    It's time to wake up...she's calling the shots. If she wants friendship...only offer that. Don't be so available.


    Her manipulation will only end up hurting you.


    Cut the cord and move on.


    Let her know that she was the one that said she only wanted to be friends. That was so she could play the field with others. And when there are no others...you are the fish she keeps on the line.


    If you're a fisher man you know what eventually happens to the fish we've got hanging on the line...they die...we cook them and eat them...then their gone.


    So don't be the fish on her line.


    She called the shots...she only wants to be friends. Friends don't have sex.


    So move on.


    Find a girl that is going to treat you much nicer.


    Make something better of yourself.


    Show you feel good about yourself and don't be there to answer the phone...when she asks why you didn't...it's really none of her business. You're not her boyfriend and don't have to tell her.


    Control your own life and don't let her.
    She sounds scared!!!!





    She's unsure of what she wants? If you confront her you'll loose her. If you ignore her you'll loose her. Your in a no win situation.





    Dont wait for her decision - make your own mind up?! DO you want her, is she the right girl for you? Once you've decided you'll be stronger and she will see that and then you will know if your on or off....





    BUT!!! Dont let her walk all over you!





    Good luck - keep us posted.x
    let me tell you mr. she is playing you.......


    and ima tell you what you do...... have fun and do what you want because she said LETS BE FRIENDS NOT YOU....... so if she gets mad at you for not doing the boyfriend thing then thats her problem........if she cant handle that then ignore her and maybe JUST MAYBE she'll realize waht a goog person she missed out on because tell her you reserve those special treatments to people that you want to be commited to ok.
    i went through the same SHTTTTT and i'm going through it now but she says she loves me, yo i dont care im just doing what i have to do. just be careful when she all of sudden stops calling you then you will be the sad one.





    BEST THING TO DO IS IGNORE HER AND STILL GET SOME LOVING...
    Wow coming from a girl, I would forget her and move on. She is just playing you. I use to do it myself trust me. She is not right for you, if she is having sex with you with no romantic connection then obviously you can answer your own question. She is pulling you around like a dog on a leash. Keep ignoring her and maybe she will realize what a jerk she is being. Don't be there for her and maybe she will want you back. Its then up to you if you want to take her back. If she wants to act like you are still dating, tell her you don't think thats best right now, and you would like to get to know eachother. You are not her puppy.





    hope this helps.
    i think after 3 months she has figured out you are not ';the one';. now, it sounds like she is just calling and texting out of habit. i think you should tell her its fine to be friends but maybe you shouldn't talk every day and text every day and speak before bed every night bc she is sending you mixed signals. she is saying you shouldn't be together but totally acting the same as if you were.
    Maybe she does still like yooh but at times she has doubts about it and so she tells you that yooh that you two are just friends. maybe shes just telling you that you guys are just friends because she is trying to convince herself that thats all she wants.... On the other hand she might be playing to see how long she can keep you wanting her like playing hard to get only shes gone to the extreme... I think you should talk to her let her know that you think you two are still acting like a couple and prove it show her that you do and then you can sort it out. Hope i helped.
    My girlfriend of one year is doing the exact same thing. She is saying that she wants to slow things down, cant be in a relationship and yet still live together and kiss and basically date each other, movies, dinner... As long as she doesnt want to see other people i guess you are dating. My girfriend is 26 and i am 30 as well. Sometimes I think that she feels she is too young to make such a commitment to someone. Probably the same with your girl.

    Can someone give me advice about a girl i have a cursh on? im bisexual.?

    ok, theres this girl in my school, shes a junior. im a freshman. i like her, shes been on my mind like 3 days str8 already. i think shes 16 or 17 im not sure. shes 5'7 something like dat, black long hair bangs always in a pony tail. well i like her!! and i dont know what to do, im pretty sure shes a lesbian bc she kinda tlks like a guy n well yeahh i think she is, the other day she had her arm around me telling a couple people i was her new gf.... does that mean she would date me? bc who would tell sum1 sum1 is their gf when theyre uglly lol so that means she thinks im kinda cute...? rii? well gosh. idk how to approuch her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?can someone hellp me? im 5'3 but ive dated ppl who r 5'8 besides height doesnt matter! just someone help me!!!!!! please...Can someone give me advice about a girl i have a cursh on? im bisexual.?
    I'm not sure what a ';cursh'; is.Can someone give me advice about a girl i have a cursh on? im bisexual.?
    You definitively are her gf then so act as such, kiss her and hold her hand obviously she's into you.
    Just go for it. The age/grade thing might seem a little weird at first...I felt the same way. Now I'm with my girlfriend of 9 months...I just graduated this year and she's a sophmore
    Jane...just ask her out, and see what happens. Who knows? You might just both end up in the throes of ecstasy!

    Tuesday, April 27, 2010

    Advice please for a serious broken girl?

    My husband left me when I told him I was pregnant... what is really weird about this is that we were planning this pregnancy for over a year! We actually conceived on our first wedding anniversary!





    For the last year he has been calling out ';ou est Aiden?'; when he comes in the door... just to leave?





    He is Arabic and threatening to kill me because he says I am a salope who slept with other men... this is complete nonsense and a lie.





    Why would he insist on hurting me?


    Why does he say my child will be a bastard when it is his fault if the child has not father?





    What can I do?


    He also was violent with me when I told him I was pregnant... and he left without leaving me medical rights, money, passport etc.





    He ****** me good!


    And I am sick sick sick... but I cannot go to the doctor because he isn't with me and he has the cards! I have no money and he has left me to die.





    What could I say?


    What would you do?





    Thanks... sorry for the dramaAdvice please for a serious broken girl?
    But yet you have a computer and can post on yahoo answers.Advice please for a serious broken girl?
    U SHOULD LEAVE HIM ALONE AND DONT MESS WITH HIM TALK TO PEOPLE AND ASK THEM WHERE YOU CAN GO FOR ASSISTANCE
    Are you Arbic also? if not then you shoulda done your research on how Arbic culutre are like, they tend to be more aggressive when it comes to situation like yours. There's nothing you can do except try to stay away from you and get a order against him because he threaten to kill you(that's pre-meditated murder).
    Sorry about your situation but honestly that was a good thing he left. It sounds to me like this man is an a**. I know this is easier said than done, but dont be sad. It is a good thing he left because you dont want to be exposed to that and I am sure you wouldnt want your baby exposed to that type of behavior either.





    Are you in the states? If so, go to Planned Parenthood.





    Good Luck!
    Oh My God!!!! If you leave to go find some kind of protection such as a shelter for battered women will he find you? There has got to be some kind of protection for people in your situation. You need to get medical attention right away, don't just sit at home and wait for him to come and go when he pleases. My prayers will be with you.
    I would call the bank and report all of my cards stolen. I would call his parents and tell them what is going on. If your name is on the bank accounts, trapse your happy hind end to the bank and empty the accounts. MOVE OUT, MOVE ON. You will be ok. Call a crisis shelter if all else fails. You have a few months that will fly by to make a life for your child. File for divorce if you have to but you need to do what you need to do for you and your baby.

    I Need advice on choosing a girl??

    i like this girl who i knew since we were young and were best friends now. ive always liked this girl and she liked me also. but now i see this new girl and i like her and she likes me but idk which girl i should get with.....need advise which girl do you think is better for me their both funny and cute with great personalities and they like 2 hang out and have fun (der basically like sisters who never knew each other) its a hard decision for me cuz im attrated to both of demI Need advice on choosing a girl??
    seriously, i dont think u should ask other ppl, u need to ask urself... none of us know either of these girls and which pick is best,


    u know them and i think its u who has to make the decision,





    but pick only one, if u really do like both these girls, u wont see both of them, and hurt them


    b fair find the one who suits u best


    all the best :)I Need advice on choosing a girl??
    If you and your best friend have known about your love for one another and done nothing about it in all this time you should go for the new girl. It sounds harsh, but if you two have been together that long and nothing has happened then chances are that when things finally do happen it's going to be an awkward brother/sister type relationship as opposed to something new and exciting.


    However, if you and the girl you've been friends with for a long time recently both discovered your love for each other (ie. you didn't know that you liked each other until now) then she's probably the one to go for. The recent revelation will keep things new and exciting and you already know enough about each other to make it work.
    uh... interesting. my friend and i are actually on the opposite side of that one. but coming from the opposite side (being the 'new girl') i would say you should get to know the new girl that you like. but don't forget about your friend. so maybe just forget about them both.





    Whatever you chose is fine.
    well there has to be some side to them that you have never seen! lol i would spend more time with them and get to know them ALOT! Maybe take them both on dates (not at the same time) and see who you like to spend more time with.....I had the same situation with two guys that were like in love with mee..

    I need advice badly for this girl i like?

    their is this girl i like and shes in like all of my classes we are both in 6th grade and i like her but im not sure if she likes me or not so i just talk to her somtimes but not always. so i need advice really bad!I need advice badly for this girl i like?
    well it depends, some types of girls r easier to understand then others. sometimes it's really easy to tell if they like u or not, but not always. try to talk to her more often, but not too often or shell think its obnoxious. be causual and try not to seem like your trying to impress her. a lot of girls i know change there mind a lot, so she might not like u now, but she may next week.


    signs that she may like u:


    she smiles a lot around u


    she laughs a lot even when something wasnt that funny


    she trys to talk to u every chance she gets


    but then again, some girls like myself r less obvious. just be patient and hope she starts to like you. it depends wat type of girl she is. if u dont notice any difference in a month or two, then u should probably just try to be friends. a lot of girls end up falling for there friends. good luck ;)I need advice badly for this girl i like?
    For one, you are in 6th grade, so you shouldn't worry about middle school relationships. They never last more than 2 weeks (maybe a month if you're lucky) and you never actually ';go out';, you just date during school, so it's a waste of time and emotions.


    Secondly, the fact that you talk to her is good, but you really need to up it a large scale, like have fun conversations about anything (not sex, 6th grade girls find it immature, although, a lot of girls in any grade do). If you have a cell phone, ask for her number sometime (only if you have a cell phone, else you'll be constantly bugged by your parents to get off the home phone). And hell, ask her if she likes you, it's a good possibility she'll say yes.


    Good luck!
    talk to become friends








    you dont need to date, theres no point when your that age
    awww thats so cute!