Please Give me advice!!!!!! Bout A Girl?

wel, i really like this girl called Rachel, she is wel the one I want to spend my life wif. I am now going into 3rd year and I am still to shy to talk to her, even though I really want to. Has anybody got any ideas for me????? To get her to notice me but she is always wif her friends so i cant get talking to her alone. We live in different areas so the only way I can talk to her is in skul or on bebo but her bebo is private.





Please help me!!!Please Give me advice!!!!!! Bout A Girl?
well for a start you should add her on bebo and casually comment her pictures or something. If she replies then it means you can strike up a conversation at school adn she wont dismiss you.


If you're too shy to talk to her then you clearly arent ready for a relationship with her because she hasnt had the oppurtunity to know you well, has she?


So talk to her, find things you have in common with her, act casual, and make friends with her mates so you can be around them when your with rachel.





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I suggest the personal approach first. If I was in her shoes and you went through bebo I would put red flags all on you. Think of something you might have in common, eventually one day you would catch her alone and hopefully on that day you could pick up your balls and talk to her. ';most missed connections are due to someone being to shy';. I mean come on your not going for a homerun on first approach right? So what is there to be scared of? Talk to her, the worst that could happen is she says she's taken but how will you ever know. Please dont let this be something that you will always look back on and say ';what if....?';. I been through that and finally when I told the guy he asked me out but I was in a relationship.
Well mate the first one is proly making her reliase you exist not just by adding on bebo coz there proly is f****** lot other guys ther on her list. DOnt get overwhelmed just a lil challenge. If you either had a moment with her just even a laugh let her know ..... simple things gets the points mate. After you got her attention take out as friends someplace like movie. Then ask her on date. I know these small things can be a bit excrusiating when you want to be with her. Got to understand something she got decide and you got to give her the space so this is one way. Others might have other way.


Its also funny but most girls pass the right guy more often than not. Coz there expectation exceeds their limits lol. Happens both ways i guess maybeeeee. Hope it helps, Hope you win her mate!!
i suggest dont use ';wif'; i dont mean this as an insult its just girls fall for mature guys and that shows some immaturity. approach her, tell her who you are, assert yourself and pretty much make her notice you, but as a mature man not a young boy with a crush, draw her in by being mysterious, compliment a simple thing then totally walk away, she will be like ';whoa...he seriously wasnt just hitting on me??'; so then she will come to you and be more interested. good luck!!! :)
add her on bebo and start talking to her! find out what she likes and get a good conversation going. once you's are friends it should be easy and more comfortable to talk to her in person. if it goes well and after a couple of weeks yous are still good friends, express your feelings to her and see if she feels the same way.





good luck!
turn it into a secret admirer thing. write notes or text her . see what kind of person she likes, foods she like to eat , her favorite color , etc...... share yours with her as well. then, you all will be secret friends. if you feel she has what you like (personality wise) then try to talk to her in person. present yourself with a flower or something simple and inexpensive that she likes. good luck my friend.
add her on bebo and if u dont have ur own make one then add her and then when she adds u message her and talk to her or if u see her at school go up to her even if shes with her friends and ask her to have lunch with you or study after school her friends will think its cute that ur trying and encourge her to get to kno u
You need to just go up to her and ask to speak with her for a moment in private. Tell her that you really like her and ask her out. You never know she just may feel the same. Rejection sucks........ however if you never tell her then you could be missing out on something great! Good Luck!!!
you gotta approach her in school.......... You have to find a way to talk to her...............there are a lot of ways.....may be a common friend can invite you both at the same place, may be you can borrow something from her, may be you can ask something related to ur course, just anything. Find a way out.............you can do it bro!!





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well you should maybe try and accidentally knock her to the ground and when you do quickly help her up like a gentleman and tell her your sorry and then compliment her.





trust me im a girl i know
there is no place for fear in love. If u really want to her to be ur life partner before its too late. If anyone do it before u then u'll never be happy n u'll only feel bad urself. Dont worry bcoz ';Darr Ke Aage Jeet Hai'; All The Best bro..
do something that would get her attention. well, i know it's hard but if you really like her that much, you'll be patient enough to wait. hope i helped you. :)
OK GET HER HOME ADDRESS,,WRITE HER A NICE LONG LETTER,,B HONEST WITH HER,,LET HER NO HOW U REALLY FEEL ABOUT HER,,,AND IF SHE IS INTERESTED IN YOU SHE WILL COME UP TO YOU N START TALKING TO YOU,,GOOD LUCK,,,PEACE
I think you're a little young to be deciding who to spend your life with...





Why dont you add her as a friend on Bebo?

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I need some advice on a girl. Please!!?

I am currently a college student and there is a girl in my science lab who I really like. We get into small talk (about politics, how we are doing in classes, her major etc…) and I can’t tell if she likes me or not. When I talk to her she is always playing with her hair and makes fun of my “coffee addiction.” When we walk past each other on the way to class etc. she smiles and says hi, but I can’t tell if she is just being nice. We are supposed to be studying this weekend for an exam and I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions as to: does she like me, what should I say to find out, if she does what should I do? I really want to approach this from a mature perspective as we are both in our early 20s. I am a pretty shy guy when it comes to girls so any advice would be helpful.I need some advice on a girl. Please!!?
ok so here's the deal, coming from a girl, girl's hate making the first move because we think it's not ';right'; or whatever i don't know, but this is what you should do....exactly. When she's walking go up behind her and tap her on the shoulder and say this, ';hey, um, i was wondering if you wanted to get coffee later.'; a coffee place is the way to go. don't be afraid of rejections, she'll say yes. just do it.I need some advice on a girl. Please!!?
okay well you helped me so ima help you.okay well when a girl makes fun of a guy it means we like them so hint-hint she likes you.:)) also her telling you she is single is her way of saying news flash im all yours another thing is asking her out is a great way to start okay well ask her out and see how it goes


hope i helped you!!!!!;D


sorry im only 13,but still hoped i helped!
first off i don't think that the ex-bf was a hint to that she was single those things like that just come in passing, unless you can honestly say there was a meaning behind it. And i say you go for it, but maybe after your study session becasue if you get turned down, then the whole time won't be awkward. work on being her friend and then ask her out or what not. BUt whatever you do just focus on being her friend becasue it sounds like at this moment thats all she sees you as. but hey thats right now


express your intrest in a flirty way but don't come out and just hit her with it.
Girls are such that if they talk to you at all they probably like you already, so that's good news. Also, if she's nice, she wouldn't make fun of you if she didn't like you. The best way to find out is to ask her out-it might be a bit hard, but ask her out, and tell her you love her.
have more study dates, or invite her to do something. If you're in college then there are always events, speakers, or something going on. Just keep hanging out
well all i can say is that you have to ask her. its the only way you will find any thing out.
You can't really tell if she likes you until you start to hang out more, i'm in a similar situation with a guy who i'm friends with. Just ask to hang out, because supposedly that's the shy guys way of asking a girl out, and go to a movie or something. Do something a little bit more flirtatious than you would normally do, and if she responds positivly, well she may like you
ok... well if it was me.... i'd be just being nice cuz i like always play wif my hair and sometimes not even noticing it. anyways.... just ask her about it. she sounds nice and asking her that will let you know more about her. (you'll C how...if you can figure it out -_-'; lol jk :3)
i'm sure that she's just as shy as you. I'm super outgoing, except when it comes to people i like. that's how everyone knows who i have the hots for. LOL. I think she's just testing the water. It sounds to me like she has an attraction going on but it's up to you to show her that it can be a much deeper, and realer relationship. The beach is a good start. I give u kudos on that one. But find out what she's into.Learn new things to show her you care. Than she'll want to learn about what you like and who you are. (meaning more time together... to show off ur skills maybe?) There are definate sparks... so let them fly!

HELP! I NEED ADVICE ABOUT A GIRL!!! EASY POINTS!!! PLEASE!!!?

So i met this girl last week, who has a boyfriend. We chatted for awhile and got along really well. I had her laughing the whole time. I wasn't going to ask her for her number but it came up, and I got it. We exchanged numbers and then she left a little bit later to go home with her friend.





A few days later, me, her and a few friends were going to hang out - one of those friends being her boyfriend, but by the time I got there she and her boyfriend had left to hang out on their own.





A little later, I found out that some guy told her that I messed with his relationship - which is not true. He spread a rumor to her about me.





Today, I sent a message to her on facebook, telling her that what he said is not true, and he really hates me. I said that another friend of both her and me told me about what she was told. She responded by saying, ';ok thanks.'; I then asked her how an event was tonight in a message and when I got back to my computer, I facebook chatted her saying, ';hey, wats up.'; She did not respond. I need some advice of where to go from here.





I think she's a really cool girl and I really want to be friends with her. I'm being totally honest about this.





Her boyfriend is really chill, and she's the kind of girl who's friends with other guys. Her boyfriend doesn't get the least bit jealous.





A good friend of mine also met her that night, so we kind of have a friend circle. And I know her boyfriend doesn't get jealous, because when me and her traded coats cuz she was cold and we took a picture of it, someone said, ';won't your boyfriend get jealous?'; And she said no.





*Her boyfriend didn't spread the rumor* Someone else did.HELP! I NEED ADVICE ABOUT A GIRL!!! EASY POINTS!!! PLEASE!!!?
you should tell her that you like her and you know she has a bf but you want to hang out sometime i mean she wont mind tell her you don't want to get her bf mad or make her uncomforable being around you if she knows you like her but you want to go out to a restaurant or hang out at ur house or something im sure she will say yes





*and when she leaves give her a kiss on the cheekHELP! I NEED ADVICE ABOUT A GIRL!!! EASY POINTS!!! PLEASE!!!?
Just tell her how you feel. Maybe she feels the same?





Find a way to prove to her it was not you.





Find the root of the rumor and confront him.





It's likely the boyfriend, even if he says otherwise.
WHAT ARE YOU ASKING!?
Your friend seems a lot like me. I have a boyfrend, but i like to hang around guys bcuz they r way kooler than girls. That doesnt mean that i gotta have a ';relationship'; with the guys that i hang with. So i understand where ur coming from. Maybe she is trying to back off a little bit bcuz she doesnt want her boyfriend to think that she is cheating on him. I have had that problem in the the past with one of my guy friends. He ended up txting me and asked if it was ok if we cud just be friends. He told me that wutever i dont wanna do is fine and if i wanna take my boyfriend with us when we go places, thats kool too. My boyfriend is friends with my friend and we keep it kool. Try it. it mite work.
Just dont screw with him and his girl..You can be friends with her but dont screw it up for the guy

I need some Advice about this girl!!!HELP?

ok,, there was one girl in my swimming class, i catched her staring at me all the time, and she always smile to me and sometime try to swim close to me, and many times she try to touch me with her body.but she never talk to me. well i think she likes me too, but i just a ****** SHY boy, u know..i hate myself being like that. everytime when there is a pretty girl try to get close to me i feel very ****** nervouse and SHY. But i really really really want to start a Conversation with this girl in my swimming class, but i just so scare, i dont know why, i started to hate myself a lot becasue i will loose another chance if i still like that. i need some help to overcome my fear. can anyone tell me what to do, how can i build up my confident,





any girls here pleases tell me what was this girl in my swimiming class thinking about? does she like me?





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SOoOO ADORABLE! Say hi and start talking about swimming aske her how long has she been swimming for, how does she like it? Has she been to competitions. I mean you already have one concrete thing in common. You cannot mess it up. SHE LIKES YOU. Go up to her and ask if she would like to practice together or something. She's most likely just waiting for you to initiate. Please dont let her pass by. Tomorrow atleast say hi to her and smile. If you cant start a conversation atleast say hi...it's rare for ppl to neglect a hi. Just say hi as you are walking next to her.





Good luck!I need some Advice about this girl!!!HELP?
well step one you need to try to talk to her and i know this is hard i was like you once you cant just ask if she likes you you need to build a friendship just go up and talk to her man god has no pity for a coward and you will be stuck in this situation otherwise find a common ground that you can both speak about such as swimming and then after a little while ask her if she owuld like to hang out sometime out of swim class
i think she is totally into you. you need to talk to her and get to know her first. it doesnt have to be a relationship at first but instead a friendship. just go up to her and start talkin bout what your interested in or ask her questions. dont think of her as a girl but as another person. youll miss out on A LOT of opportunities in life if you keep it up. believe me it gets easier the more you do it.
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Don't swear around girls... sorry, i just noted that you did that. Girls are major flirts and we normally don't know when a guy's into us. Talk to her about her life- we love to talk about ourselves normally. Ask what kinds of music she likes and listen to that music. Now you have something to talk about with her! You shouldn't talk about swimming, since it could go nowhere whatsoever. I hope this helps, bud!
Yes :) she likes you! Next time she swims by you/touches you, tell her you like her bathing suit or something...but don't be creepy about it. Complementing is always a plus...Maybe after that just start of with a simple convo like the swimming class itself. Just be like...eh you like this class? IDK thats what I would do (as a shy person myself) to start talking to a guy.
first of all DONT SHOW OFF!! thats the last thing a girl wants! lol! ummmm try to just put urself out ther, trust me i kno its annoying wen ppls dont understand and just say ';get out ther'; but i used to be ultra shy too and ppl kept sayin s h i t like dat!! but really u just gotta get out ther and be urself! thats wat i like in a guy, hope i helped!
its simple, just start off asking for her name, ';what's ur name?'; she tells you, then be like, '; im ********* nice to meet you.'; after that your free to ask whatever. just start talking about things thats going on around you. no need to be shy. if she acts like she doesnt want to speak, dont give her the time and day.
okay im a gurl...i think...that gurl is either a whore or she likes u work up some courage and talk to her next time u see her...how old are u?... well yeah talk to her and get to know her if you like her and she likes you than there ya go hope this helps shy boii!!
i am a girl so i think i can help you.Ok soo if she smiles alot and stares at you then she probaly likes you.Has she ever flirted with you?The best thing to do is say hi and see where it takes you.Try making conversation.
well, i can't tell you that she likes you, but i do know that you'll never have a chance with her if you don't overcome your shyness. girls love it when you go out of your way to talk to her. :)
practice talking to other girls that you dont have an interest in a school you could do 20 a day or more girls you dont know girls you know whatever then youll feel better about striking a convo with the girl in question
That;s adorable shy guys are cuties. Yeah she likes you. Just be like '; you're a good swimmer.'; :)) you can;t mess it up with complimentss. :DD


Goood luckk Hunny.
i think you should say hey


and then she'll talk to you


she is probably shy as well





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You just need to overlook the fact of how beautiful she is and find out who she is on the inside.
Alright man, first. Next time she comes up to you and touches you, touch her back. And if she smiles let her take control and it'll be amazing form then on.
if she comes near you, say hi and ask her how is her day going. just strike up a simple conversation. and you'll get somewhere from there.
just start with a hello
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yeah, i think she does like you. go up and talk to her. and if your really shy, when you catch her looking at you, smile at her.


go up to her and say hi, from there the conversation will flow.


you could start a conversation about swimming maybe or something.


compliment her on something. she would really like that.





you could also ask an open- ended question. if you ask a question that just requires a yes or no the conversation wont flow and it will end quite fast.





act quickly when you see her looking at you. if you take too long you may start to loose your courage. don't think about what your going to say or what your going to do. that would really make you lose your courage faster.





if you stay shy you will miss some really good chances in life. :)





hope this helps you. good luck. :-D
you have nothing to lose by making a fool of yourself, if thats what you're afraid of then just go out on a limb and be yourself the worst that could happen is shes not into you but from her behavior i think shes into you just stop asking yourself what if i say something stupid , what would this world be if everybody was so serious all the time just play along with her and start some conversation , ask her what she likes to do , what her fav color is even if its monotonous and you really dont give a rats *** either way just keep the mouth moving, i used to be like this and i regret every moment of it ive missed out on some pretty good girls because of my awkwardness of myself





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okay. if your a shy guys, then just start out talking to her. Take a deep breath before approaching her. If you feel like you dont have any confidence, FAKE IT. soon enough, your brain will forget about the awkwardness and you will start to relax. try being her friend first. you dont necessarily need to be flirty right from the get go. just introduce yourself, it will open the door for future possibilities. Just have a general conversation:





Guy: Hey, i always see you here. You're a great swimmer. how long have you been swimming?





Girl: a couple months/years/etc.





Guy: Oh, really. thats cool. do you do any other sports (surf, play beach volleyball, etc)





just keep it casual, make sure you get her name so next time you see her you can say ';Hi'; to her and mention her name (eg. ';Hi Daisy';) She will feel more comfortable and that you actually listen and remember what she says (:

I need some advice about this girl . . ?

So heres the story. Back about a week ago I found out that this girl I've been seeing was seeing another guy. She didn't know that I found out from one of her friends that was my friends. So to make a long story short, I asked her to hang out what night and she said that she couldn't cause she was busy. Later that day I found out that she was going up to this bar with the dude she was seeing.M e and a couple of my friends set it up that when she and this dude would come up to the bar the same night that I was going to be up there with all of my friends and call her out. So When they came in there I just let her have it by yelling at her as soon as the dude kissed her and walked away for a second. When he came back within the 5 mins he was gone she ended up leaving very upset. It's been about a week and a half since I talked to her. The thing I want to know is should I even say anything to her, I keep thinking about her and what she is up to. I am still hurt about this and its bugging me to find out why the hell she would even do this. Should I say anything to her? I don't want to be the one crawling back talking to her. Any advice?I need some advice about this girl . . ?
you need to move on. you need to find someone who would treat you better than that. if you did mean anything to this girl she'll be the one trying to get in contact with you.I need some advice about this girl . . ?
Well she is probably mad at you for the way you handled the situation (not saying you were in the wrong or anything) So if anything I would email her and leave it up to her if she wanted to contact you back. It sounds like you're not completely over everything that happened, which could cause another argument. I thinks it's best if you both move on.
Ok i think you shouldn't go back unless you KNOW she likes you if you really want. But ask her why. Be open, but try not to get her mad, if you know what im saying ;). If she didn't know you liked her then its not her fault. You know? Because she wouldn't have known! So make it clear that the reason you yelled is because you liked her.
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Im sorry about that..


hmmm, advice,...


Wait a little while longer, but not to long, see if she wants to get together and ask her what's she been up to.


Or you could just tell her the truth, or just leave it alone.


Do what you think is best ;)
Dude c'mon you don't need that crap. Let it go. Dating girls is like selling vacuum cleaners...knock on enough doors and you WILL make a sale.
let it go... shes not worth it
she NOT worth it ! and don't give in if SHE comes crawling back to you!
No way. Get over her. She's so not worth your time. Don't even think about her and don't think why she would do that. Some people are just naturally shallow.
she is a *****//// u should forget her....


and fine someone worth it
well i would be hurt if a guy said that to me.


but if you can't stop thinking about her .text her and say i'm sorry (:


it will work out
K, here is the honest truth. If she was seeing another guy she probably wasn't that into you in the first place. You ambushing her at the bar probably voided any interest she may have still had for you, and then not talking to her for about a week, that s bad too. If you wanted to save the situation you should have called her the following day to apologize. But by now, there is most likely no hope. Especially since I'm sure you caused a scene. But what do I know? I'm just a woman, right? Maybe there is a chance. I doubt it tho. Best of luck.

LADIES: I need advice with this girl?

Alright so i'm 15 and she's 14. I talk to her all the time on msn and in real life we meet up with other people and hang out. I really like her, and I think she has feelings for me but she just can't seem to take my hints. My friend is her Ex- and says that she makes things really akward and I can see how he says that, but he was also a bit of a jerk to her. Recently I got the feeling I talked to her too much, and now she isn't as outgoing in our conversations and text messages. Maybe its just me But I feel like I pushed her away some how...


I'm going to tell her I like her when she gets back from her cottage on Saturday but I'm not sure if she likes me or not because I don't want to ruin the friendship I have with her, by making things awkward when were together. So what do you ladies out there think I should do??? ( tips ect.)LADIES: I need advice with this girl?
If telling her you like her ruins your friendship, then you obviously have to rethink the friendship. I liked a guy when I was in my freshman year of high school, and he was a senior. Well, when I finally plucked up enough courage to tell him, I thought it was going to change everything between us - the friendship we had built, etc. Well, it didn't, and the two of us hanging out now or even after I told him isn't awkward or anything. Even if she rejects you, just try to act like things are the same as they've always been, because even if they change, everything will eventually have to fall into place. But if you bringing your feelings for her into play changes your friendship in anyway, it can't be a very strong friendship. Take that into account also. Ask her to take a walk and talk to her and just bring it up and gauge her reaction. Good luck.LADIES: I need advice with this girl?
Well since you feel that she's pushed you away, why don't you wait a while?





Let her get settled back in, let her relax from her trip.


Make sure not to start the conversations, let her try.


Wait a little whilte longer for your friendship to get baxk on track and develop, and when you feel like she's really catching on, then you tell her.





You see what I mean?





Hm, well good luck %26amp; hope this helps!
ok i think you should talk to your friend that dated her b/c she knows her bteer adn she what she has to say about it and eveyrhting and if you don't mind ever seeing this girl again then ask her but maybe if you are not pretty sure that she doens't like you then don't tll her get to know her until yshe ives you the hints
I think you need to give her a compliment just 1 compliment and see how she reacts if it is a loving look then she likes it but if it is a look she would give one of her girlfriends when they compliment her then she doesn't like u
tell her how you feel... nothing gets accomplished if you wait for her to say it or not say it at all... life is too short just do it
just telll her wat u feel





if u dont.... u will never find out if she likes u 2





if u do .....then she might like u too





good luck
tell hertheres nothin to lose
take a chance


ask her out


hope it works out


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Tell her that u like her and if she doesn't feel the same way, then tell her ';It's alright. we could just stay friends then.';
i agree with hayhay
tell her you like her
She dated your friend. Why would you even think about going out with her?
just bee cool... but try not to be to cool we dont like that, but just tell her how you feel and she will/might understand where your comming from.
i think you should talk to her. tell her how you feel and hope for the best.
tell her how you feel
i think u should take a chance and ask her! good luck! :)
Ok well she I am the same way to my boyfriend I dont always act as happy and outgoing as I first did but it is proably because she feels comfortable with you now and doesnt feel the need to try as hard to get your attetion or to like her adn not thin shes weird. i would tell her how you feel even if its a chance the friendship could be ruined because you never know if she likes you back you mite miss an opportunity of a lifetime and if your that good of friends if she rejects you then youll work through the weirdness. good luck !!!! ~鈾
Well idk but by the way u talk about her u must really like her so here is the plan.......dont talk to her for a few days if she doesnt talk to you then go ahead and talk to her but dont show off and flirt yet......then when you guys are almost or completley alone say( i was wondering.......if she really likes you her face will get eager and she will search your eyes for what you are gonna say next if not give it a try she just might be playin hard to get but no matter what if you like her go for it :)-summer(good luck)

I need some advice on a girl?

My best friend is a girl i went to high school with and i have grown to really like her. I am in the army and she goes to college about 5 hours away from me. I am getting ready to go to a school on monday. I really want to tell her before i leave, but dont know if i should because i dont want her to feel uncomfortable around me. I get the feeling everytime we hang out that she likes me to. If you think i should tell her how should i do it, because i would rather do it in person but wont be able to go home for months


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Just tell her! Yeah, it may be nerve-wracking but otherwise you'll never have a chance. If she rejects you, oh well... you're five hours away from her! But if she likes you too, you guys can make it work. Oh, and if Obama gets elected, the army thing won't be a problem anymore! :D Don't be nervous.JUST DO IT! :DI need some advice on a girl?
Put some flowers on the kitchen! My sis in law is a great lady and she called me and told me she loved the flowers! i am a big sis and sent the flowers! They were sent my him and he asked me to send them to her! It is our secret! I wanted her to be special! He is my buddy and big sis sends flowers to a sis inlaw. I love her!!!
GROW SOME BALLS AND TELL HER!!!





If she rejects you, you can atleast say you tryed.
Tell her. If it doesn't work out, then you'll be far away from her. If it does, give her your email and tele # and keep in touch!
you should tell her how you feel and she may end up feeling the same way about you



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